Being told " I don't love you anymore"
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Initforthemoney said:
GT03ROB said:
George Smiley said:
Sa Calobra said:
George Smiley said:
Child maintenance or slag tax?
On the flip side, you swing your led around you'd better be willing to pay for the impact. George Smiley said:
Go back read my story. I’d wager most separated fathers is the result of a cheating cum bucket.
It usually takes two, one of each sex to cheat, married or not.It is not a mutually exclusive activity of women.
And there is usually a reason for it and two sides to every break up, something that many posting here seem to forget or ignore.
CharlesdeGaulle said:
Quite. The irony is strong in that George Smiley got all petulant when I commented robustly on one of his more stupid posts and didn't seem to like it when he said 'you wouldn't say that to my face' and I assured him that I would. My post was removed after that and I had a nice message from the mods!
That message was deleted for good reason. Referring to my ex as a cum bucket is an accurate depiction and is different to you implying some sort of sausage hammering in my back yard George Smiley said:
CharlesdeGaulle said:
Quite. The irony is strong in that George Smiley got all petulant when I commented robustly on one of his more stupid posts and didn't seem to like it when he said 'you wouldn't say that to my face' and I assured him that I would. My post was removed after that and I had a nice message from the mods!
That message was deleted for good reason. Referring to my ex as a cum bucket is an accurate depiction and is different to you implying some sort of sausage hammering in my back yard George Smiley said:
CharlesdeGaulle said:
Quite. The irony is strong in that George Smiley got all petulant when I commented robustly on one of his more stupid posts and didn't seem to like it when he said 'you wouldn't say that to my face' and I assured him that I would. My post was removed after that and I had a nice message from the mods!
That message was deleted for good reason. Referring to my ex as a cum bucket is an accurate depiction and is different to you implying some sort of sausage hammering in my back yard I suspect I'm not the only one that holds that view based on your attitude and posts here.
George Smiley said:
You’re right, an over reaction on my part and my testy posts on here aren’t a real reflection on myself. I guess the past two years have been trying at home and work and I’ve allowed that to safely spill out in an anonymous forum.
Back on topic
The reality is that what and how we post on here most likely is a true reflection of ourselves Back on topic
George Smiley said:
You’re right, an over reaction on my part and my testy posts on here aren’t a real reflection on myself. I guess the past two years have been trying at home and work and I’ve allowed that to safely spill out in an anonymous forum.
Back on topic
Yeah, nicely put, and definitely time to move on. You've obviously been through the wringer; I hope your circumstances are happier now. Back on topic
Well it's been a few days without an update.
Hopefully Funky's wifes family haven't shown up taken their daughters side completely and given him a beating.
Then taking the decision to leave the house out of his hands by throwing him out via the back door followed by 2 suitcases of clothes.
Hopefully Funky's wifes family haven't shown up taken their daughters side completely and given him a beating.
Then taking the decision to leave the house out of his hands by throwing him out via the back door followed by 2 suitcases of clothes.
techie Dave said:
Then taking the decision to leave the house out of his hands by throwing him out via the back door followed by 2 suitcases of clothes.
Funily enough even now if I need a suitcase to go on holiday I borrow one from my parents.
You know what is the most arkward aspect of my divorce is/was?
Everyone keeps offering support,
if you need to talk, must be a hard time you are going through... Etc etc
But it's not all all. Once I filed for divorce, decree nisi was granted etc, I had been through all the stages of grief and she was in the past.
But you can't say "I'm well rid of her, she was nuts" can you so you try to look sombre and thank them for offering the support.
Everyone keeps offering support,
if you need to talk, must be a hard time you are going through... Etc etc
But it's not all all. Once I filed for divorce, decree nisi was granted etc, I had been through all the stages of grief and she was in the past.
But you can't say "I'm well rid of her, she was nuts" can you
so you try to look sombre and thank them for offering the support.hyphen said:
You know what is the most arkward aspect of my divorce is/was?
Everyone keeps offering support,
if you need to talk, must be a hard time you are going through... Etc etc
But it's not all all. Once I filed for divorce, decree nisi was granted etc, I had been through all the stages of grief and she was in the past.
But you can't say "I'm well rid of her, she was nuts" can you so you try to look sombre and thank them for offering the support.
Depends on your divorce really.Everyone keeps offering support,
if you need to talk, must be a hard time you are going through... Etc etc
But it's not all all. Once I filed for divorce, decree nisi was granted etc, I had been through all the stages of grief and she was in the past.
But you can't say "I'm well rid of her, she was nuts" can you
so you try to look sombre and thank them for offering the support.I would have loved some support from anyone,even internet strangers, when I found myself on anti depressants, unemployed lying on the sofa all day,afraid to answer the door and finally taking an overdose which was then used against me as another reason why I wasnt fit to see my children.
Some have it easier than others, its good you didnt need so much support,but many many do.
bristolracer said:
hyphen said:
You know what is the most arkward aspect of my divorce is/was?
Everyone keeps offering support,
if you need to talk, must be a hard time you are going through... Etc etc
But it's not all all. Once I filed for divorce, decree nisi was granted etc, I had been through all the stages of grief and she was in the past.
But you can't say "I'm well rid of her, she was nuts" can you so you try to look sombre and thank them for offering the support.
Depends on your divorce really.Everyone keeps offering support,
if you need to talk, must be a hard time you are going through... Etc etc
But it's not all all. Once I filed for divorce, decree nisi was granted etc, I had been through all the stages of grief and she was in the past.
But you can't say "I'm well rid of her, she was nuts" can you
so you try to look sombre and thank them for offering the support.I would have loved some support from anyone,even internet strangers, when I found myself on anti depressants, unemployed lying on the sofa all day,afraid to answer the door and finally taking an overdose which was then used against me as another reason why I wasnt fit to see my children.
Some have it easier than others, its good you didnt need so much support,but many many do.
Ilovejapcrap said:
Brave post Bristol and good point. Hope your ok
Yes fine now thank you. It was a long time ago now, 17 years ago, very happily remarried, good relationship with my children and am in a very different place compared to then.
I would never have believed that back then and that's why the objectivity and support of friends and family are so important.
Never be afraid to say 'are you ok?' to somebody.
I've often said on this thread 'chin up, it will get better' there is life post divorce and generally it's a better life than you had before.
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