"Sorry my fault" sign?
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nomisesor

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Thursday 24th February 2011
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Following the fight-in-traffic thread, where everyone is right and hard as nails or had a mate who was, or, conversely, realised that their victory / beans / one finger / A-hole sign had resulted in a potentially lethal situation... is there a universally accepted "Sorry my fault" sign?

I can't think of one.

Now everyone whose on PH is a perfect driver so this may be a stupid question, but do we need one?

What should it be?

Should it be in the Highway Code and part of the driving test?

ewenm

28,506 posts

261 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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Open hand, slight dip of the head.

m3jappa

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234 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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I think its a sort of hold the hand up and duck/lower head to acknowledge fault.

Papa Hotel

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198 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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Hand up, fingers together, pointing upwards, palm towards the other person. Say the word sorry. Seems quite easy.

R1 Loon

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193 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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How can people not know this? Is that why the ignorant bds never acknowledge the person who has given way to them anymore?

twazzock

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185 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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Make a fist, with your palm facing towards you, then abruptly raise your middle finger. Keep a straight face.

Easy.

anonymous-user

70 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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I hear in certain parts of the Phillipines waving a .357 out of the window is the accepted sign.

nomisesor

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Thursday 24th February 2011
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Fair enough - hand up / quick flash of full beam works well for oncoming traffic as a "thanks" for letting you through ... but the question is the tailgating full beam nutter - how do you let them know you don't want a fight?

ETA handsup handsup handsup

Zod

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Thursday 24th February 2011
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Papa Hotel said:
Hand up, fingers together, pointing upwards, palm towards the other person. Say the word sorry. Seems quite easy.
yes

R1 Loon

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193 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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nomisesor said:
Fair enough - hand up / quick flash of full beam works well for oncoming traffic as a "thanks" for letting you through ... but the question is the tailgating full beam nutter - how do you let them know you don't want a fight?
You don't you only have the option of either a dirty fight with knives, baseball bats and other miscellaneous items, or a clean fight according to the Queensbury rules. However, either one is a fight to the death and the winner gets to eat the loser's family afterwards.

ewenm

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261 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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nomisesor said:
Fair enough - hand up / quick flash of full beam works well for oncoming traffic as a "thanks" for letting you through ... but the question is the tailgating full beam nutter - how do you let them know you don't want a fight?

ETA handsup handsup handsup
Let them past or flip your mirror to the "dipped" position (or whatever it's called), increase your reaction distance to the car ahead and ignore the tailgater.

Phil Dicky

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279 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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m3jappa said:
I think its a sort of hold the hand up and duck/lower head to acknowledge fault.
This is what i do...though not very often
yeah whatever

Speedracer329

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193 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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I do the mime for shooting myself in the head when I make a judgement error, seems to stop them raging & encourages them to smile back at me!

m3jappa

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234 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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It is amazing how little trouble you get yourself into when being courteous, i like to have manners and it appears that others like this too.

I get into little to no trouble on the roads.


That said i did change lanes today on the a12 and the bloke behind had his hands in the air like i'd done some sort of crazy move (indicated and had plenty of space and did't even come close to cutting him up). These people i find are the ones who tut and shake their heads at everything so a little gesture of a dhead sign is often given while laughing, (you remember the one 10 year olds used to do) Leaving them in what looks like shock biglaugh

Matt UK

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216 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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Papa Hotel said:
Hand up, fingers together, pointing upwards, palm towards the other person. Say the word sorry. Seems quite easy.
Exactly.

The fact we have a thread title asking what the 'sorry my fault' sign speaks volumes... rolleyes

Mr2Mike

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271 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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Speedracer329 said:
I do the mime for shooting myself in the head when I make a judgement error, seems to stop them raging & encourages them to smile back at me!
That sign could be interpreted very differently IMO, and in a way likely to really piss someone off.

911motorsport

7,251 posts

249 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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Both palms flat against the windscreen and a cheeky grin

TheMoron

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176 months

Thursday 24th February 2011
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Smash face on steering wheel. Repeat.

TM

nomisesor

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Friday 25th February 2011
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Mr2Mike said:
Speedracer329 said:
I do the mime for shooting myself in the head when I make a judgement error, seems to stop them raging & encourages them to smile back at me!
That sign could be interpreted very differently IMO, and in a way likely to really piss someone off.
Agree - could be interpreted as finger to head and rotation = you[other driver]'ve a screw loose.

nomisesor

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Friday 25th February 2011
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911motorsport said:
Both palms flat against the windscreen and a cheeky grin
Or wave a couple of spoons, a feather boa, and a saucepan.....

Edited by nomisesor on Friday 25th February 22:18