Just been suspended, disciplinary tomorrow.

Just been suspended, disciplinary tomorrow.

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hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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I have just returned from a weeks leave and been hauled into the office and suspended.
The company I work for has changed a lot in the 5 years (and three weeks) that I have been there, unfortunately for the worse.
A couple of months ago, I do some work away from home, and was expecting to be paid extra for it, and was not. Obviously unhappy about this, I made some comments on Facebook, which were seem by one of my Directors, who hauled me up, told me he was sorry that I was unhappy. Later that day, I was paid the amount I was expecting, and was obviously happy.
I was told "next time, come and talk to us, don't use Facebook"

A couple of weeks ago, I was having a conversation on Twitter with a former colleague and he asked how things were, I replied that *** (company name was still ste)... I was advised by my manager that the post appeared on a twitter feed that the company uses, and this was why I was being suspended.

We have all been under stupid amounts of pressure for the last 3 months, and everybody blows their top sometimes, this was just my way of letting off steam.
Do I have a defence?

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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Ok.. Take on board what everyone above has said, what I will say in my defence is, I intended to send the message as a direct message on twitter, was replying to a question from a (former) colleague. Did not intend the message to be in the public domain, am still quite new to Twitter, so if I am guilty of anything, it's user error.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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Ok.. Take on board what everyone above has said, what I will say in my defence is, I intended to send the message as a direct message on twitter, was replying to a question from a (former) colleague. Did not intend the message to be in the public domain, am still quite new to Twitter, so if I am guilty of anything, it's user error.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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Just a (light hearted) chat to be honest. I am happy to accept a bking, just don't want to be unemployed.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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boobles said:
So you were warned once & did it again on another public forum & now talking about it on here!

yikes I do hope that your boss isn't a member on here, otherwise it could be more than a suspension!

As peviously said, what did you expect to be honest?
Hence the reason I have changed my user name.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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Rude-boy said:
hounslow1967 said:
Just a (light hearted) chat to be honest. I am happy to accept a bking, just don't want to be unemployed.
The problem is that it wasn't a light hearted chat, it was a written communication, available for inspection by almost anyone who wanted to see it.

I understand the anguish you must feel right now but there is little you can do about it now other than go into full grovel mode and, this time, learn from your mistakes if they are prepared to give you a third chance.
By light hearted chat, I was refering to the conversation with the Director, not the original post.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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selwonk said:
hounslow1967 said:
Hence the reason I have changed my user name.
rofl That worked well!
Yeah... cheers Big Bubba...

biggrin

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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williamp said:
hounslow1967 said:
boobles said:
So you were warned once & did it again on another public forum & now talking about it on here!

yikes I do hope that your boss isn't a member on here, otherwise it could be more than a suspension!

As peviously said, what did you expect to be honest?
Hence the reason I have changed my user name.
yes but your attitude is still "I want to moan. Its my 'uman rights, innit..."

At this moment in time, you are lucky to have a job, Have you ever tried to change the role in a positive way? To work with the management to make a more effective, better company (and make yourself more useful as a result)??

Or just moan, moan, moan. Managers are sick of paying someones wages when they dont do anything but the bare minimum and moan about it.
Was not looking to moan to be honest, I am really just looking for advise. I realise that things are difficult at the moment, hence the reason for wanting to turn this around if at all possible.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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bigandclever said:
What I don't quite get is your original comment is still available on twitter. You could at least remove it.
Done... as posted above, still getting to grips with Twitter (although I may now abandon it altogether) post now removed.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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boobles said:
Thanks Boobles.... I have a feeling I will on that list tomorrow.
I have deleted my Twitter account.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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bigbubba said:
I think that 'they' have probably already made their mind up on any action that is going to be taken.

Don't try and say you are a novice twitter user as it doesn't hold much weight. Just be very apologetic.

If the worst does happen then just chalk it down to experience and move on. It looks like you weren't that happy there anyway so use this as an opportunity to move onwards and upwards.

Good luck,

BB
Cheers mate... could not have come at a worse time though, the mrs starts a new job tomorrow, so that is very much an unknown quantity. I guess there is never a good time to move in on the current climate though.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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y2blade said:
best ever "I'm a muppet" thread rofl

will you ever learn?
Yes.
As above, Twitter account now gone. Will NEVER post this kind of content on social media sites again. Or join Twitter.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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sleep envy said:
surely no one can be that stupi...
No. As above. Suspended. At home.

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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R500POP said:
to do it once was daft, twice was bloody idiotic, deserve everything you get.
Let's hope you never makes any mistakes in life. .

hounslow1967

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Tuesday 27th September 2011
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996c2 said:
Good luck. Hope they let you off with a warning. Do let us know how it goes.
Thank you.

hounslow1967

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Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Thanks for the messages of support guys, it means a lot. I realise I was stupid, and am off to face the music nice. It's ironic that I have received more messages of support from the total strangers on here, than I have from my work friends... Sorry colleagues. Will post outcome later.

hounslow1967

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Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Cheers guys... Has been put off till Friday, woke with a migraine this morning, and want to do this when feeling in a better frame if mind.

hounslow1967

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Wednesday 28th September 2011
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Cheers guys... Has been put off till Friday, woke with a migraine this morning, and want to do this when feeling in a better frame if mind.

hounslow1967

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Friday 30th September 2011
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As many of you predicted, I am now without gainful employment. Have learnt a huge lesson from this.

hounslow1967

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Friday 30th September 2011
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was gross misconduct... and I have learnt a valuable lesson from this... I will be reviewing my online presence very closely from now on.