Do you live where you grew up?

Do you live where you grew up?

Poll: Do you live where you grew up?

Total Members Polled: 384

Same place (within 5 miles): 31%
Same region: 19%
Same country: 38%
Same continent: 6%
Other continent: 6%
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Slow.Patrol

561 posts

16 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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I've almost gone full circle and now live 23 miles from where I was born.

My parents moved away when I was two and then again when I was 16, to the east coast - 150 miles away. Where I stayed for 45 years. Then I retired and decided I didn't like the coast anymore and moved back home. Loving it so far.

cheesejunkie

2,684 posts

19 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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Slow.Patrol said:
I've almost gone full circle and now live 23 miles from where I was born.

My parents moved away when I was two and then again when I was 16, to the east coast - 150 miles away. Where I stayed for 45 years. Then I retired and decided I didn't like the coast anymore and moved back home. Loving it so far.
Funny, I miss the coast, I love the freezing cold water the sights and the smells. I've people trying to convince me that a land locked county is full of scenery and I just think they're daft but I'm wise enough not to say it out loud smile

GetCarter

29,436 posts

281 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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Where I grew up, population density 5,598/km2
Where I now live: 1.6/km2

For me a no brainer (though I understand that others like crowds).

Nomme de Plum

4,699 posts

18 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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GetCarter said:
Where I grew up, population density 5,598/km2
Where I now live: 1.6/km2

For me a no brainer (though I understand that others like crowds).
I absolutely loved living and working in London and had that great city been located on the coast like Southampton or Portsmouth i would never have moved away. I was born by the sea and it's in my blood so nearly every weekend would be spent on the coast somewhere. Now retired I cannot imagine living away from the sea and can walk to the beach and harbour in just a few minutes.

London is less than 90 mins away by train and a reasonable size city a few km away so IMO i now have the best of all worlds.



BossHogg

6,045 posts

180 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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I much prefer the quiet seaside town I live in now, opposed to the madhouse that is Liverpool. wink

x5tuu

11,972 posts

189 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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My main residence is only about 30 miles from where I grew up, but I do split my time between the UK and the USA and/or UAE depending on work etc. so left it as main residence location.

I do expect this to shift into "Other continent" in the coming years but you never know!

sinbaddio

2,384 posts

178 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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Grew up in Rochdale - could not wait to leave.

Stints in my early 20's in London & Oxford. Then moved to Shrewsbury and now settled for 10 years in Nantwich, south Cheshire.

stemll

4,129 posts

202 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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Born in the North East, grew up in Staffs and Beds, now live in Bucks. Never followed my sister or parents to the Isle of Man.

Slow.Patrol

561 posts

16 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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cheesejunkie said:
Funny, I miss the coast, I love the freezing cold water the sights and the smells. I've people trying to convince me that a land locked county is full of scenery and I just think they're daft but I'm wise enough not to say it out loud smile
Actually, we do have a holiday house which is on the coast. We tend to spend most of January there. I hate the coast during school holidays.

Jasandjules

70,012 posts

231 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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Uh, I grew up on different continents....... Sooo......

NDA

21,717 posts

227 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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Downward said:
Just as aside what about folks who live in 1 house all their lives ?
What’s all that about ?
I know a couple of families where their homes have been in the family for several hundred years - so it can happen for good reason.

gruffgriff

1,609 posts

245 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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It can happen if you deport your parents abroad to retire...
I did break away, approx 12 miles and 8 years before the elastic snapped back. I have been further than the next village, honest!

wibble cb

3,632 posts

209 months

Tuesday 21st November 2023
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bmwmike said:
wibble cb said:
Grew up in and around west berks, but been in Toronto for 18 years now, likely not coming back either!
Is the expat meetup group still going?
I am going to say no, but I wasn't aware it existed....

selym

9,548 posts

173 months

Wednesday 22nd November 2023
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I was born and brought up in Plymouth then moved away when I joined the RAF; 22 years later and I've moved back to Plymouth, five minutes from a nature reserve and river walks and fifteen minutes from the moors.

ajap1979

8,014 posts

189 months

Wednesday 22nd November 2023
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No, went to Uni and met future wife, settled not far from where we studied. The vast majority of my friends went to Uni then returned “home”.

cheesejunkie

2,684 posts

19 months

Wednesday 22nd November 2023
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Jasandjules said:
Uh, I grew up on different continents....... Sooo......
One at a time I’m sure unless you’re a medical miracle.

cheesejunkie

2,684 posts

19 months

Wednesday 22nd November 2023
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ajap1979 said:
No, went to Uni and met future wife, settled not far from where we studied. The vast majority of my friends went to Uni then returned “home”.
Going back a bit but I used to hate that many of my uni friends went home every weekend. My mother disliked that I didn’t. I ended up in a clique of foreigners as they couldn’t go home and I think it has stood me well.

But I am living where my wife’s from smile, they always win and it’s not a bad thing.

Nomme de Plum

4,699 posts

18 months

Wednesday 22nd November 2023
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selym said:
I was born and brought up in Plymouth then moved away when I joined the RAF; 22 years later and I've moved back to Plymouth, five minutes from a nature reserve and river walks and fifteen minutes from the moors.
I was born and bred a Janner but moved away for my career. I’ll never return to live there as it’s just too far from London and it rains too much there as well.

I do remember Union Street before it was emasculated which may give you an indication of my age.

Brother D

3,760 posts

178 months

Wednesday 29th November 2023
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I moved abroad 15 years ago and the family still lives in the same village. Will be looking to move back there.

JagLover

42,626 posts

237 months

Wednesday 29th November 2023
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Grew up in Sarth London, but moved out first to Gloucester and then to Swindon.

Temporarily back in London while a house purchase goes through and then I will be back in Swindon.

London feels far too busy to me and I feel a sense of calm on my brief trips back to Swindon. As with many similar towns and cities the centre of Swindon is a dump but most of the suburbs are nice. Very easy access to countryside as well.