Putting money aside for kids
Putting money aside for kids
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bmwmike

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8,116 posts

127 months

Wednesday 21st June 2017
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Apologies if this has been done recently already?

Lets say i have two kids, 7 and 5, and so far only putting money aside for the eldest because we setup a CTF with the (then) government contribution. Also has a NSANDI bond at 2.5% which is fixed till June 2020 but haven't been using it.

Originally my plan for youngest was to match whatever the eldest came out with. I think that might be foolish over a long run, and perhaps unfair.

So I want to set something up now for both on a pro rated equal footing. The CTF can go as the return seems poor (haven't checked in a while).

Curious what other folks are doing? Child ISA ? In cash or stocks ? Lump sum and leave it or drip money in?

Anyone worried that the kid gets access at 18 without any parental oversight?

Thanks
Mike

Jockman

18,315 posts

179 months

Wednesday 21st June 2017
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Pensions.

Other options are available.

drainbrain

5,637 posts

130 months

Wednesday 21st June 2017
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Edgey Kayshun (of one kind or another)

Then you really don't need to bother trying to do it the other way.

Get it right they'll just laugh at you and tell you to spend it on yourself.


BoRED S2upid

20,862 posts

259 months

Wednesday 21st June 2017
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Child ISA stocks that mirrors ours doing pretty well so far should be a nice little nest egg to fund Uni or something else if they don't go.

LordHaveMurci

12,299 posts

188 months

Wednesday 21st June 2017
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We have an investment trust for our two, sadly it all got mixed up & we've ended up with 1 trust for both of them, that's going to be a PITA making sure they both get the same, especially as our youngest also has a CTF with the basic Goverment contribution.

lukefreeman

1,500 posts

194 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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drainbrain said:
Edgey Kayshun (of one kind or another)
Always wondered about this.......I'm not being facetious here, but why donate money to service student debt?

Wouldn't you and your child be better off if you just gifted them a deposit to a house in the future, rather than fund university? Uni debt while on the surface seems a lot, the interest rate makes it easily manageable, compared to say paying for their fees, then making them save for a deposit post uni.

bmwmike

Original Poster:

8,116 posts

127 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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lukefreeman said:
drainbrain said:
Edgey Kayshun (of one kind or another)
Always wondered about this.......I'm not being facetious here, but why donate money to service student debt?

Wouldn't you and your child be better off if you just gifted them a deposit to a house in the future, rather than fund university? Uni debt while on the surface seems a lot, the interest rate makes it easily manageable, compared to say paying for their fees, then making them save for a deposit post uni.
I assumed braindrain was talking about private education prior to university. It's something I've considered but depends on costs (why not tax deductible!).

Some good points here thanks a lot. The take away I've got at moment is... what is the objective.. university, house deposit, lump sum.. etc

covmutley

3,254 posts

209 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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My 3 had CTF's. I hadn't paid attention of them for a while. On checking, they ranged from not very good to rubbish.

I have now (very easily and painlessly) transferred them to JISA's with BestInvest. Once there, I have invested their money into a range of index type funds that seem to average around 9% or better.

I have ISA with BestInvest too, and i can link my kids accounts to mine, so i can now see all our live investments on their web portal. its great to see exactly where the money is invseted and how it is performing.

GT03ROB

13,921 posts

240 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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drainbrain said:
Edgey Kayshun (of one kind or another)

Then you really don't need to bother trying to do it the other way.

Get it right they'll just laugh at you and tell you to spend it on yourself.
An interesting approach. My son had the "benefit" of an expensive education. I asked him a couple of years ago, would you have preferred to have the education or the cash spent on it. He's not particularly materialistic, but said that on reflection he would rather take the cash.

drainbrain

5,637 posts

130 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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Education can take many many forms, and certainly doesn't have to be formal or academic although it certainly can be. But it inevitably opens a gateway to opportunity which, again, can take many many forms.

I think it's also a mistake to over focus on childrens' material future. In the final analysis I'm sure we'd prefer our kids to feel as adults that they were fulfilled and satisfied rather than merely well off, although the two needn't be mutually exclusive.

