Has anyone used a private detective?
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blindswelledrat said:
THere may not be a right and wrong here, but..well...there is.
I know it is a stubborn view, but I do not believe that there is anyone who is completely fine with thier wife having sex with another man.
It doesn't really matter what anecdotes anyone tells me, I don't believe them. I accept that some couples make it 'work' somehow, but I dont accept that both parties are completely happy with the arrangement.
Not that it fits with this thread but there are lot of different types of relationships out there that work for lots of different people, you might find "The Ethical Slut: A Roadmap for Relationship Pioneers" an interesting read.I know it is a stubborn view, but I do not believe that there is anyone who is completely fine with thier wife having sex with another man.
It doesn't really matter what anecdotes anyone tells me, I don't believe them. I accept that some couples make it 'work' somehow, but I dont accept that both parties are completely happy with the arrangement.
blindswelledrat said:
singlecoil said:
I see exactly what you mean, but I wouldn't expect them to be completely happy, it's just one way forward from a range of choices, none of which both parties are going to be completely happy with. If there was a better solution available fair enough, but in some cases, possibly this one, mmaybe there isn't.
Agreed, just in my opinion there will *always* be a better way forward than to become a cuckolded whipping boy with no dignity and a wife who expressed contempt for you whilst astride another man.ceebmoj said:
blindswelledrat said:
THere may not be a right and wrong here, but..well...there is.
I know it is a stubborn view, but I do not believe that there is anyone who is completely fine with thier wife having sex with another man.
It doesn't really matter what anecdotes anyone tells me, I don't believe them. I accept that some couples make it 'work' somehow, but I dont accept that both parties are completely happy with the arrangement.
Not that it fits with this thread but there are lot of different types of relationships out there that work for lots of different people, you might find "The Ethical Slut: A Roadmap for Relationship Pioneers" an interesting read.I know it is a stubborn view, but I do not believe that there is anyone who is completely fine with thier wife having sex with another man.
It doesn't really matter what anecdotes anyone tells me, I don't believe them. I accept that some couples make it 'work' somehow, but I dont accept that both parties are completely happy with the arrangement.
Veeayt said:
Justayellowbadge said:
Rude-boy said:
"Poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of another."
Do you mind if I borrow that?A different topic for another day but it has always amused me that even the most vacant of entertainers can sometimes drop a pearl of wisdom that makes you think. That is one of the quotes that it rarely far from my mind when making life choices.
Works on many levels as well.
Rude-boy said:
Doubt she would mind at all.
A different topic for another day but it has always amused me that even the most vacant of entertainers can sometimes drop a pearl of wisdom that makes you think. That is one of the quotes that it rarely far from my mind when making life choices.
Works on many levels as well.
Completely agree, great one.A different topic for another day but it has always amused me that even the most vacant of entertainers can sometimes drop a pearl of wisdom that makes you think. That is one of the quotes that it rarely far from my mind when making life choices.
Works on many levels as well.
julian64 said:
Well, as this thread draws to a close I can't help hoping that ABD has forgotten about us, stepped away from his computer and is trying to decide how his life is going to go on without the aid of the sad bunch of internet no-hopers left on here.
I wouldn't be so quick to judge yourself like that...PH still loves you too.
Edited by Du1point8 on Tuesday 11th September 14:27
julian64 said:
Well, as this thread draws to a close I can't help hoping that ABD has forgotten about us, stepped away from his computer and is trying to decide how his life is going to go on without the aid of the sad bunch of internet no-hopers left on here.
You sir, are quite the little charmer...Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff