Sex drive and age?
Discussion
uk_vette said:
Hi O.P.
It is all psychological, it's all in the mind.
Your dick is ruled by you head, I am sure you know that.
If your feeling s
t, then your going to struggle to get a good pole driver.
I was in the same boat with the ex, struggled to get a good pole driver.
So being a randy bugger, I just couldn't carry on like that, it was so depressing.
So the divorce followed.
Not saying that's your way forward, but anyway, , , , ,
Now with a new relationship I am more than happy with the new girl friend, in my mind there is love and attraction again, some thing I missed hugely,I can't wait to get home and see her.
It might be a good idea to add that the ex, was a chain smoker, and as I have never smoked, it was a continual "smoking aura" around her.
On her clothes and every thing.
Now the new girl is as fresh as a daisy, never a smoker, never going to be a smoker, and the natural attraction is stronger than ever.
It's all about what your head is thinking, if your not feeling any attraction to her, then your going to struggle big time for a pole driver.
If your struggling now to get good sex with her, then it's only going to get worse.
I am 56, and we get down and dirty 3 - 4 nights a week
vette
It is all psychological, it's all in the mind.
Your dick is ruled by you head, I am sure you know that.
If your feeling s
t, then your going to struggle to get a good pole driver.I was in the same boat with the ex, struggled to get a good pole driver.
So being a randy bugger, I just couldn't carry on like that, it was so depressing.
So the divorce followed.
Not saying that's your way forward, but anyway, , , , ,
Now with a new relationship I am more than happy with the new girl friend, in my mind there is love and attraction again, some thing I missed hugely,I can't wait to get home and see her.
It might be a good idea to add that the ex, was a chain smoker, and as I have never smoked, it was a continual "smoking aura" around her.
On her clothes and every thing.
Now the new girl is as fresh as a daisy, never a smoker, never going to be a smoker, and the natural attraction is stronger than ever.
It's all about what your head is thinking, if your not feeling any attraction to her, then your going to struggle big time for a pole driver.
If your struggling now to get good sex with her, then it's only going to get worse.
I am 56, and we get down and dirty 3 - 4 nights a week
vette
Edited by PoleDriver on Tuesday 12th June 18:30
PoleDriver said:
uk_vette said:
Hi O.P.
It is all psychological, it's all in the mind.
Your dick is ruled by you head, I am sure you know that.
If your feeling st, then your going to struggle to get a good pole driver.
I was in the same boat with the ex, struggled to get a good pole driver.
So being a randy bugger, I just couldn't carry on like that, it was so depressing.
So the divorce followed.
Not saying that's your way forward, but anyway, , , , ,
Now with a new relationship I am more than happy with the new girl friend, in my mind there is love and attraction again, some thing I missed hugely,I can't wait to get home and see her.
It might be a good idea to add that the ex, was a chain smoker, and as I have never smoked, it was a continual "smoking aura" around her.
On her clothes and every thing.
Now the new girl is as fresh as a daisy, never a smoker, never going to be a smoker, and the natural attraction is stronger than ever.
It's all about what your head is thinking, if your not feeling any attraction to her, then your going to struggle big time for a pole driver.
If your struggling now to get good sex with her, then it's only going to get worse.
I am 56, and we get down and dirty 3 - 4 nights a week
vette
It is all psychological, it's all in the mind.
Your dick is ruled by you head, I am sure you know that.
If your feeling s
t, then your going to struggle to get a good pole driver.I was in the same boat with the ex, struggled to get a good pole driver.
So being a randy bugger, I just couldn't carry on like that, it was so depressing.
So the divorce followed.
Not saying that's your way forward, but anyway, , , , ,
Now with a new relationship I am more than happy with the new girl friend, in my mind there is love and attraction again, some thing I missed hugely,I can't wait to get home and see her.
It might be a good idea to add that the ex, was a chain smoker, and as I have never smoked, it was a continual "smoking aura" around her.
On her clothes and every thing.
Now the new girl is as fresh as a daisy, never a smoker, never going to be a smoker, and the natural attraction is stronger than ever.
It's all about what your head is thinking, if your not feeling any attraction to her, then your going to struggle big time for a pole driver.
If your struggling now to get good sex with her, then it's only going to get worse.
I am 56, and we get down and dirty 3 - 4 nights a week
vette
Edited by PoleDriver on Tuesday 12th June 18:30
the a30 is a hateful roadPoleDriver said:
uk_vette said:
Hi O.P.
It is all psychological, it's all in the mind.
Your dick is ruled by you head, I am sure you know that.
If your feeling st, then your going to struggle to get a good pole driver.
I was in the same boat with the ex, struggled to get a good pole driver.
So being a randy bugger, I just couldn't carry on like that, it was so depressing.
So the divorce followed.