My personal observation is that there's also a large chunk of "what's for you won't go by you" in this life, regardless of how others try to 'tee it up' for their kids.

But obviously it's very nice to discover your parents have tucked away a nest egg to give you a good direction at one of life's critical junctions. In my case, it was an endowment my old single parent da (a special ed. teacher) had paid into till it matured when I was 21. I really really didn't need it and convinced him to keep it for himself instead. It wasn't hard to do because he was well aware I'd have just squandered it anyway. I suppose that's the biggest 'risk' of putting money aside for kids.

LordHaveMurci

12,299 posts

188 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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drainbrain said:
Education can take many many forms, and certainly doesn't have to be formal or academic although it certainly can be. But it inevitably opens a gateway to opportunity which, again, can take many many forms.

I think it's also a mistake to over focus on childrens' material future. In the final analysis I'm sure we'd prefer our kids to feel as adults that they were fulfilled and satisfied rather than merely well off, although the two needn't be mutually exclusive.

My personal observation is that there's also a large chunk of "what's for you won't go by you" in this life, regardless of how others try to 'tee it up' for their kids.

But obviously it's very nice to discover your parents have tucked away a nest egg to give you a good direction at one of life's critical junctions. In my case, it was an endowment my old single parent da (a special ed. teacher) had paid into till it matured when I was 21. I really really didn't need it and convinced him to keep it for himself instead. It wasn't hard to do because he was well aware I'd have just squandered it anyway. I suppose that's the biggest 'risk' of putting money aside for kids.
This is why we decided on Investment Trusts for our two, CTF's or JISA's become theirs at 16, the IT remains in our name & we control how & when that money is spent.

My parents also put aside (a very small amount of) money in endownments for myself & my 3 siblings, like you I persuaded my Mum to keep mine as I didn't need it at 21 though I did have a small one at 16 which bought me a suit for job interviews!

PhilboSE

5,529 posts

245 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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You want to be investing in tax free wrappers, so for children that's JISAs and pensions. The CTF market is dead so convert the CTF to a JISA. Cash or S&S depending on your preference (most would say to go for S&S).

If you want to make further contributions then it's up to you to choose which wrapper - a good provider will offer identical investment options in either.

(J)ISAs: instant access, may be a good thing, may be a bad thing as child gets full ownership when they're 18. Up to £4080 can go in each tax year until they're 18.
Pensions: you can contribute up to £2880 each tax year and they get a 20% topup from HMRC to make it £3600. Locked away until they're aged 55 minimum, unless they're stupid and access it early and pay the massive penalties.

From aged 16 the child also gets the full £20,000 ISA allowance but only to go in a cash ISA until they're 18. At that point it could be converted to a S&S ISA so worth using their annual allowance, if you have the spare cash.

Remember that on any investment vehicle other than (J)ISA & pension, if the money to seed it came from the parents then any income over £100 has to pay income tax at the parental rate

Phil.

5,576 posts

269 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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Nationwide are offering 3% on a junior isa, which could provide you with a simple starting point:

http://www.nationwide.co.uk/products/savings/junio...

mikeh501

798 posts

200 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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Both of my 2 have had CTFs since day 1 under old gordons scheme, and we had 2 savings accounts with halifax as well.

Basically the CTFs were complete crap, bad value and high charges for what is basically a passive tracker - and a tracker which is really poor with the halifax/hbos.

I've recently moved the CTFs into JISA on the HL platform and invested them into a fairly diverse portfolio which ill fiddle with over the years. The process was painless tbh. Remember the money is theirs from 16, and you couldnt stop them spunking it up the wall if they wished to.

The savings accounts i've combined and put into a S&S ISA in the wife's name again invested in a similar way. We will likely keep this back from the kids until they actually need it - house, whatever etc.

.... and today i've just setup 2 x SIPPs for them. Gonna put a few K in each, and hopefully the powers of compounding in some cheap trackers will be a good kickstart to their pensions way way down the line.

Jockman

18,315 posts

179 months

Thursday 22nd June 2017
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Not to mention the tax relief.

I put £80 per month into 7 kid / grandkids pensions and the govt tops this up to £100 every time.