house price/selling question.... opinions welcome

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As long as you are at loggerheads then nothing will change surely.


It looks like your current tactics of handling the whole situation aren't working and aren't likely to any time soon.

So you can either carry on with her holding all the cards or try and force a change by changing your behaviour.

So either start being a complete selfish and start actively fking her over or start the waterworks and pretend it's breaking you and that you just want to go back to the way it was or let her have everything.

Then once things start moving then you can react - at the moment nothing is happening any time soon

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What would happen if you gave up work?

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I've often wondered that.

All I can say if my Mrs went mental (ok even more mental) there is no way I would continue doing what I do unless I felt equitably treated.

Sounds like a total mare - just hope it works out with the kid for you.

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I still can't quite understand why you don't get a crash pad but notwithstanding that surely you can keep your keys etc on your person and park your car on the road?

Bike in storage - all your precious/valuable things where she can't get at them.

Even if you get your own stty bedsit you will have your own place to kip and have a wash etc. You can still be with your lad when you want to be as you don't have to stay there all the time.

She sounds so fking mental that it can only end in serious tears unless you do everything you can to avoid it.

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I get that - but surely you must go to work and have some private time somewhere?

A cheap place to store your gear and get your st together every so often would do you wonders. You can still sleep at the main house most nights - just tell her you are working on a case a couple of times a week.

Anyway - I am being a typical bloke and trying to solve situations that I know fk all about instead of providing a sympathetic ear.

Sounds st - but it will come to an end eventually.

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Decent result and at least you are one step closer to sorting out the sorry situation.