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mrmaggit said:
EmmaP said:
mrmaggit said:
anonymous said:
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Are you that rude to somebody you've never met, face to face?O/T How are you anyway? I've not seen you for ages.
Cap'n Custud said:
Today, after a long discussion with other half last night, I have packed a few things in a bag and am going to my brothers. We are calling it a break but I am scared it is more. We are great friends just crap at boyfriend and grilfriend. I just cant get my head around this. I instigated it as other half never would, he is a blokey put his head in the sand sort of guy.
The plan is I stay away for a week to think our future through and he does the same.
Why am I telling you? Well I guess I just want to tell some unsympathetic strangers as writing helps. I am afraid you can't have your 2 minutes back though.
But you haven't said why you feel sick? The plan is I stay away for a week to think our future through and he does the same.
Why am I telling you? Well I guess I just want to tell some unsympathetic strangers as writing helps. I am afraid you can't have your 2 minutes back though.
Is it that bug that's going round, or maybe it's a symptom of early pregnancy, which would certainly add another interesting dimension to your emotional predicament. Perhaps last night you were propping up the alcopops trough in your local Rat and Parrot, reeking of gin and drunk beyond words with that look of bloodshot desperation in your eyes. Maybe you then found yourself waking up this morning in a nasty council house, staring at the overflowing ashtray on the bedside table of a fat greasy farting late-middleage salesman with foul BO, a smelly cock and hereditary gingivitus.
Whatever the reason for your nausea, I think you'll find your life is on a bitter and perpetual downward spiral.
HTH
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Edited by Andy Zarse on Tuesday 10th February 11:53
EmmaP said:
mrmaggit said:
EmmaP said:
mrmaggit said:
anonymous said:
[redacted]
Are you that rude to somebody you've never met, face to face?O/T How are you anyway? I've not seen you for ages.
Cap'n Custud said:
Today, after a long discussion with other half last night, I have packed a few things in a bag and am going to my brothers. We are calling it a break but I am scared it is more. We are great friends just crap at boyfriend and grilfriend. I just cant get my head around this. I instigated it as other half never would, he is a blokey put his head in the sand sort of guy.
The plan is I stay away for a week to think our future through and he does the same.
Why am I telling you? Well I guess I just want to tell some unsympathetic strangers as writing helps. I am afraid you can't have your 2 minutes back though.
Your not Flashmans other half are you? That would be freaky.The plan is I stay away for a week to think our future through and he does the same.
Why am I telling you? Well I guess I just want to tell some unsympathetic strangers as writing helps. I am afraid you can't have your 2 minutes back though.
All these breakups seem to happen shortly before Valentines Day, are you sure you are not taking the easy way out after not being able to find a suitable present?
Well on day 3 of being apart. Have moved from guilt(!?) to feeling numb.
OH rang yesterday and manage to upset me buy aknowledging their problem (Aparrently there is only one....) and then expecting me to just say ok and come home. I just can't get over all the problems that have been building up over the past 2 years and now see my mistake that I should have addressed this a LOT earlier.
So now we are meeting on Saturday for a chat. I have to go home at some point as TBH it's MY home too. I am just not ready.
I am terrified of making the wrong decision but I can't seem to work out which is the right one.
aaaagggghhhhh.
OH rang yesterday and manage to upset me buy aknowledging their problem (Aparrently there is only one....) and then expecting me to just say ok and come home. I just can't get over all the problems that have been building up over the past 2 years and now see my mistake that I should have addressed this a LOT earlier.
So now we are meeting on Saturday for a chat. I have to go home at some point as TBH it's MY home too. I am just not ready.
I am terrified of making the wrong decision but I can't seem to work out which is the right one.
aaaagggghhhhh.
Cap'n Custud said:
I am terrified of making the wrong decision
Why? As long as it doesn't involve having children, any decision you make will be "undo-able". Make your decisions as best you can with the information you have at the time and never regret them, for that very reason. You did the best you could with the knowledge you had. Applying hindsight is just pointless as you'll know things you couldn't have known at the time.Oh, and post a picture of your bottom/lady garden please. Thx.
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