Not saying that's your way forward, but anyway, , , , ,
Now with a new relationship I am more than happy with the new girl friend, in my mind there is love and attraction again, some thing I missed hugely,I can't wait to get home and see her.
It might be a good idea to add that the ex, was a chain smoker, and as I have never smoked, it was a continual "smoking aura" around her.
On her clothes and every thing.
Now the new girl is as fresh as a daisy, never a smoker, never going to be a smoker, and the natural attraction is stronger than ever.
It's all about what your head is thinking, if your not feeling any attraction to her, then your going to struggle big time for a pole driver.
If your struggling now to get good sex with her, then it's only going to get worse.
I am 56, and we get down and dirty 3 - 4 nights a week
vette
It is all psychological, it's all in the mind.
Your dick is ruled by you head, I am sure you know that.
If your feeling s
t, then your going to struggle to get a good pole driver.I was in the same boat with the ex, struggled to get a good pole driver.
So being a randy bugger, I just couldn't carry on like that, it was so depressing.
So the divorce followed.
Not saying that's your way forward, but anyway, , , , ,
Now with a new relationship I am more than happy with the new girl friend, in my mind there is love and attraction again, some thing I missed hugely,I can't wait to get home and see her.
It might be a good idea to add that the ex, was a chain smoker, and as I have never smoked, it was a continual "smoking aura" around her.
On her clothes and every thing.
Now the new girl is as fresh as a daisy, never a smoker, never going to be a smoker, and the natural attraction is stronger than ever.
It's all about what your head is thinking, if your not feeling any attraction to her, then your going to struggle big time for a pole driver.
If your struggling now to get good sex with her, then it's only going to get worse.
I am 56, and we get down and dirty 3 - 4 nights a week
vette
Edited by PoleDriver on Tuesday 12th June 18:30
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Ha, ha, ha
Good,
vette
bhstewie said:
hstewie said: Here's a question for the "older" ones amongst us - at what point does the age limits of people you find attractive/perv on start to creep up?
I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
.I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
I met my current girlfriend about 3 years ago, living together for about 2,5 years.
She was 27 when I met her, and I was 53.
She will be 31 this September.
Sex has never been so good for many a year, or since I was about early twenties any way.
She's fantastic.
vette
Interesting one.
At one point ( some years ago ) i'd have at least 8 wks per day + sex with anything that moved and once shagged a man!
Anyway... i've chilled a bit
Question, if your wife/GF has poor health due to illness so goes off sex, do you replace them or be compassionate and forget sex?
S
At one point ( some years ago ) i'd have at least 8 w
ks per day + sex with anything that moved and once shagged a man!Anyway... i've chilled a bit
Question, if your wife/GF has poor health due to illness so goes off sex, do you replace them or be compassionate and forget sex?
S
I am 31, turning 32 in Aug. I have been married for 6 years and we have a 2 year old. I cant be bothered with sex. Currently trying for a 2nd child...
Sex is to darn messy and I just cant be bothered. Maybe having the kid is off putting... tbh I would rather watch TV than get down to it...
What the heck is wrong with me? Married life?
Sex is to darn messy and I just cant be bothered. Maybe having the kid is off putting... tbh I would rather watch TV than get down to it...
What the heck is wrong with me? Married life?
Sex, like every other form of human activity, varies according to the individuals personal preferences. There really is no general rule as to the intensity of the Sex drive in humans, just as the appetite for food varies between individuals, and varies in virtually every other form of human activity.
There are no rights and wrongs. There are averages, such as the average UK couple between the ages of 20 and 40 tending to have sex, in one form or another, roughly twice a week. But this can vary between ten times the average, or even more, and virtually no sex.
There is a general tendency for sexual activity to diminish with age. Few octogenarians have huge amounts of sex, but there are no rules. Purely a matter of personal preference and stamina.
One lesson I have learned over years of experience. A willing woman makes a huge difference to the whole experience. Never hope to change a woman in a relationship. The building blocks are fixed in early life. It is all down to the preferences of the individual. IMO intelligent women are much better and more inventive, lovers. But they are also better Mothers, Cooks, Companions and Sweethearts. That's been my experience.
There are no rights and wrongs. There are averages, such as the average UK couple between the ages of 20 and 40 tending to have sex, in one form or another, roughly twice a week. But this can vary between ten times the average, or even more, and virtually no sex.
There is a general tendency for sexual activity to diminish with age. Few octogenarians have huge amounts of sex, but there are no rules. Purely a matter of personal preference and stamina.
One lesson I have learned over years of experience. A willing woman makes a huge difference to the whole experience. Never hope to change a woman in a relationship. The building blocks are fixed in early life. It is all down to the preferences of the individual. IMO intelligent women are much better and more inventive, lovers. But they are also better Mothers, Cooks, Companions and Sweethearts. That's been my experience.
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