i wanna tell you a story.
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Jimmy Recard said:
I just can't see that anyone would give away his wealth for the possibility of reconciliation. Given that ultimatum, I'd p
s off to be single and continue my life.
One woman didn't want him when he had a house, money and a job. Now he has none of those things no woman will want him. Baffling to think that becoming a homeless loser will make you more attractive. s off to be single and continue my life.s3fella said:
Have you tried hoofing her up the clacker?
That made me laugh more than it should (for such a serious thread, if it's actually true).If the thread's a faithful representation of the facts, the OP's f
ked, in every possible way, and has my sympathy.BTW, "wanna" is, to my mind, a perfectly acceptable contraction. "Wanna" cup of coffee? "Wanna" pint? Etc.
Well, quite an array of responses which is to be expected.
For those who don't believe, I can assure it is all true and there is plenty more.
If I read this myself five or six months ago i would call BS too as it does sound like a very poorly scripted film and yes, I do come across as a complete and utter fool.
I can't reply to each doubter individually but:
I owned my home for 14 years, the mortgage was in my name but the lady in question lived with me for two years and her name was on the deeds for one and a half, I sold the house and she received half the equity (as did I) we had an agreement she would give me that money to re invest but she hasn't.
I put a years rent upfront on a London house (plus security deposit) totalling £23,000 because I had no job and consequently couldn't get acceptance any other way. originally the lease was in both our names but at the 11th hour she refused to sign.
The equity I retained has gone to pay off the £23k which was largely on credit cards, a further £32,000 I gave her which she invested in another house and I have been paying legacy bills.
She insisted I have STD tests as she always suspected me of being unfaithful, i never was and all the tests were totally clear.
Why don't I move into the London property? She has told me she will and over a period of time I will then move in with her. So far she hasn't. further it is bare and as i said I sold all my possessions on her say so, don't have so much as a knife and fork.
For some insane reason which defies all logic i do believe in her, she has taken me to the absolute brink. I ask myself why i continue to hold the proverbial candle for her and it's because we are incredibly close to being a couple in many ways.
It would only take one day for her to "Flip the script" and we would be there.
Do i think we will? I have to as i can't imagine why else she is continuing to be like this, still keeping in contact and of late seeing me quite a bit unless she wants to be together too. And of course i love her totally.
Every day is like climbing a mountain for me, it seems ridiculous that ones life could change so much but it has for me. I've not written this as a warning to others or to gain sympathy.
For those who don't believe, I can assure it is all true and there is plenty more.
If I read this myself five or six months ago i would call BS too as it does sound like a very poorly scripted film and yes, I do come across as a complete and utter fool.
I can't reply to each doubter individually but:
I owned my home for 14 years, the mortgage was in my name but the lady in question lived with me for two years and her name was on the deeds for one and a half, I sold the house and she received half the equity (as did I) we had an agreement she would give me that money to re invest but she hasn't.
I put a years rent upfront on a London house (plus security deposit) totalling £23,000 because I had no job and consequently couldn't get acceptance any other way. originally the lease was in both our names but at the 11th hour she refused to sign.
The equity I retained has gone to pay off the £23k which was largely on credit cards, a further £32,000 I gave her which she invested in another house and I have been paying legacy bills.
She insisted I have STD tests as she always suspected me of being unfaithful, i never was and all the tests were totally clear.
Why don't I move into the London property? She has told me she will and over a period of time I will then move in with her. So far she hasn't. further it is bare and as i said I sold all my possessions on her say so, don't have so much as a knife and fork.
For some insane reason which defies all logic i do believe in her, she has taken me to the absolute brink. I ask myself why i continue to hold the proverbial candle for her and it's because we are incredibly close to being a couple in many ways.
It would only take one day for her to "Flip the script" and we would be there.
Do i think we will? I have to as i can't imagine why else she is continuing to be like this, still keeping in contact and of late seeing me quite a bit unless she wants to be together too. And of course i love her totally.
Every day is like climbing a mountain for me, it seems ridiculous that ones life could change so much but it has for me. I've not written this as a warning to others or to gain sympathy.
You have given her 1/2 the equity in one house and another £32k to invest.
No wonder you are hoping she comes back.
I have been with my OH for nearly 10 years, I laughed when she asked if she could be put on my deeds on the London property, She has only really been self-sufficient for 3 nearly 4 years with a decent income, but some of her friends think that she deserves a share of my property.
