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Silent1

19,761 posts

237 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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bobdole said:
andymadmak said:
bobdole said:
I know this as I'm a psychiatrist.

God help your patients if that is true. Which I doubt.
Well starting a thread to gain access to details on why men abuse kids is not without its interest to a psychiatrist that's for sure. I am quite intrigued as to your motives that's for sure.
Why are you back in this thread, i thought you'd given up?
Also if you're a psychiatrist that's accredited by any reputable organisation then i'm Herr Hitler's lovechild.

sc0tt

18,059 posts

203 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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I think peados shouldn't be put in jail but have peado tattooed on their forehead.

bobdole

85 posts

139 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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BliarOut said:
bobdole said:
Marf said:
I've read it thanks, something you seem to be failing to do. You appear to skim over people's posts, take offense no matter what they've read then go off on a froth mouthed rant at them.

Would you like a hanky to wipe away the spittle from the corner of your mouth?
Not once have i ranted, not once. Im calm as anything thanks trying to get a simple answer as to why when faced with a terrible story about abuse of young girls at the hands a male gang some people await the race and colour with relish. Surely you should care more about men abusing girls rather than what heritage those men are......child abuse cant be any worse than it already is can it?
Why? It's a cultural issue. The offenders come from a certain part of society.

Blame the girls? Are you really saying 'they are asking for it'?

Just because a girl is outdoors after dark she isn't giving her consent to be raped you know.

Address the behaviour of the offenders and stop looking for ways to excuse their behaviour.
No I didn't say that , in fact find an example where I did? you won't . Anyway rationally speaking you'd try not to have a child in that danger situation hence why it's not normal to have 12 year old wobdering the streets at night . You have to not give child abusers the opportunity to abuse.
Some child abusers go for jobs where they wil come in contact with children , schools , youth clubs , scouts etc, they are planning their life around their needs and fantasies. Many of my colleagues doubt Asian men are choosing to work as taxi drivers or fast food joints just to get access to children, they are opportunists, so therefore remove the vunerable child from the equation and abuse won't happen or is obviously less likely to happen. So stopping vunerable children walking to streets is a sure way to stop that . It's very very complex. but to suggest its cultural only is wrong, nothing in that culture suggests child abuse and sex with children is ' a cultural thing' , it's men getting easy gratification from vunerable girls that society didn't give a fig about...

you need only see how long Savile went about his child abuse freely to see that we don't look after vunerable young children that well. Savile infact most likely chose his roles for his sexual leanings. It's too complex. But had people protected those girls from Savile then many lives would of Been saved from ruin. Stopping abuse happening is whether you like it or not about stopping the children being in that place at that time unprotected. Stopping the abuser is harder to do as they are masters at covering it up.


Edited by bobdole on Sunday 9th December 20:01

7mike

3,021 posts

195 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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Ok, so I'm a bloke. I know lots of other blokes. In all my 47 years not one, however well I've known them has suggested we ply young girls with drinks & drugs & see if we can't get off with them when they are out of it. TBH, I think if anyone ever did suggest it, they would have to pretty quickly convince me it was a joke in very poor taste before my size eleven boot sent their knackers through their throat.
Now i know that peados use the internet to 'share resources' but please Bob, explain to me how the fk do people identify others face to face, who share their 'tastes'?

Lost_BMW

12,955 posts

178 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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bobdole said:
andymadmak said:
bobdole said:
I know this as I'm a psychiatrist.

God help your patients if that is true. Which I doubt.
Well starting a thread to gain access to details on why men abuse kids is not without its interest to a psychiatrist that's for sure. I am quite intrigued as to your motives that's for sure.
So you are a Troll then?

