A conclusion -Neighbour wanting a front extension,not happy.

[Black_S3]

DoubleD said:

I find it odd that an adult can feel bullied on the internet, surely you just shrug it all off?

Or if you actually think it’s bullying you wouldn’t court it

For example

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

And finally, and I'm not making this personal, Equss (I have a feeling that may be misspelt, if so apologies) please don't wade in on this thread,

Back to the allotment for another 3 hours now, building a fox proof chicken run for S. I trust I won't return to mayhem

Enjoy this sun everyone.

Now why would anyone not want a resident planning expert on a thread about planning...

Then followed up with this:

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

I'll not get involved in tittle tattle.

Right, ta ta for now.

only 3 posts later he’s fully engaging badda of all people and it didn’t take much longer before equus got a telling off

Don’t see how Fermit can write a comedy first post about his neighbor mocking up the banned porch with a couple of bits of wood if he’s serious and not equally pulling people’s leg.

I guess we need to hear from him if he seriously sees it all as bullying rather than just being a bit pissed off before because he didn’t want a heap of junk built next to his house.

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Badda said:

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

. Just popped back for a 10 minute coffee.

Haha.

You don't have to believe it, but it's true. After 4 odd hours hefty graft over there is it not feasible that I may need to return for a piss and a 10 minute sit down?

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Black_S3 said:

I guess we need to hear from him if he seriously sees it all as bullying rather than just being a bit pissed off before because he didn’t want a heap of junk built next to his house.

I think it is a form of bullying (I could cite examples, but don't wish to throw petrols on the flames) but I don't feel bullied, if that makes sense. The demeanor of some is pretty poor form though TBH.

Edited by Fermit and Sexy Sarah on Sunday 30th June 18:57

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Badda said:

The whole thing is a little reminiscent of school.

A boy who thinks he’s being bullied asking the teachers to stop boys mentioning a certain thing. Then bringing it up himself afterwards while the teachers roll their eyes and everyone thinks ‘you’re going to learn the hard way then’!

Nope, that would be me asking the mods to delete things and ban people, which I've done neither. All I asked is for civility, not really to much to ask. Seems a few struggle with the request though.

[Badda]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

Badda said:

The whole thing is a little reminiscent of school.

A boy who thinks he’s being bullied asking the teachers to stop boys mentioning a certain thing. Then bringing it up himself afterwards while the teachers roll their eyes and everyone thinks ‘you’re going to learn the hard way then’!

Nope, that would be me asking the mods to delete things and ban people, which I've done neither. All I asked is for civility, not really to much to ask. Seems a few struggle with the request though.

Nope. You requested the last thread was locked to stop people saying stuff you didn’t like. Exactly like a schoolchild.

And then, today, you started a new one. Why on earth would you want to do that? I have my suspicions.

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Badda said:

Nope. You requested the last thread was locked to stop people saying stuff you didn’t like. Exactly like a schoolchild.

And then, today, you started a new one. Why on earth would you want to do that? I have my suspicions.

And the insults keep coming, try harder, not bothered, says more about you than me.

And I've stated the reason for posting the thread at least twice, so I won't repeat, the rational has already been explained.

[Monkeylegend]

You should be asking for this thread to be closed based on your opening post, it's gone way off thread

[Badda]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

Badda said:

Nope. You requested the last thread was locked to stop people saying stuff you didn’t like. Exactly like a schoolchild.

And then, today, you started a new one. Why on earth would you want to do that? I have my suspicions.

And the insults keep coming, try harder, not bothered, says more about you than me.

And I've stated the reason for posting the thread at least twice, so I won't repeat, the rational has already been explained.

It’s only an insult if you disagree. Just have a read through your posts on this thread and then have a look at a photo of an adult.

It’s ‘ rationale’ by the way.

[Badda]

That’s enough from me now. I’ve said my bit on what you’ve done so far.

[Black_S3]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

I think it is a form of bullying (I could cite examples, but don't wish to throw petrols on the flames) but I don't feel bullied, if that makes sense. The demeanor of some is pretty poor form though TBH.

