Match.com (Vol. 7)

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Sophisticated Sarah

15,078 posts

171 months

Friday 12th March 2021
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hyphen said:
Petrus1983 said:
The mornings walk was with the flight attendant who I won’t be seeing again. The profile is of a international banking girl who I’ve FaceTimed with and now meeting properly tonight.
I am curious - what do you say to women when the "what are you looking for" type conversation comes up?
Someone homely, with cooking skills, fun to be with... and a wazzo pair of jugs?

hyphen

26,262 posts

92 months

Friday 12th March 2021
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Sophisticated Sarah said:
Someone homely, with cooking skills, fun to be with... and a wazzo pair of jugs?
No as in the "are you looking for a serious relationship leading to commitment or just fun" type probing.

interstellar

3,436 posts

148 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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How did it go Petrus?

Petrus1983

8,975 posts

164 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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interstellar said:
How did it go Petrus?
Morning. Ok - firstly my head hurts and my eyes are a little fuzzy. But it was nice, really nice. We started at mine and then went for a wonder around town, but it was raining and gave up rather quickly. We were meant to get a Deliveroo but ended up in Waitrose buying a box of oysters, some fillet mignon steaks and some other random things instead. Cooking together was really fun, I managed to not kill myself shucking the oysters which I’d never done before, drank quite a lot and she left at 4am.

Hugo Stiglitz

37,399 posts

213 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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Why 4am

Petrus1983

8,975 posts

164 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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Hugo Stiglitz said:
Why 4am
She thought staying on a first date would be wrong.

V8covin

7,448 posts

195 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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Hugo Stiglitz said:
Why 4am
She had another date at 5 wink

LordHaveMurci

12,052 posts

171 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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V8covin said:
She had another date at 5 wink
Had to be home before her hubby finished his shift hehe

Petrus1983

8,975 posts

164 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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She phoned at 8.30am for an hour so hope he didn’t mind the discussion laugh

Hugo Stiglitz

37,399 posts

213 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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Bit odd. It's the sort of thing men do.

Does she have kids? Or a boyfriend that she's not bring upfront about.

830- he's gone to work.

CharlesdeGaulle

26,560 posts

182 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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There's a rather voyeuristic fascination with this date of petrus's. Mind your own business. laugh

Petrus1983

8,975 posts

164 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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Hugo Stiglitz said:
Bit odd. It's the sort of thing men do.

Does she have kids? Or a boyfriend that she's not bring upfront about.

830- he's gone to work.
We’d just had a really lovely evening, hadn’t realised it had ended up approaching 4am and she knew we’d end up sleeping with each other if she stayed - so left. She’s divorced - there’s no one else on the scene.

technodup

7,585 posts

132 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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Petrus1983 said:
We’d just had a really lovely evening, hadn’t realised it had ended up approaching 4am and she knew we’d end up sleeping with each other if she stayed - so left. She’s divorced - there’s no one else on the scene.
A bird in your house until 4am and you didn't get your hole? What sort of MeToo bullst is that? hehe





Petrus1983

8,975 posts

164 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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technodup said:
bird in your house until 4am and you didn't get your hole? What sort of MeToo bullst is that? hehe
I feel I’ve let this thread down - I’ll take a long hard look at myself to avoid a repeat biglaugh

technodup

7,585 posts

132 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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Petrus1983 said:
technodup said:
bird in your house until 4am and you didn't get your hole? What sort of MeToo bullst is that? hehe
I feel I’ve let this thread down - I’ll take a long hard look at myself to avoid a repeat biglaugh
Back to shagger school for you.

interstellar

3,436 posts

148 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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Glad to hear it went well mate. Ringing at 830 means you still had a lot to talk about and it’s a good sign.

Good on you mate.

Petrus1983

8,975 posts

164 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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interstellar said:
Glad to hear it went well mate. Ringing at 830 means you still had a lot to talk about and it’s a good sign.

Good on you mate.
Yes - and so far hasn’t given off any psycho vibes. A bit of a weird one is that it’s her birthday on Tuesday so have been unsure what to do. I’ve ended up sending flowers, birthday cupcakes and a card as we can’t see each other until Friday.

Chicken_Satay

2,301 posts

206 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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hyphen said:
technodup said:
Petrus1983 said:
We’d just had a really lovely evening, hadn’t realised it had ended up approaching 4am and she knew we’d end up sleeping with each other if she stayed - so left. She’s divorced - there’s no one else on the scene.
A bird in your house until 4am and you didn't get your hole? What sort of MeToo bullst is that? hehe
+1 Good to see this girl has found a nice friend.
It's not completely out of the ordinary. Anybody who has dated a lot of women will have experienced getting to different stages of the 'conversion funnel'. Some you win early on and some you lose.

I once had a nice Russian girl agree to stay the night at mine on the first date. We slept in the same bed. Nothing happened... Either I wasn't on top of my game (despite trying the following morning) or she simply wasn't ready/wasn't interested enough. Probably the latter. Either way, it's happened to most guys I know and it's all part of the game. You live and learn.

Petrus1983

8,975 posts

164 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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I’ve never slept with a girl on a first date that I’d have wanted to stay with for any significant length of time.

figtree

185 posts

97 months

Saturday 13th March 2021
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Sophisticated Sarah said:
hyphen said:
Petrus1983 said:
The mornings walk was with the flight attendant who I won’t be seeing again. The profile is of a international banking girl who I’ve FaceTimed with and now meeting properly tonight.
I am curious - what do you say to women when the "what are you looking for" type conversation comes up?
Someone homely, with cooking skills, fun to be with... and a wazzo pair of jugs?
Nice.

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