Chrisw666

22,655 posts

201 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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bobdole said:
Some child abusers go for jobs where they wil come in contact with children , schools , youth clubs , scouts etc, they are planning their life around their needs and fantasies.
Does your day involve lots of Daily Mail reading?



bobdole

85 posts

139 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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7mike said:
Ok, so I'm a bloke. I know lots of other blokes. In all my 47 years not one, however well I've known them has suggested we ply young girls with drinks & drugs & see if we can't get off with them when they are out of it. TBH, I think if anyone ever did suggest it, they would have to pretty quickly convince me it was a joke in very poor taste before my size eleven boot sent their knackers through their throat.
Now i know that peados use the internet to 'share resources' but please Bob, explain to me how the fk do people identify others face to face, who share their 'tastes'?
Well people have varying degrees of things they want to keep secret , me for example secretly enjoy X Factor with my wife yet would never dare tell my closest friends that I have anything but distain for it and its destruction of music and all that other pretentious crap me and my friends bang on about whilst spouting the virtues of Led Zep.
But what if met some chaps online who liked X factor also... people who I realised wouldn't berate me for it?

Ok a deliberate comical context, but it stands, some peados will have 'normal' friends, normal jobs family life yet there is this section of their life where they and some close friends will share a sordid secret. It's not hard to find people with. similar preferences, we as humans do it all the time. Not forgetting in life there's the dominant leaders and the submissive followers, you wonder is there maybe 2 -3 prominant ring leaders on these groups, maybe just 1 leader and the rest sort of fall into it. Mayve even want to stop it but just can't... like I say complex. Sadly some people have to try to work it out even though it would be nice to just grab a can of petrol and go burn down their home with then inside.

Things happen all the time where someone will witness something and afterwards wish they had of done something to stop it, I have witnessed a man being beaten up and I didn't get involved instead I rang the police, I wish I had of had the guts and build to intervene but I didn't. I'd doubt all these gang members are leader and strong so that Is a massive part as to why when it starts to go beyond the lines some people are unable to stop it or themselves mixture of weakness fear and again sadly childhood issues.
like you say many would, I would , but many don't or can't.
and before I get hung again I don't excuse anyone for that kind of weakness, just an answer to the question .


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Edited by bobdole on Sunday 9th December 21:13

Lost_BMW

12,955 posts

178 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
quotequote all
andymadmak said:
bobdole said:
I know this as I'm a psychiatrist.

God help your patients if that is true. Which I doubt.
I think there was probably a typo or an iPhone auto correct. Surely he meant to type "I need a psychiatrist."

BliarOut

72,857 posts

241 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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bobdole said:
BliarOut said:
bobdole said:
Marf said:
I've read it thanks, something you seem to be failing to do. You appear to skim over people's posts, take offense no matter what they've read then go off on a froth mouthed rant at them.

Would you like a hanky to wipe away the spittle from the corner of your mouth?
Not once have i ranted, not once. Im calm as anything thanks trying to get a simple answer as to why when faced with a terrible story about abuse of young girls at the hands a male gang some people await the race and colour with relish. Surely you should care more about men abusing girls rather than what heritage those men are......child abuse cant be any worse than it already is can it?
Why? It's a cultural issue. The offenders come from a certain part of society.

Blame the girls? Are you really saying 'they are asking for it'?

Just because a girl is outdoors after dark she isn't giving her consent to be raped you know.

Address the behaviour of the offenders and stop looking for ways to excuse their behaviour.
No I didn't say that , in fact find an example where I did? you won't . Anyway rationally speaking you'd try not to have a child in that danger situation hence why it's not normal to have 12 year old wobdering the streets at night . You have to not give child abusers the opportunity to abuse.
Some child abusers go for jobs where they wil come in contact with children , schools , youth clubs , scouts etc, they are planning their life around their needs and fantasies. Many of my colleagues doubt Asian men are choosing to work as taxi drivers or fast food joints just to get access to children, they are opportunists, so therefore remove the vunerable child from the equation and abuse won't happen or is obviously less likely to happen. So stopping vunerable children walking to streets is a sure way to stop that . It's very very complex. but to suggest its cultural only is wrong, nothing in that culture suggests child abuse and sex with children is ' a cultural thing' , it's men getting easy gratification from vunerable girls that society didn't give a fig about...

you need only see how long Savile went about his child abuse freely to see that we don't look after vunerable young children that well. Savile infact most likely chose his roles for his sexual leanings. It's too complex. But had people protected those girls from Savile then many lives would of Been saved from ruin. Stopping abuse happening is whether you like it or not about stopping the children being in that place at that time unprotected. Stopping the abuser is harder to do as they are masters at covering it up.


