Thinking of leaving the OH
Discussion
blindswelledrat said:
sc0tt said:
blindswelledrat said:
I just find mums aren't that great for blow jobs, but each to their own
I don't know bsr. Never had a problem with yours.blindswelledrat said:
sc0tt said:
blindswelledrat said:
I just find mums aren't that great for blow jobs, but each to their own
I don't know bsr. Never had a problem with yours.
WinstonWolf said:
blindswelledrat said:
sc0tt said:
blindswelledrat said:
I just find mums aren't that great for blow jobs, but each to their own
I don't know bsr. Never had a problem with yours.
A few things for the OP if they're still keeping an eye on the thread.
Are you in such a dire position relationship-wise that you would make the split without anyone there to monkey swing to?
I think that if you're truly not satisfied with your relationship then you should do what makes you happy. I don't think you're doing anyone any favours by sticking around just because its easy. Resentment will only grow.
You're a long time dead and your partner deserves someone that will love her unconditionally for who/what she is.
Are you in such a dire position relationship-wise that you would make the split without anyone there to monkey swing to?
I think that if you're truly not satisfied with your relationship then you should do what makes you happy. I don't think you're doing anyone any favours by sticking around just because its easy. Resentment will only grow.
You're a long time dead and your partner deserves someone that will love her unconditionally for who/what she is.
back to the op
I did what you are proposing to do a few years ago. I tried to convince myself that my marriage was going/gone and the new person was a much better, more exciting prospect. I read loads of advice from people saying not to do it and actively tried to search positive stories from people who had succeeded (btw there are hardly any)
Anyway, after leaving my wife & kids it turned out to be a disaster. You think the other woman is much better but all she does currently is "top up" your life as it is now. Take away your wife/fiance and there will be a HUGE void.
This was 3 years ago for me, I'm now divorced and the other woman lasted about a year before I finally got rid of her. I tried to get back with my wife after realising the error of my ways but it was too late and she moved to another part of the country, taking my kids with her. I lost virtually all of the equity we had too and effectively had to start again. I suppose I got was I deserved and I fully accept I was the one in the wrong.
I'm in a new relationship now which is good but it'll never be the same as the one I had and I will always regret what happened. The sad thing is I expected this to happen, but tried to convince myself otherwise and found tiny justifications for it. If I could go back in time there is no way I'd do it again.
I did what you are proposing to do a few years ago. I tried to convince myself that my marriage was going/gone and the new person was a much better, more exciting prospect. I read loads of advice from people saying not to do it and actively tried to search positive stories from people who had succeeded (btw there are hardly any)
Anyway, after leaving my wife & kids it turned out to be a disaster. You think the other woman is much better but all she does currently is "top up" your life as it is now. Take away your wife/fiance and there will be a HUGE void.
This was 3 years ago for me, I'm now divorced and the other woman lasted about a year before I finally got rid of her. I tried to get back with my wife after realising the error of my ways but it was too late and she moved to another part of the country, taking my kids with her. I lost virtually all of the equity we had too and effectively had to start again. I suppose I got was I deserved and I fully accept I was the one in the wrong.
I'm in a new relationship now which is good but it'll never be the same as the one I had and I will always regret what happened. The sad thing is I expected this to happen, but tried to convince myself otherwise and found tiny justifications for it. If I could go back in time there is no way I'd do it again.
big hair said:
back to the op
I did what you are proposing to do a few years ago. I tried to convince myself that my marriage was going/gone and the new person was a much better, more exciting prospect. I read loads of advice from people saying not to do it and actively tried to search positive stories from people who had succeeded (btw there are hardly any)
Anyway, after leaving my wife & kids it turned out to be a disaster. You think the other woman is much better but all she does currently is "top up" your life as it is now. Take away your wife/fiance and there will be a HUGE void.
This was 3 years ago for me, I'm now divorced and the other woman lasted about a year before I finally got rid of her. I tried to get back with my wife after realising the error of my ways but it was too late and she moved to another part of the country, taking my kids with her. I lost virtually all of the equity we had too and effectively had to start again. I suppose I got was I deserved and I fully accept I was the one in the wrong.
