Even the middle classes are beginning to feel the pinch

Even the middle classes are beginning to feel the pinch

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ClaphamGT3

11,361 posts

245 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Welshbeef said:
rouge59 said:
Welshbeef said:
Is wager (we have 4 overseas holidays a year) that they do a number of overseas holidays every year

Skiing £5k
May holiday £5k
August big 2 week holiday £12k
Oct Caribbean/canaries/Maldives/Africa £8k+

On top of lots of weekends doing things and doing things not being cheap. Heck a meal out and a rushed one at that will be not far off £120 before you start.




You'd be lucky to afford a week in a 2 star in Benidorm, you bullstting knobhead.
So this is £3,900 which is half board only so all drinks on top plus you need to pay for ski passes for all 4 which is £250per person comfortably plus hire of kit plus lessons plus airport parking.

Pretty easy to get to £5k for skiing & this is not really trying hard at all.

Just what do you expect skiing to cost at half term week for a family of 4?
Depends on your lifestyle really - when I had a job as a 16yo I only earned £13k with college and then going to Uni. No way could I live on that now but back then outgoing a were exceptionally low how things change.
For the four of us, we can just about get a ski trip down to £5k if we really work on doing it as cheaply as possible - usually a 'cheeky' second week if Easter is early and the snow is holding out. For the main ski trip, I would say £8k is about what a nice - but not lavish - family ski trip costs

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

200 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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johnwilliams77 said:
What a great achievement (£800 on food PCM)
That's the point - previous poster was concerned we couldn't afford a 2 star Benidorm holiday yet food bill is above that cost so easily paid for wink.


And if it's a Costco shop it's never less than £350 a pop which is always nice I'm sure you can do 2/3 star Benidorm hols for that.

VolvoT5

4,155 posts

176 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Really? We are supposed to believe the market system we have rewards the most talented and hard working people. These guys are easily in the top 1%............ yet they are clearly too fking stupid to manage their finances. Even in London 190k is a generous salary. I'm willing to bet they have 50k Range Rovers on the drive and indulge in 10k holidays 2 or 3 times a year.

Why don't they do what 99% of people have do when they have kids - reduce their lifestyle to pay for the priorities, either spend less on luxuries or go out and earn more.

Edited by VolvoT5 on Saturday 21st November 08:27

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

200 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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ClaphamGT3 said:
For the four of us, we can just about get a ski trip down to £5k if we really work on doing it as cheaply as possible - usually a 'cheeky' second week if Easter is early and the snow is holding out. For the main ski trip, I would say £8k is about what a nice - but not lavish - family ski trip costs
Exactly.

We're fortunate in that we have a ski chalet so it's purely flight and ski pass cost which makes it more viable to do skiing holidays/ multiple if we can.

I cannot wait until we do a 10-14 day Canada ski holiday now I can imagine that will be big bucks.

greygoose

8,341 posts

197 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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VolvoT5 said:
Really? We are supposed to believe the market system we have rewards the most talented and hard working people. These guys are easily in the top 1%............ yet they are clearly too fking stupid to manage their finances. Even in London 190k is a generous salary. I'm willing to get they have 50k Range Rovers on the drive and indulge in 10k holidays 2 or 3 times a year.

Why don't they do what 99% of people have do when they have kids - reduce their lifestyle to pay for the priorities, either spend less on luxuries or go out and earn more.
Indeed, apart from the usual PH nonsense that 190k is poverty level for London, this seems like a simple case of people being unable to live within their means.

JagLover

42,784 posts

237 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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WolfAir said:
If 190k a year is middle class, what does that make my 18k a year....with overtime?
It is location specific

I would say that anywhere in London or its commuter belt if you didn't purchase your own home before say the early 2000s you would be looking at a gross household income approaching six figures to have anything like what would be considered a middle class lifestyle.



kev b

2,717 posts

168 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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At the other end of the scale I once worked at a factory where there were 300 people on the shop floor, pay was good for the area but more importantly almost everyone was on the same wage.

The contrast between guys all taking home the same was remarkable, some owned their house, drove new cars, took holidays abroad and had well turned out kids whilst others never had anything to show for their efforts.

As I got to know people it became obvious that most of the "have nots" were just pouring their wages down the drain, latest TV, Sky full package, pub 3 nights a week, betting shop, fruit machines, thirsty car, takeaways etc.

No matter how much some folks make they never have anything left by the time the next payday comes around, look at those lottery winners that end up broke, some people just cannot manage money.

TEKNOPUG

19,064 posts

207 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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WolfAir said:
If 190k a year is middle class, what does that make my 18k a year....with overtime?
Serfdom :Yes:

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

200 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Going back to OP.

These people are choosing not to sell their buy to let as they are banking on in 15+ years time it will be worth a huge amount more. Well if they'd the case if not be too fussed about building up borrowing elsewhere which is less than the property value growth IF prices drop flog it.


That said we would not send our kids to private school - wife is a teacher and even though we could do it she simply would refuse. We both went to state school so did our parents (well some went to Grammer school via scholarship). Provided you live in a good area with a good state school happy days.

Rovinghawk

13,300 posts

160 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Welshbeef said:
We both went to state school so did our parents (well some went to Grammer school via scholarship).
Some state schools don't provide a very good education.

superkartracer

8,959 posts

224 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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At the other end of this scale , my cousin ( a professor designing optics for the James Webb Space Telescope ) , lives in London and defo middle-class , maybe upperclass going by the people she hangs with ( and the fact you can't understand what she says ha ! ) . She has far more brain-power than the OP link clowns combined + some and earns maybe 45k , seems happy , well she spends her time designing telescopes and kit that hunt earth like planets , awesome job and history changing stuff. Not all people chase money to spend on ste.

OH , she went to a state school in Solihull , gained 4 A's ( A* A levels math/physics/chem etc) aged 14 and straight to Oxford , smart girl and again shows you don't need to spend money on private schooling . Thanks for the input on private schooling chaps , interesting stuff . ALL the farmers around here send their kids to private School , and guess what they end up doing! , farming ha ha .

Edited by superkartracer on Saturday 21st November 09:40

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

105 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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superkartracer said:
At the other end of this scale , my cousin ( a professor designing optics for the James Webb Space Telescope ) , lives in London and defo middle-class , maybe upperclass going by the people she hangs with ( and the fact you can't understand what she says ha ! ) . She has far more brain-power than the OP link clowns combined + some and earns maybe 45k , seems happy , well she spends her time designing telescopes and kit that hunt earth like planets , awesome job and history changing stuff. Not all people chase money to spend on ste.

OH , she went to a state school in Solihull , gained 4 A's ( A* A levels math/physics/chem etc) aged 14 and straight to Oxford , smart girl and again shows you don't need to spend money on private schooling . Thanks for the input on private schooling chaps , interesting stuff . ALL the farmers around here send their kids to private School , and guess what they end up doing! , farming ha ha .

Edited by superkartracer on Saturday 21st November 09:40
That's quite amazing she managed A* on a levels years ago considering A* scoring for A levels was only introduced within the last few years.

superkartracer

8,959 posts

224 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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johnwilliams77 said:
superkartracer said:
At the other end of this scale , my cousin ( a professor designing optics for the James Webb Space Telescope ) , lives in London and defo middle-class , maybe upperclass going by the people she hangs with ( and the fact you can't understand what she says ha ! ) . She has far more brain-power than the OP link clowns combined + some and earns maybe 45k , seems happy , well she spends her time designing telescopes and kit that hunt earth like planets , awesome job and history changing stuff. Not all people chase money to spend on ste.

OH , she went to a state school in Solihull , gained 4 A's ( A* A levels math/physics/chem etc) aged 14 and straight to Oxford , smart girl and again shows you don't need to spend money on private schooling . Thanks for the input on private schooling chaps , interesting stuff . ALL the farmers around here send their kids to private School , and guess what they end up doing! , farming ha ha .

Edited by superkartracer on Saturday 21st November 09:40
That's quite amazing she managed A* on a levels years ago considering A* scoring for A levels was only introduced within the last few years.
A* being the equivalent ( i.e. 100% ) , hope that helps .

superkartracer

8,959 posts

224 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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anonymous said:
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Very valid point , Sam was a strange one , she was never interested in kids stuff , playing with toys etc , very focussed type and just wanted to read read read , most prob autistic as a few other family members are ( including my youngest son ) . Parents left her to it.

Granfondo

12,241 posts

208 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Welshbeef said:
Exactly.

We're fortunate in that we have a ski chalet so it's purely flight and ski pass cost which makes it more viable to do skiing holidays/ multiple if we can.

I cannot wait until we do a 10-14 day Canada ski holiday now I can imagine that will be big bucks.
Do you put snow tyres on the Porsche 944? wink

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

200 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Granfondo said:
Do you put snow tyres on the Porsche 944? wink
Never owned a car like that & never gone down the route of snow tyres, I manage with normal tyres and if it's too bad snow wise work from home. Simply not worth the cost IMHO.

MC Bodge

22,018 posts

177 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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Sheepshanks said:
MC Bodge said:
Of course, your children could just go to a local state school....
yikes

If their house is only worth £725K it must be in a pretty dodgy area so the schools are likely to be carp. Don't know if you're familiar with these matters but most state schools are rammed so you don't exactly get much choice.
What many people appear to fail to appreciate is that, shockingly, it is possIble to live & work somewhere other than London.

I can't see the point of "slumming it" on a shoestring in a home that is worth almost 3x what our (5 bed semi) house is ...in a nice, leafy area with good state schools, including state grammar schools.i

The standard of living/quality of life elsewhere can be much, much better, even on a far lower income.

NomduJour

19,250 posts

261 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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ClaphamGT3 said:
Unless you happen to be mortgage free, there is no way that you can afford to put two children through school on £190k income.
I know someone paying two lots of day fees on considerably less (admittedly with a mortgage of only about £250k - the benefits of London equity). No flash holidays, six-year-old A4, but certainly not slumming it.

anonymous-user

56 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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superkartracer said:
OH , she went to a state school in Solihull , gained 4 A's ( A* A levels math/physics/chem etc) aged 14 and straight to Oxford , smart girl and again shows you don't need to spend money on private schooling .
All it shows is that very smart kids will probably do well regardless of schooling which is not really surprising. Also not surprising is if you pay up you get smaller class sizes and average kids get better than average results... that's the point.

RYH64E

7,960 posts

246 months

Saturday 21st November 2015
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ClaphamGT3 said:
Alex said:
I sympathise with them, seriously. When you earn that sort of money, you expect to have a comfortable life and be able to afford luxuries like private schooling. As this thread shows, everyone else thinks you can. But the truth is, you can't.

It says their take-home is £10k a month, which means they are paying £70k a year in tax. THAT'S the real disgrace. Be smart, work hard, and we'll confiscate your earnings.
Would agree with this. Unless you happen to be mortgage free, there is no way that you can afford to put two children through school on £190k income.
Putting two kids through private school costs about £25k per year, that shouldn't be impossible on a joint income of £190k. A single salary of just £33k is enough to pay the fees, what's left should be enough to live on.