How Solid Really is Your Marriage
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Ari said:
It's also entirely possible that not all husbands are quite the love gods that they think they are, and that maybe after 30 years, the idea of an overweight slob with poor hygiene crawling on half cut and thrusting ineffectually away for two minutes before grunting and rolling off yet again simply no longer appeals.
There's nothing wrong with my hygiene. 
Dr-RS said:
Ari said:
It's also entirely possible that not all husbands are quite the love gods that they think they are, and that maybe after 30 years, the idea of an overweight slob with poor hygiene crawling on half cut and thrusting ineffectually away for two minutes before grunting and rolling off yet again simply no longer appeals.
And who knows, perhaps cheap itchy tat from Anne Summers isn't quite their idea of 'spicing up the love life' either...
Obviously this wouldn't apply to anyone on here - I'm just saying, you know, other people...
It's certainly nothing physical on either of our parts. We're both pretty much the same weight and body shape we were when we met, both regular gym goers, we are both blessed that way. I tried the Anne Summers route years ago. Waste of time. All the blockers are mental, psychological, relationship-based. Would be easier to accept if I was a fat slob.
I know just what you mean. I once tried the dressing up routine. The stockings were sheer hell rather than sheer denier . Then the elastic bit on the belt pinged off and hit my bAnd who knows, perhaps cheap itchy tat from Anne Summers isn't quite their idea of 'spicing up the love life' either...
Obviously this wouldn't apply to anyone on here - I'm just saying, you know, other people...
It's certainly nothing physical on either of our parts. We're both pretty much the same weight and body shape we were when we met, both regular gym goers, we are both blessed that way. I tried the Anne Summers route years ago. Waste of time. All the blockers are mental, psychological, relationship-based. Would be easier to accept if I was a fat slob.
ks. It was like being back in the 2nd year at High School when I got kicked in one.Budflicker said:
A question for anyone with experiance of the post menopause libido loss situation.
If your partner has lost total interest do they also just expect you to go without or is there an understanding that you can get it elsewhere?
I have considered this myself..After a lot of thought I suggested that my wife could take up with another partner.I said that if I could see her in action with a younger woman "mr pop" could regain his ability to perform.If your partner has lost total interest do they also just expect you to go without or is there an understanding that you can get it elsewhere?
Budflicker said:
A question for anyone with experiance of the post menopause libido loss situation.
If your partner has lost total interest do they also just expect you to go without or is there an understanding that you can get it elsewhere?
If your partner has lost total interest do they also just expect you to go without or is there an understanding that you can get it elsewhere?
I take it you’ve never been married then? Or indeed actually met a real live woman?
techiedave said:
I know just what you mean. I once tried the dressing up routine. The stockings were sheer hell rather than sheer denier . Then the elastic bit on the belt pinged off and hit my bks. It was like being back in the 2nd year at High School when I got kicked in one.
I bet it did wonders for your sex life though? I guess the trick is to make sure it’s all off and safely hidden before your wife gets home... ks. It was like being back in the 2nd year at High School when I got kicked in one.
Budflicker said:
A question for anyone with experiance of the post menopause libido loss situation.
If your partner has lost total interest do they also just expect you to go without or is there an understanding that you can get it elsewhere?
Assuming you mean that the wife has lost interest, and the husband hasn't.........well, I suppose it depends how much of a team the couple is. If they are still a team, they love each other enough to find a solution with which they both agree. That includes, but isn't limited to; abstinence, porn, a mistress for him, or separation.If your partner has lost total interest do they also just expect you to go without or is there an understanding that you can get it elsewhere?
It's a problem that they need to solve together. Which is what marriage is all about, really, isn't it?
Budflicker said:
A question for anyone with experiance of the post menopause libido loss situation.
If your partner has lost total interest do they also just expect you to go without or is there an understanding that you can get it elsewhere?
It's custom for her to arrange for one of her friends to step in and fill the breach.If your partner has lost total interest do they also just expect you to go without or is there an understanding that you can get it elsewhere?
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