I'm in a new relationship now which is good but it'll never be the same as the one I had and I will always regret what happened. The sad thing is I expected this to happen, but tried to convince myself otherwise and found tiny justifications for it. If I could go back in time there is no way I'd do it again.
ARE YOU LISTENING OP?I did what you are proposing to do a few years ago. I tried to convince myself that my marriage was going/gone and the new person was a much better, more exciting prospect. I read loads of advice from people saying not to do it and actively tried to search positive stories from people who had succeeded (btw there are hardly any)
Anyway, after leaving my wife & kids it turned out to be a disaster. You think the other woman is much better but all she does currently is "top up" your life as it is now. Take away your wife/fiance and there will be a HUGE void.
This was 3 years ago for me, I'm now divorced and the other woman lasted about a year before I finally got rid of her. I tried to get back with my wife after realising the error of my ways but it was too late and she moved to another part of the country, taking my kids with her. I lost virtually all of the equity we had too and effectively had to start again. I suppose I got was I deserved and I fully accept I was the one in the wrong.
I'm in a new relationship now which is good but it'll never be the same as the one I had and I will always regret what happened. The sad thing is I expected this to happen, but tried to convince myself otherwise and found tiny justifications for it. If I could go back in time there is no way I'd do it again.
sc0tt said:
blindswelledrat said:
Touche. She's 75 and severely disabled but I can see the appeal to someone aged 30 who still lives at home.
Well played. I'll concede as I'd rather this not turn nasty."A+ would have Bantz with again"
Ill accept a draw as the bounds of taste were already breached.Whats mum doing for tea?
Soov535 said:
big hair said:
back to the op
I did what you are proposing to do a few years ago. I tried to convince myself that my marriage was going/gone and the new person was a much better, more exciting prospect. I read loads of advice from people saying not to do it and actively tried to search positive stories from people who had succeeded (btw there are hardly any)
Anyway, after leaving my wife & kids it turned out to be a disaster. You think the other woman is much better but all she does currently is "top up" your life as it is now. Take away your wife/fiance and there will be a HUGE void.
This was 3 years ago for me, I'm now divorced and the other woman lasted about a year before I finally got rid of her. I tried to get back with my wife after realising the error of my ways but it was too late and she moved to another part of the country, taking my kids with her. I lost virtually all of the equity we had too and effectively had to start again. I suppose I got was I deserved and I fully accept I was the one in the wrong.
I'm in a new relationship now which is good but it'll never be the same as the one I had and I will always regret what happened. The sad thing is I expected this to happen, but tried to convince myself otherwise and found tiny justifications for it. If I could go back in time there is no way I'd do it again.
ARE YOU LISTENING OP?I did what you are proposing to do a few years ago. I tried to convince myself that my marriage was going/gone and the new person was a much better, more exciting prospect. I read loads of advice from people saying not to do it and actively tried to search positive stories from people who had succeeded (btw there are hardly any)
Anyway, after leaving my wife & kids it turned out to be a disaster. You think the other woman is much better but all she does currently is "top up" your life as it is now. Take away your wife/fiance and there will be a HUGE void.
This was 3 years ago for me, I'm now divorced and the other woman lasted about a year before I finally got rid of her. I tried to get back with my wife after realising the error of my ways but it was too late and she moved to another part of the country, taking my kids with her. I lost virtually all of the equity we had too and effectively had to start again. I suppose I got was I deserved and I fully accept I was the one in the wrong.
I'm in a new relationship now which is good but it'll never be the same as the one I had and I will always regret what happened. The sad thing is I expected this to happen, but tried to convince myself otherwise and found tiny justifications for it. If I could go back in time there is no way I'd do it again.
big hair said:
back to the op
I did what you are proposing to do a few years ago. I tried to convince myself that my marriage was going/gone and the new person was a much better, more exciting prospect. I read loads of advice from people saying not to do it and actively tried to search positive stories from people who had succeeded (btw there are hardly any)
Anyway, after leaving my wife & kids it turned out to be a disaster. You think the other woman is much better but all she does currently is "top up" your life as it is now. Take away your wife/fiance and there will be a HUGE void.
This was 3 years ago for me, I'm now divorced and the other woman lasted about a year before I finally got rid of her. I tried to get back with my wife after realising the error of my ways but it was too late and she moved to another part of the country, taking my kids with her. I lost virtually all of the equity we had too and effectively had to start again. I suppose I got was I deserved and I fully accept I was the one in the wrong.
