How long do you want to live?

How long do you want to live?

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Monkeylegend

26,592 posts

233 months

Sunday 7th April
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croyde said:
glenrobbo said:
Skyedriver said:
So very true. If only I had an expiry date it would help enormously.
Here ya go!
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https://www.medindia.net/patients/calculators/deat...
Just tried that. Gets me to 75, when my dad sadly died.

So, with 14 years left, I can safely chuck in my job and live ok on my savings.

Thanks for that, it's so liberating biggrin

Got a new passport last year. Do wonder if I'll be around to apply for the next one.


Edited by croyde on Sunday 7th April 08:03
I just did that and I am going to die in 2022, I kid you not.

Ityre

50 posts

131 months

Sunday 7th April
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Jader1973 said:
I’m reading “Rambling Man” by Billy Connolly at the moment.

In one bit he makes a good point: people will say that if you don’t do something (e.g. smoking / bad diet) you’ll live longer, but you don’t get the extra time when you’re 30 and can enjoy it, you get it when you’re too old to do any thing with it.
This is what i was going to say!, so happy to get to 80ish , but if the body and mind are still willing then I look forward to becoming Victor Meldrew 😜

glenrobbo

35,494 posts

152 months

Sunday 7th April
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Chris Hinds said:
I’ll go with 80 being a reasonable target… on that basis, like Bon Jovi, I’m half way there
scratchchin

Livin' on a Prayer? biggrin

glenrobbo

35,494 posts

152 months

Sunday 7th April
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Nethybridge said:
It's obvious in this cesspool of barbaric heathenism that
no-one takes their death and its consequences at all seriously.

Only God chooses the place and time, everything is
predestined. whether in an air crash or
tripping over the cat and falling
down the stairs,
get used to
it unbelievers.
teacher "The future is not set. There is no fate, but what we make for ourselves".
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glenrobbo

35,494 posts

152 months

Sunday 7th April
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Slow.Patrol said:
If someone offered me perfect health, but I had to shuffle off at 80, I would sign up.
It is quite obvious to me that you are not yet 79.

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The Hypno-Toad

12,371 posts

207 months

Sunday 7th April
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One of clients came into work the other week and I don't what age he was but I mean poor guy, ages catches with everyone and certainly I am not a spring chicken anymore or anyone's idea of an oil painting but...

You know the film Beetlejuice? He looked like the big game hunter in the afterlife's waiting room with the shrunken head.

I couldn't bear to look at myself in the mirror if start turning into that. I'll be in a quiet wood with a packet of tablets.

Blib

44,374 posts

199 months

Sunday 7th April
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I'm gonna live forever. I'm gonna learn how to fly.

Pitre

4,652 posts

236 months

Sunday 7th April
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Interesting thread.

Would be better with a poll: What age are you now? What age do you think you'll want to check out?

glenrobbo

35,494 posts

152 months

Sunday 7th April
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Monkeylegend said:
I just did that and I am going to die in 2022, I kid you not.
Who said that??? eek

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AstonZagato

12,768 posts

212 months

Sunday 7th April
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AW111 said:
...snip...

Regarding dementia etc. - it's tragic from the outside, when they don't remember you etc. But is it tragic to the patient if they are not distressed by it?
My mother had dementia. She was doubly incontinent. Needed constant carers - which she hated. She'd ask where my dad was (he'd died 20 years before). You could see the condition distressed her. In her lucid moments (which became less and less frequent) she'd say "I just want to die".

So, yes, I'd say it's tragic for the patient.

glenrobbo

35,494 posts

152 months

Sunday 7th April
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Blib said:
I'm gonna live forever. I'm gonna learn how to fly.
eek
Blib flies undone!

No offence. ( Apart from indecent exposure ).


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Tim Cognito

366 posts

9 months

Sunday 7th April
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AndyAudi said:
My grandparents had no dogs for about 20years , then randomly got a Jack Russell pup in their 70’s which lived with them for next 15years - they both outlived it & that dog was a fantastic companion to them both & it got my grandfather out of the house every day. They also took two litters of pups of her too (they never really slowed down, age can just be a number don’t let it rule you)
The flip side to pets, especially dogs is that the elderly get so attached to them that when they die it hits them like the death of a close family member and they never get over it/almost give up on life.

Monkeylegend

26,592 posts

233 months

Sunday 7th April
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glenrobbo said:
Monkeylegend said:
I just did that and I am going to die in 2022, I kid you not.
Who said that??? eek

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If I was still around I would reply.

That was based on leading a pessimistic lifestyle, ticked just out of interest to see the effect.

When I ticked sadistic I died in 1999.

ChocolateFrog

25,917 posts

175 months

Sunday 7th April
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Saw this meme and thought of this thread.

Whinston from Ghostbusters for those not in the know.


Fermit

13,140 posts

102 months

Sunday 7th April
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AstonZagato said:
My mother had dementia. In her lucid moments (which became less and less frequent) she'd say "I just want to die"
My wife's Nan has dementia. This is what she often states, along with her late husband and mother are 'waiting for her'

QuartzDad

2,284 posts

124 months

Sunday 7th April
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Dad's hobby was genealogy; my male lineage died at 80, 52, 69, 84, 79, 84, 76. I reckon I'll reduce the mean a little.

dandarez

13,323 posts

285 months

Sunday 7th April
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Blib said:
I'm gonna live forever. I'm gonna learn how to fly.
You've missed a word from the end of that line of Irene Cara's song: 'high' (after 'fly').

Sadly, Irene's lyric didn't come true for her (except, perhaps, she did put in those lyrics 'I'm gonna make it to heaven' - who knows?).

She died aged just 63.


lord trumpton

7,492 posts

128 months

Sunday 7th April
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about 70 will do me

csd19

2,211 posts

119 months

Sunday 7th April
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I'm 44 this year and it's looking not too bad for lifespan - my last grandparent died in 2022 aged 99!

But tbh I'd be happy to get laid a few more times and then massive heart attack time biggrin

(Based on previous "getting lucky" events, I've got about another 20-odd years).

Cotty

39,717 posts

286 months

Monday 8th April
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lord trumpton said:
about 70 will do me
Im thinking thats about right for me, my dad went at 72.

He woke up one sunny morning in the south of Spain, took his dog for a walk along the beach to the marina. Got a coffee and a paper, wondered back to his motorhome and dropped dead. As a last day/morning on earth, thats a pretty good way to go.