Affair with a married person
Discussion
, daemon said:
connect said:
Wondered what the PH collective thought of my situation.
Single bloke my choice own place job etc etc, not looking for a relationship but fancy the odd 'bit of company' now and again a f
k buddy if you like. I've got back intouch with an old flame she is of the same idea but is married..not happily. She won't leave hubby so all is good in that respect...or are we heading for disaster....just to add I'm powerfully built so not scared of hubby, until he pays 'Danny' to kill me
You dont need the hassle. Runaway from all women.Single bloke my choice own place job etc etc, not looking for a relationship but fancy the odd 'bit of company' now and again a f
k buddy if you like. I've got back intouch with an old flame she is of the same idea but is married..not happily. She won't leave hubby so all is good in that respect...or are we heading for disaster....just to add I'm powerfully built so not scared of hubby, until he pays 'Danny' to kill meBy the way I know this bloke called danny, who offered to break the legs of someone, who had sold me a car that had a dodgy engine. I declined the offer, but will Hubby.
IMHO it all depends on the couple involved.
I have had various affairs and fun relationships over the years.
Enjoyed all of them immensely never had a problem as a result. I have been in many relationships over the years the longest 28 years. I enjoyed every one.
Some girls are just like men they can enjoy the pure fun and never bother about the emotions. In fact with modern girls I think they are so much more relaxed and confidant they can actually show men the way to be in having fun.
If you have the right girl you could have nothing but pleasure out of this.
The sheer unadulterated lust and fornication available in an affair and utterly selfish existence in hotel peccadillo's where nothing disturbs the proceedings and no one washes up, changes beds, makes a meal or bed or does anything but fornicate with the other party is still, in my view, the best fun in life.
I would countenance caution if there are any children on the other side. Affairs are fun but not worth destroying a family over.
Enjoy this while it lasts and find another when it ends, if it does.
I have had various affairs and fun relationships over the years.
Enjoyed all of them immensely never had a problem as a result. I have been in many relationships over the years the longest 28 years. I enjoyed every one.
Some girls are just like men they can enjoy the pure fun and never bother about the emotions. In fact with modern girls I think they are so much more relaxed and confidant they can actually show men the way to be in having fun.
If you have the right girl you could have nothing but pleasure out of this.
The sheer unadulterated lust and fornication available in an affair and utterly selfish existence in hotel peccadillo's where nothing disturbs the proceedings and no one washes up, changes beds, makes a meal or bed or does anything but fornicate with the other party is still, in my view, the best fun in life.
I would countenance caution if there are any children on the other side. Affairs are fun but not worth destroying a family over.
Enjoy this while it lasts and find another when it ends, if it does.
Jimmyarm said:
It WILL end in tears but you only live once......
This. Absolutely.Except if you just have a few months of fun until the honeymoon period starts the end, then break it off fully and have absolutely no regrets or second thoughts. Sounds easy, I thought it would be easy; it wasn't, at all.
Being single was genuinely more fun than friends with benefits, there's always too much involvement from both people IMHO and it didn't end well. She's married too? Unless she's properly amazingly, stunning and/or you can't get anyone else, just don't do it IMHO.
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