Match.com (Vol. 7)
Discussion
antspants said:
...and bumped into the woman I split from about 6 weeks ago, anyway one drink led to another and she spent the night at mine and we're back together again....
That meant an awkward phone call Sunday morning to cancel the woman who was supposed to be coming over
It's your life and all.That meant an awkward phone call Sunday morning to cancel the woman who was supposed to be coming over
BUT
The first girl that you split from, you realise that whatever it was that caused the split won't be any different this time around. (your friends, her friends, your hoobies/outlooks. Hers) So it's sort of doomed to fail in the near future. Don't get me wrong, some make up sex is great. Especially if you are both still single post break up. (fear of being alone
) But if you were already in the process of meeting new people, I probably would have stuck with the newer option.Personally, I've never gone back to anyone for seconds. Depending on situation, how can you ever full 100% trust them again? In fact I tend to actively avoid any girls I've been romantically interested in if I bump into them /see them at a distance weeks/months later.
I guess I'm probably in the minority though.
Shappers24 said:
antspants said:
Shappers24 said:
Another Friday and another date from Tinder. This ones a bit more up my street - meeting in town for a couple of gins. I’ll let you know how it goes...
How did it go? How you doin ;-)
would be brilliant if she joined up and posted.
Petrus1983 said:
I accidentally deleted someone totally lovely I was chatting to on Bumble - is there any way of recovering the situation?
In the last 2 months or so you were going to Cyprus, then you met the parents and the kiddie of another, now you have deleted one accidentally.What's going on, do you fall in lust too easily
Petrus1983 said:
SpunkyGlory said:
How do you accidentally delete someone? I imagine it's not like there's one button to click, doesn't it ask you if you're sure etc?
I don’t know - I was at the boat show hospitality all day and thought I was deleting a misspelt msg ;/ S1KRR said:
Personally, I've never gone back to anyone for seconds. Depending on situation, how can you ever full 100% trust them again? In fact I tend to actively avoid any girls I've been romantically interested in if I bump into them /see them at a distance weeks/months later.
I guess I'm probably in the minority though.
Me neitherI guess I'm probably in the minority though.
They are exes for a reason, and life really is too short.
Even those who I’ve received “can we just be friends?” from, I avoid as well. Although a number of them have wanted to go for a coffee and a chat later on – which is always refused.
George Smiley said:
Petrus1983 said:
I accidentally deleted someone totally lovely I was chatting to on Bumble - is there any way of recovering the situation?
Ffs really? Met the last girls kid, too soon, top troll or a liability. Dating multiple women is fine. Dragging their kids into something that only lasts a few weeks is out of order - in my opinion anyway.
Petrus1983 said:
SpeckledJim said:
Get someone else to use their account to find her and send her a message.
She’d have to also like them. This ones the fish that got away. Oh well. SpeckledJim said:
Petrus1983 said:
SpeckledJim said:
Get someone else to use their account to find her and send her a message.
She’d have to also like them. This ones the fish that got away. Oh well. Won't make him sound like a creep at all.
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