Real problem or just another Darwin award nominee?

Real problem or just another Darwin award nominee?

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Mr Whippy

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29,116 posts

243 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/8141696.stm

As terrible as it is I can't believe the step mother wants to boycott a whole bloody town because they have tall cliffs!

How hard is it to know a cliff has a big drop off the edge? How hard to stay away? You could reason that a fence would imply safety when the fundamental location is still highly risky (ie, how many would fall off the fence because they were sitting on it etc)


Makes me mad. Be an angry upset mother, but the worry I have is that these people actually get listened to and responded to!

Big drop, stay away. Safe.

Dave

Horse_Apple

3,795 posts

244 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Mr Whippy said:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/8141696.stm

As terrible as it is I can't believe the step mother wants to boycott a whole bloody town because they have tall cliffs!

How hard is it to know a cliff has a big drop off the edge? How hard to stay away? You could reason that a fence would imply safety when the fundamental location is still highly risky (ie, how many would fall off the fence because they were sitting on it etc)


Makes me mad. Be an angry upset mother, but the worry I have is that these people actually get listened to and responded to!

Big drop, stay away. Safe.

Dave
This is not 'cliff error' or 'town error' but simple human error. Didn't the mother educate the boy to not go near the edge? Had he been drinking?

Poor sod, but bloody stupid sod.

mechsympathy

53,032 posts

257 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Mr Whippy said:
Makes me mad. Be an angry upset mother, but the worry I have is that these people actually get listened to and responded to!
yesWhen will people learn you cannot wrap your kids up in cotton wool. Nevermind that he was 16 and really should have known better.

Chris_w666

22,655 posts

201 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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I know grieving people are irrational and losing a kid must be hard.

But why does our society always look for someone to blame?

How many thousand people go there every year and manage not to fall off the cliffs?

Some people just need to learn not to do stupid stuff the hard way, if we wrap everyone in cotton wool we will just live like zombies forever.

Jezza30

264 posts

181 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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If she's going to be that critical, why as such a caring parent was her darling son allowed out drinking aged 16 - boycott drink next???


Dr_Gonzo

959 posts

227 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Jezza30 said:
If she's going to be that critical, why as such a caring parent was her darling son allowed out drinking aged 16 - boycott drink next???
yes Did she think 16 year olds + alcohol + cliffs was a good idea?

Bullett

10,894 posts

186 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Tragic but...

He was drinking and probably messing about with his mates, he made a mistake, it killed him. We have all got up after drinking and thought what was I doing last night? that was really stupid. Most of us make it, some don't.

The mrs said there should have been a fence. I said thousands of people manage to not fall down the cliff (drunk or not) you can't protect people 100%.

Horse_Apple

3,795 posts

244 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Bullett said:
Tragic but...

He was drinking and probably messing about with his mates, he made a mistake, it killed him. We have all got up after drinking and thought what was I doing last night? that was really stupid. Most of us make it, some don't.

The mrs said there should have been a fence. I said thousands of people manage to not fall down the cliff (drunk or not) you can't protect people 100%.
Would a fence not impact the civil liberties of people wanting to jump off the cliff?

militantmandy

3,829 posts

188 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Ban cliffs! They're a menace to the youth of Britain!

stuttgartmetal

8,110 posts

218 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Its usually drink and swimming that kills the yoofs at the seaside.

Don

28,377 posts

286 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Being alive is dangerous. You are alive at your own risk.

Grieving relatives should never be allowed to make any decisions about anything. I've experienced real grief and it is nigh on impossible to remain fully rational during it. It's why families fall out at those times.

Menguin

3,764 posts

223 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Don said:
You are alive at your own risk.
I like that, we should have signs EVERYWHERE with that written on it.

V8mate

45,899 posts

191 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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militantmandy said:
Ban cliffs! They're a menace to the youth of Britain!
Ban unlicensed procreation. It's a menace to Britain.

T89 Callan

8,422 posts

195 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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V8mate said:
militantmandy said:
Ban cliffs! They're a menace to the youth of Britain!
Ban unlicensed procreation. It's a menace to Britain.
BAN EVERYTHING!!!!!! BAN IT ALL!!!!!!!!! EVERYTHING KILLS EVRYONE!!!!!!! BAN IT NOW!!!!!

Russ35

2,498 posts

241 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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stuttgartmetal said:
Its usually drink and swimming that kills the yoofs at the seaside.
In Blackpool there are plenty of drownings with drink involved, but the other cause is people jumping in to save their dogs.

A couple of years ago a father drowned in front of his daughter when trying to save their dog. A couple of years before that 2 local teenagers drowned trying to save a dog, and then the worst being 1983 when a holiday maker went in to try to save his dog, and then 3 police officers went in to to try and save him. All four + the dog drowned.


Blib

44,340 posts

199 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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It's of no consequence anyhoo.

In a few short years, thanks to Glurble Wombling, it will be but a small step down from the top of the cliffs into the surf below.

It'll be like stepping off a curb.

Problem solved.

V8mate

45,899 posts

191 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Blib said:
It'll be like stepping off a curb.
Is it possible to step off a verb? Irrelevant of height.

Blib

44,340 posts

199 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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V8mate said:
Blib said:
It'll be like stepping off a curb.
Is it possible to step off a verb? Irrelevant of height.
Oh fk! I've mixed up my 'kerb' with my 'curb'.

I'm off to the nearest cliff.

paperbag

scotal

8,751 posts

281 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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article said:
But a spokesman for Devon and Cornwall Police said: "Newquay is a safe place as long as you come here with a degree of common sense and a degree of responsibility.
Well said D&C police

stuttgartmetal

8,110 posts

218 months

Friday 10th July 2009
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Russ35 said:
stuttgartmetal said:
Its usually drink and swimming that kills the yoofs at the seaside.
In Blackpool there are plenty of drownings with drink involved, but the other cause is people jumping in to save their dogs.

A couple of years ago a father drowned in front of his daughter when trying to save their dog. A couple of years before that 2 local teenagers drowned trying to save a dog, and then the worst being 1983 when a holiday maker went in to try to save his dog, and then 3 police officers went in to to try and save him. All four + the dog drowned.
a lot of the time, the dog makes it.


I think the statistics are 90% of drownings of ages 17 to 35 involve alcohol.