Edited by Fermit and Sexy Sarah on Sunday 30th June 18:57

It’s something that happens to everyone on here... you make a post, get a reply that makes you think wtf - that was a bit unnecessary and smart... then if you look at the username you’ll see 99% of the time it’s the same jokers up to the same tricks.... We all fall for it now and again but you seem to have an alarming ability to engage in it if it actually bothers you... for example someone simply said ‘haha’ and you told them you’d spent hours building a chicken hut, had been for a piss and were sitting down having a coffee.

Anyway I’ll leave you to it...

[sas62]

Badda said:

Just have a read through your posts on this thread and then have a look at a photo of an adult.

It’s ‘ rationale’ by the way.

The lack of self-awareness on here can sometimes be breathtaking.

[Badda]

sas62 said:

Badda said:

Just have a read through your posts on this thread and then have a look at a photo of an adult.

It’s ‘ rationale’ by the way.

The lack of self-awareness on here can sometimes be breathtaking.

I take a childish enjoyment out of posters like this.

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Badda said:

It’s only an insult if you disagree. Just have a read through your posts on this thread and then have a look at a photo of an adult.

It’s ‘ rationale’ by the way.

I think the very vast majority of mankind would agree calling an adult a school child is an insult.

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Black_S3 said:

for example someone simply said ‘haha’ and you told them you’d spent hours building a chicken hut, had been for a piss and were sitting down having a coffee.

Anyway I’ll leave you to it...

I'm pretty sure 'haha' translated to 'yes course you were you bullster'

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

sas62 said:

Badda said:

Just have a read through your posts on this thread and then have a look at a photo of an adult.

It’s ‘ rationale’ by the way.

The lack of self-awareness on here can sometimes be breathtaking.

Having stated earlier that I have always struggled with grammar, but hey ho.

[Black_S3]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

I'm pretty sure 'haha' translated to 'yes course you were you bullster'

Well yeah we all know what was going on but you don’t need to always be the nice guy and justify yourself politely to people as much... Even justifying why you replied to a simple haha has alerted the many resident jokers to potential good bait... It’s the reason so many one liner or emoji artists pop up on your threads.

[Monkeylegend]

If he wasn't this thread would have been closed by now.

Edited by chris.mod on Tuesday 17th September 16:07

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Black_S3 said:

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

I'm pretty sure 'haha' translated to 'yes course you were you bullster'

Well yeah we all know what was going on but you don’t need to always be the nice guy and justify yourself politely to people as much... Even justifying why you replied to a simple haha has alerted the many resident jokers to potential good bait... It’s the reason so many one liner or emoji artists pop up on your threads.

The thing is, short of one single post, pointing out to Equss how he may come across to others, I have been polite and civil on all my posts here, IIRC. I even on my first post apologised in advance to him in case I'd spelt his handle wrongly (Pistonheads, grammar matters!) a man who delighted in ripping my home, my area, and my valid (confirmed by planning) concerns to shreds on the original thread.

In return I get all sorts of insults and criticisms levied at me. The post above yours calls me an 'attention we or a troll' having spent probably 20 minutes on Pistonheads all day

I'll conclude with one observation. A man with a cavern at the end of his garden penned a thread about finding out what it was. He left it un-concluded. It is bought up every single week, what, 10 years on? I wished to A) validate that we were indeed right, that the proposed doesn't meet standards, and B) relating to the above, conclude the scenario to not be another cliff hanger poster.

I'll leave it here, no more to say, I am genuinely bored with this charade. You lot carry on if you wish, Top Gear awaits.

Oh, and Monkey, another can't win. Close the thread I'm a school child, keep it open I'm an attention we. Figure that quandary out. Jesus!

[Black_S3]

Monkeylegend said:

If he wasn't this thread would have been closed by now.

This is where it goes from hilarious to a bit too nasty for my liking and where Isaac Hunt probably has a point re the pack mentality. There is the 3rd possibility that I’m starting to suspect is the case and that’s he may be one of those extremely nice but naive (no offense) people who just doesn’t get why people take the piss just for giggles.... If that is the case it’s probably overdue we all pack it in.

Edited by chris.mod on Tuesday 17th September 16:07

[Monkeylegend]

You reap what you sow.