I'm in a new relationship now which is good but it'll never be the same as the one I had and I will always regret what happened. The sad thing is I expected this to happen, but tried to convince myself otherwise and found tiny justifications for it. If I could go back in time there is no way I'd do it again.
Sorry to hear it.... but a good post indeed. OP, I hope you're listening. I did what you are proposing to do a few years ago. I tried to convince myself that my marriage was going/gone and the new person was a much better, more exciting prospect. I read loads of advice from people saying not to do it and actively tried to search positive stories from people who had succeeded (btw there are hardly any)
Anyway, after leaving my wife & kids it turned out to be a disaster. You think the other woman is much better but all she does currently is "top up" your life as it is now. Take away your wife/fiance and there will be a HUGE void.
This was 3 years ago for me, I'm now divorced and the other woman lasted about a year before I finally got rid of her. I tried to get back with my wife after realising the error of my ways but it was too late and she moved to another part of the country, taking my kids with her. I lost virtually all of the equity we had too and effectively had to start again. I suppose I got was I deserved and I fully accept I was the one in the wrong.
I'm in a new relationship now which is good but it'll never be the same as the one I had and I will always regret what happened. The sad thing is I expected this to happen, but tried to convince myself otherwise and found tiny justifications for it. If I could go back in time there is no way I'd do it again.
Adenauer said:
Pit Pony said:
I sat in the Sand dunes on Saturday with my little Dog wondering what life would be like without my wife. Not because I'm thinking of leaving her, but because her GP has found a lump on her kidney, and she's having a scan tomorrow, and she's not been very well for a few weeks.
I decided that, despite her telling me that I'm free to look for the love of a good woman once she's gone, I'd probably just take to trolling s
te on the internet, and perhaps buy a turnover jig for the garage. That's what my kids would prefer too. I think.
Best of luck, let's hope it all turns out okay for you, fingers crossed. I decided that, despite her telling me that I'm free to look for the love of a good woman once she's gone, I'd probably just take to trolling s
te on the internet, and perhaps buy a turnover jig for the garage. That's what my kids would prefer too. I think. Pit Pony said:
It's all good. Consultant can't find anything. Says it all looks normal. Might have been a virus that was causing all the pain in her back and side. So very VERY relieved.
Couldn't really add to what others had said earlier, so didn't post. Went through similar concerns with Mrs Champers last summer; I am very very pleased at this news; as bsr said the relief is immeasurable, and you will know exactly what I mean Pit Pony said:
Adenauer said:
Pit Pony said:
I sat in the Sand dunes on Saturday with my little Dog wondering what life would be like without my wife. Not because I'm thinking of leaving her, but because her GP has found a lump on her kidney, and she's having a scan tomorrow, and she's not been very well for a few weeks.
I decided that, despite her telling me that I'm free to look for the love of a good woman once she's gone, I'd probably just take to trolling ste on the internet, and perhaps buy a turnover jig for the garage. That's what my kids would prefer too. I think.
Best of luck, let's hope it all turns out okay for you, fingers crossed. I decided that, despite her telling me that I'm free to look for the love of a good woman once she's gone, I'd probably just take to trolling s
te on the internet, and perhaps buy a turnover jig for the garage. That's what my kids would prefer too. I think. Having gone through a few scares - the sense of relief is indescribable.
I wouldn't wish bad news on anyone.
Pit Pony said:
Adenauer said:
Pit Pony said:
I sat in the Sand dunes on Saturday with my little Dog wondering what life would be like without my wife. Not because I'm thinking of leaving her, but because her GP has found a lump on her kidney, and she's having a scan tomorrow, and she's not been very well for a few weeks.
I decided that, despite her telling me that I'm free to look for the love of a good woman once she's gone, I'd probably just take to trolling ste on the internet, and perhaps buy a turnover jig for the garage. That's what my kids would prefer too. I think.
Best of luck, let's hope it all turns out okay for you, fingers crossed. I decided that, despite her telling me that I'm free to look for the love of a good woman once she's gone, I'd probably just take to trolling s
te on the internet, and perhaps buy a turnover jig for the garage. That's what my kids would prefer too. I think. 
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