Strange relationship developed. HELP!
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This is the problem. I just hope we meet up more and more as it's amazing. You can imagine. But when it ends is my fear, the longer it lasts the harder it will be. I suppose I just need convincing that when it ends, ultimately, so what. Concentrate on getting someone younger with a future and take the experience and fun out of what I had.
When I was 23 I was seeing a 39 yr old. Best "fun" I've ever had...but I broke it off because I knew I wanted kids before I hit 30, and that would have meant she was pushing 50... Not going to happen was it?!
Enjoy the "fun". Tell her in no uncertain terms you will be looking elsewhere too. Do so, and move on when you find someone who you get on with just as well, if not better, and is nearer your own age.
Good on ya.
Btw fast forward only 4 years, and I've already been living with my partner for two years and couldn't be happier. Always look back fondly on my toy boy days...I imagine you'll be learning a lot to reflect on
Enjoy the "fun". Tell her in no uncertain terms you will be looking elsewhere too. Do so, and move on when you find someone who you get on with just as well, if not better, and is nearer your own age.
Good on ya.
Btw fast forward only 4 years, and I've already been living with my partner for two years and couldn't be happier. Always look back fondly on my toy boy days...I imagine you'll be learning a lot to reflect on
McFsC said:
This is the problem. I just hope we meet up more and more as it's amazing. You can imagine. But when it ends is my fear, THE LONGER IT LASTS THE HARDER IT WILL BE. I suppose I just need convincing that when it ends, ultimately, so what. Concentrate on getting someone younger with a future and take the experience and fun out of what I had.
That changes as you age Son , trust me ! McFsC said:
This is the problem. I just hope we meet up more and more as it's amazing. You can imagine. But when it ends is my fear, the longer it lasts the harder it will be. I suppose I just need convincing that when it ends, ultimately, so what. Concentrate on getting someone younger with a future and take the experience and fun out of what I had.
If you get in any deeper you will start going mental when she is not around worrying she's not out servicing one of the other bike club members. You need to download Tinder now and make sure you have a full battery Have you asked your friend if she is still peeling his banana?
A similar thing happened to me but I ended it due to it becoming clear that it was going to be more then no strings
It was good fun though!!
Just make it clear that you want it to be no strings only. If you got into a serious long term relationship would you want to be porking a 70 year old in your mid 40s? Think of allthat money needed on vaseline..
It was good fun though!!
Just make it clear that you want it to be no strings only. If you got into a serious long term relationship would you want to be porking a 70 year old in your mid 40s? Think of allthat money needed on vaseline..
dave_s13 said:
Sounds like a decent apprenticeship to me. If you decide to make a long term thing of it you are basically mentally ill.
Keep banging her as a benefit but also actively be on the pull for someone who at least has functioning ovaries. Then end it with the older lass. I'm sure she's lovely but you're just a nipper and not for you in the long term. Unless you're mentally ill.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^Keep banging her as a benefit but also actively be on the pull for someone who at least has functioning ovaries. Then end it with the older lass. I'm sure she's lovely but you're just a nipper and not for you in the long term. Unless you're mentally ill.
.desolate said:
Some strange blokes on this thread.
More than likely a pack of middle aged men who haven't seen their wives pussies for years who are getting hot under the collar at the idea of a young lad sticking his little pee pee into a woman closer to their own age than his, the indignation of it all.I would be backing out of this one quite quickly though, you say you love her but she doesn't seem all that fussed - it's going to either hurt you by blowing in your face and that will cause problems with your mates.
Call it a day and stop chasing her IMO.
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