She is the one for me, but she aint getting a finger on my property that I was working 16 hour days for 4 years to pay the deposit, etc on.
No wonder you are hoping she comes back.
I have been with my OH for nearly 10 years, I laughed when she asked if she could be put on my deeds on the London property, She has only really been self-sufficient for 3 nearly 4 years with a decent income, but some of her friends think that she deserves a share of my property.
She is the one for me, but she aint getting a finger on my property that I was working 16 hour days for 4 years to pay the deposit, etc on.
Thankyou4calling said:
I ask myself why i continue to hold the proverbial candle for her and it's because we are incredibly close to being a couple in many ways.
It would only take one day for her to "Flip the script" and we would be there.
Sorry, but if you really believe that based on the stuff you've written you are beyond deluded.It would only take one day for her to "Flip the script" and we would be there.
Your friends - and family - would already have told you that if your post is an accurate reflection of what has happened.
Thankyou4calling said:
Well, quite an array of responses which is to be expected.
For those who don't believe, I can assure it is all true and there is plenty more.
If I read this myself five or six months ago i would call BS too as it does sound like a very poorly scripted film and yes, I do come across as a complete and utter fool.
I can't reply to each doubter individually but:
I owned my home for 14 years, the mortgage was in my name but the lady in question lived with me for two years and her name was on the deeds for one and a half, I sold the house and she received half the equity (as did I) we had an agreement she would give me that money to re invest but she hasn't.
I put a years rent upfront on a London house (plus security deposit) totalling £23,000 because I had no job and consequently couldn't get acceptance any other way. originally the lease was in both our names but at the 11th hour she refused to sign.
The equity I retained has gone to pay off the £23k which was largely on credit cards, a further £32,000 I gave her which she invested in another house and I have been paying legacy bills.
She insisted I have STD tests as she always suspected me of being unfaithful, i never was and all the tests were totally clear.
Why don't I move into the London property? She has told me she will and over a period of time I will then move in with her. So far she hasn't. further it is bare and as i said I sold all my possessions on her say so, don't have so much as a knife and fork.
For some insane reason which defies all logic i do believe in her, she has taken me to the absolute brink. I ask myself why i continue to hold the proverbial candle for her and it's because we are incredibly close to being a couple in many ways.
It would only take one day for her to "Flip the script" and we would be there.
Do i think we will? I have to as i can't imagine why else she is continuing to be like this, still keeping in contact and of late seeing me quite a bit unless she wants to be together too. And of course i love her totally.
Every day is like climbing a mountain for me, it seems ridiculous that ones life could change so much but it has for me. I've not written this as a warning to others or to gain sympathy.
A fool and his money... as the saying goes.For those who don't believe, I can assure it is all true and there is plenty more.
If I read this myself five or six months ago i would call BS too as it does sound like a very poorly scripted film and yes, I do come across as a complete and utter fool.
I can't reply to each doubter individually but:
I owned my home for 14 years, the mortgage was in my name but the lady in question lived with me for two years and her name was on the deeds for one and a half, I sold the house and she received half the equity (as did I) we had an agreement she would give me that money to re invest but she hasn't.
I put a years rent upfront on a London house (plus security deposit) totalling £23,000 because I had no job and consequently couldn't get acceptance any other way. originally the lease was in both our names but at the 11th hour she refused to sign.
The equity I retained has gone to pay off the £23k which was largely on credit cards, a further £32,000 I gave her which she invested in another house and I have been paying legacy bills.
She insisted I have STD tests as she always suspected me of being unfaithful, i never was and all the tests were totally clear.
Why don't I move into the London property? She has told me she will and over a period of time I will then move in with her. So far she hasn't. further it is bare and as i said I sold all my possessions on her say so, don't have so much as a knife and fork.
For some insane reason which defies all logic i do believe in her, she has taken me to the absolute brink. I ask myself why i continue to hold the proverbial candle for her and it's because we are incredibly close to being a couple in many ways.
It would only take one day for her to "Flip the script" and we would be there.
Do i think we will? I have to as i can't imagine why else she is continuing to be like this, still keeping in contact and of late seeing me quite a bit unless she wants to be together too. And of course i love her totally.
Every day is like climbing a mountain for me, it seems ridiculous that ones life could change so much but it has for me. I've not written this as a warning to others or to gain sympathy.
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