Confused about an ex-girlfriend

Confused about an ex-girlfriend

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anonymous-user

56 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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PH95, happy new year, I think she misses you scratchchin

Petrolhead95

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7,043 posts

156 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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I got that impression too. Happy new year guys!

All that jazz

7,632 posts

148 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Petrolhead95 said:
Not really. I went home for Christmas and New Years to gather some space but she turned up at my mum's house Tuesday night and she's still here now. Quite surprising as she's a new driver but made the 2 hour trip down here on her own. I'll probably get some abuse for that but things seem to be getting better.

Sorry.
confused I am confused with the normal living arrangements of this relationship. Where is "home"? She lives 2 hours away from you but you say you've come home for Christmas and NY, so where do you normally live? She's only 18 if I recall correctly so unlikely to have her own place so does she still live with her folks? Do you doss with her folks then?

Petrolhead95

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7,043 posts

156 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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All that jazz said:
confused I am confused with the normal living arrangements of this relationship. Where is "home"? She lives 2 hours away from you but you say you've come home for Christmas and NY, so where do you normally live? She's only 18 if I recall correctly so unlikely to have her own place so does she still live with her folks? Do you doss with her folks then?
My house is around the corner from her parents where she lives. I've been down at my parents house which is 2 hours away. Sorry for the confusion.

All that jazz

7,632 posts

148 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Petrolhead95 said:
All that jazz said:
confused I am confused with the normal living arrangements of this relationship. Where is "home"? She lives 2 hours away from you but you say you've come home for Christmas and NY, so where do you normally live? She's only 18 if I recall correctly so unlikely to have her own place so does she still live with her folks? Do you doss with her folks then?
My house is around the corner from her parents where she lives. I've been down at my parents house which is 2 hours away. Sorry for the confusion.
OK.

So this is a strange turn of events then. Why after blowing cold for so long has she suddenly decided to drive 2 hours to come to see you? Would it perhaps be because she still had some outstanding Crimbo presents to be opened? scratchchin


stuartmmcfc

8,671 posts

194 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Pregnant?

Petrolhead95

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7,043 posts

156 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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She's been really different since I've been hinting at moving home and having actually gone down to my parents for 10 days. Maybe an eye opener to what it will be like it I decide to move home?

All that jazz

7,632 posts

148 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Petrolhead95 said:
She's been really different since I've been hinting at moving home and having actually gone down to my parents for 10 days. Maybe an eye opener to what it will be like it I decide to move home?
But..

I said:
Why after blowing cold for so long has she suddenly decided to drive 2 hours to come to see you? Would it perhaps be because she still had some outstanding Crimbo presents to be opened?
scratchchin

Petrolhead95

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7,043 posts

156 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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No, it's not because she wants presents.

All that jazz

7,632 posts

148 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Right.

Hainey

4,381 posts

202 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Did you give her those presents?

anonymous-user

56 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Hainey said:
Did you give her those presents?
scratchchin

Stickyfinger

8,429 posts

107 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Pregnant soon then....

pc.iow

1,879 posts

205 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Stickyfinger said:
Pregnant soon then....
Stickfingers at least stickyfinger.

Petrolhead95

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7,043 posts

156 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Not yet. They're still under my bed.

Hainey

4,381 posts

202 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Petrolhead95 said:
Not yet. They're still under my bed.
You going to give her them? Actually, did she know you got her them?

WaferThinHam

1,680 posts

132 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Petrolhead95 said:
Not yet. They're still under my bed.
By "under your bed" you mean on eBay right?

Petrolhead95

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7,043 posts

156 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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She doesn't know as far as I'm aware. Still undecided so they're under my bed.

Hainey

4,381 posts

202 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Petrolhead95 said:
She doesn't know as far as I'm aware. Still undecided so they're under my bed.
FWIW, and it's just advice, I'd cool off on giving them to her for a while. Let the relationship reset itself and see what comes out of it. It sounds like you two are talking like adults now and that can only be a good thing.

Booty calls are great but they do get in the way of meaningful dialogue after all.

Never know, maybe come Easter she will be getting some great gifts and believe it or not everyone on here is actually rooting for you.

Good luck.

All that jazz

7,632 posts

148 months

Monday 2nd January 2017
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Petrolhead95 said:
Not yet. They're still under my bed.
yikes

Seriously? bow

This thread is missing a lot of information. I think you just like to tease us Mr 95.

Some questions that need answering :

1. Did she really just turn up on your folks' doorstep unannounced as your earlier post suggests or
2. Did you plead and beg her to come over because you were missing her and
3. offered to pay for her petrol? (hehe)
4. Did you not give her anything as Christmas gifts?
5. Not even a card? (hehe)
6. Did she get you anything?
7. ???
8. Profit?