Advice For a "Friend"
Discussion
Cara Van Man said:
Justayellowbadge said:
lawrence567 said:
He's currently in the forces (being trained) & has a few friends down here still.
I'm no expert, but don't the forces take a dim view of such actions and have their own internal procedures for dealing with it?Anything that brings the 'Forces into disrepute' is stamped on heavily and swiftly.
Most of his friends have lost respect for him after he beat her to a pulp.
His court case meant he was told he was on his last chance else it was prison i think.
Which is what makes me think (this guy isn't that stupid) he would'nt want to mess his i spose, last oppotunity up otherwise he's going to be in big trouble & have no life ahead of him.
Which is why i think it's just a series of events that have all come along at the same time and scared her a bit!
john_p said:
I would have thought if he was undergoing forces training he wouldn't really have time to travel up and down the country. Plus if he was arrested for harrassment or similar his army career would be over and as you say he'd probably do time for it.
Yeah i'm fairly convinced it isn't him (95%) sure.But she's fairly convinced, after the police made a big thing of it, that he's getting all these people to do things for him.
If he's on his basic training i don't think he's going to have time to organise stuff like this!
I know the police have to explore every avenue but i dont think it's helped as they've really frightened her!
Cara Van Man said:
so, basically you are making (probably) unsubstantiated claims and allegatons against him without knowing half the facts of the situation?
No i've never said i think it's her ex who's doing it. I thought it was all just a big coincidence.She's reported to the police the break in attempts and the suspicious (sp) activity outside her house & as they have everything on file the police think it's all connected to him.
Superhoop1904 said:
Security Lights
CCTV
Extra Locks
BIG DOG!!
Job Done...
I'm definately getting her some CCTV!CCTV
Extra Locks
BIG DOG!!
Job Done...
She already has a dog that barks all the time so thats ticked off, the police have given her a mace (but in all fairness its useless)
It's like a cross between mild white pepper and garlic).
It does'nt really give much an effect (u stink for a bit, it gives off a UV glow, it has a panic alarm so when you spray it it screeches, but it just makes your eyes feel like you have onion in them)!
I know, i was sprayed with it at the weekend for a laugh!
Hopefully she was just having a really bad day of it yesterday, i've spoken to her a moment ago and she's apologised saying it was jsut a crap day, told her not to apologise she's had a lot of stuff going on etc.
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