Edited by bobdole on Sunday 9th December 20:01
So what hours of the day should children be allowed outside the house?

Can you provide a list of all ages and acceptable hours from the age of 13 upwards please.

I'm just trying to figure how being allowed out of the house makes a girl a slut or a candidate for rape regardless of the colour of the offender.

Girls and women of all ages should be free to walk the streets in safety free from grooming etc.

To appease your PC nature, find me a similar white gang or accept that it's happening however uncomfortable it makes you.


bobdole

85 posts

139 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
quotequote all
Lost_BMW said:
andymadmak said:
bobdole said:
I know this as I'm a psychiatrist.

God help your patients if that is true. Which I doubt.
I think there was probably a typo or an iPhone auto correct. Surely he meant to type "I need a psychiatrist."
Because that would be so shameful.... tut tut dear lad we are in 2012. Everyone could do with a psychiatrist ...

odyssey2200

18,650 posts

211 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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BliarOut said:
To appease your PC nature, find me a similar white gang or accept that it's happening however uncomfortable it makes you.
I have asked him that twice now but all you get is PC squirming.

if he is looking for someone to call a racist, I will take one for the team, if it lets him get it off his chest and makes him fell better about himself, just as long as he fks off afterwords.

bobdole

85 posts

139 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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BliarOut said:
bobdole said:
BliarOut said:
bobdole said:
Marf said:
I've read it thanks, something you seem to be failing to do. You appear to skim over people's posts, take offense no matter what they've read then go off on a froth mouthed rant at them.

Would you like a hanky to wipe away the spittle from the corner of your mouth?
Not once have i ranted, not once. Im calm as anything thanks trying to get a simple answer as to why when faced with a terrible story about abuse of young girls at the hands a male gang some people await the race and colour with relish. Surely you should care more about men abusing girls rather than what heritage those men are......child abuse cant be any worse than it already is can it?
Why? It's a cultural issue. The offenders come from a certain part of society.

Blame the girls? Are you really saying 'they are asking for it'?

Just because a girl is outdoors after dark she isn't giving her consent to be raped you know.

Address the behaviour of the offenders and stop looking for ways to excuse their behaviour.
No I didn't say that , in fact find an example where I did? you won't . Anyway rationally speaking you'd try not to have a child in that danger situation hence why it's not normal to have 12 year old wobdering the streets at night . You have to not give child abusers the opportunity to abuse.
Some child abusers go for jobs where they wil come in contact with children , schools , youth clubs , scouts etc, they are planning their life around their needs and fantasies. Many of my colleagues doubt Asian men are choosing to work as taxi drivers or fast food joints just to get access to children, they are opportunists, so therefore remove the vunerable child from the equation and abuse won't happen or is obviously less likely to happen. So stopping vunerable children walking to streets is a sure way to stop that . It's very very complex. but to suggest its cultural only is wrong, nothing in that culture suggests child abuse and sex with children is ' a cultural thing' , it's men getting easy gratification from vunerable girls that society didn't give a fig about...

you need only see how long Savile went about his child abuse freely to see that we don't look after vunerable young children that well. Savile infact most likely chose his roles for his sexual leanings. It's too complex. But had people protected those girls from Savile then many lives would of Been saved from ruin. Stopping abuse happening is whether you like it or not about stopping the children being in that place at that time unprotected. Stopping the abuser is harder to do as they are masters at covering it up.


Edited by bobdole on Sunday 9th December 20:01
So what hours of the day should children be allowed outside the house?

Can you provide a list of all ages and acceptable hours from the age of 13 upwards please.

I'm just trying to figure how being allowed out of the house makes a girl a slut or a candidate for rape regardless of the colour of the offender.

Girls and women of all ages should be free to walk the streets in safety free from grooming etc.

To appease your PC nature, find me a similar white gang or accept that it's happening however uncomfortable it makes you.
What are you on ? ratalin?
If a child is in care then people around them are tasked to protect them. Duty of care would sensibly suggest that allowing a 12 year old to go out on the streets till the early hours is pretty risky is it not? Would you rather we advise children to go out from 10 upwards late at night? would you not tell your kids about talking to strangers, getting in cars with men? drinking?

I do as much as I possibly can to make sure my daughter is safe, surely that's the least we should expect for a vunerable child in care to have too, surely?
These children are let down by parents, social workers police and the men who abuse them. Totally let down.

Edited by bobdole on Sunday 9th December 21:23

Lost_BMW

12,955 posts

178 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
quotequote all
bobdole said:
Lost_BMW said:
andymadmak said:
bobdole said:
I know this as I'm a psychiatrist.

God help your patients if that is true. Which I doubt.
I think there was probably a typo or an iPhone auto correct. Surely he meant to type "I need a psychiatrist."
Because that would be so shameful.... tut tut dear lad we are in 2012. Everyone could do with a psychiatrist ...
If you are one then I think we should all stay well away.

Chrisw666

22,655 posts

201 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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If it isn't a cultural problem why did a group of Asian males from South Yorkshire rent a house on Teesside and use it to 'entertain' teenage girls from a town where none of the men involved had connections with families or Asian business owners in the town?

Why are other similar houses on the radar of local agencies inhabited by people who are not of white British origin in a town with 96+ % of residents who are white?

Yes white men rape and abuse girls, but they're less likely to use children as meat for their friends and cousins to share.

BliarOut

72,857 posts

241 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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What ages and what time?

I have daughters in their early teens, what time should they be in?

I just would like to know because it seems you are saying its not the fault of these gangs, but the fault of the girls because they were outdoors...


BliarOut

72,857 posts

241 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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bobdole said:
What are you on ? ratalin?
If a child is in care then people around them are tasked to protect them. Duty of care would sensibly suggest that allowing a 12 year old to go out on the streets till the early hours is pretty risky is it not? Would you rather we advise children to go out from 10 upwards late at night? would you not tell your kids about talking to strangers, getting in cars with men? drinking?

I do as much as I possibly can to make sure my daughter is safe, surely that's the least we should expect for a vunerable child in care to have too, surely?
These children are let down by parents, social workers police and the men who abuse them. Totally let down.

Edited by bobdole on Sunday 9th December 21:23
Would you say the same if it was your daughter they were grooming and fking against her wishes?

Chrisw666

22,655 posts

201 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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A question for Bobdole.

Do you have any experience of the care system, those who work in it, children in it, teenagers who have been abused, vulnerable teenagers, those who work to protect the vulnerable or families of children in care?

andymadmak

Original Poster:

14,665 posts

272 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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bobdole said:
What are you on ? ratalin?
Hmmmm. Would it be unreasonable to assume that a genuine psychiatrist would know how to spell ritalin?

odyssey2200

18,650 posts

211 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
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andymadmak said:
bobdole said:
What are you on ? ratalin?
Hmmmm. Would it be unreasonable to assume that a genuine psychiatrist would know how to spell ritalin?
And probably would not ask such a question.

BliarOut

72,857 posts

241 months

Sunday 9th December 2012
quotequote all
andymadmak said:
bobdole said:
What are you on ? ratalin?
Hmmmm. Would it be unreasonable to assume that a genuine psychiatrist would know how to spell ritalin?
rofl back of the net hehe