Having 'The Chop'
Discussion
Me and mrs NSFW have been having the conversation about me having a Vasectomy, now - this was my option I threw in there after we had our second child (4 months ago) as the hospitals have said that they don't advise us having any ore children due to health restraints on her part (severe pre-eclampsia twice, emergency C-Sections etc...) anyway, considering she had gone through what she had I have offered to have the chop. I have had the consult with the doctor, and have now been given the appointment date (for this month, pretty quick I thought!)... But when they phoned me with this news she got all sad and said that we would never have anymore children, and more to the point she would never be pregnant again.
What I'm asking is, as we have had THOROUGH discussions about this and she does not want anymore surgery, which I fully understand. Is there going to be and has anyone experienced resentment (if that's the right word?) for their partner or themselves having the operation? I know it's reversible with mixed results but I am happy with 2 kids and she has been advised not to have anymore, but should anything happen to us in the future as a couple she 'could' potentially have children but I couldn't (I'm fine with this). I'm just curious if anyone has experienced a different kind of 'mental' after the op? She is normally a calm, placid person and we very rarely argue, just bicker like married couples can. But SWMBO can change into SWT quite easily as I read on here every now and then!
What I'm asking is, as we have had THOROUGH discussions about this and she does not want anymore surgery, which I fully understand. Is there going to be and has anyone experienced resentment (if that's the right word?) for their partner or themselves having the operation? I know it's reversible with mixed results but I am happy with 2 kids and she has been advised not to have anymore, but should anything happen to us in the future as a couple she 'could' potentially have children but I couldn't (I'm fine with this). I'm just curious if anyone has experienced a different kind of 'mental' after the op? She is normally a calm, placid person and we very rarely argue, just bicker like married couples can. But SWMBO can change into SWT quite easily as I read on here every now and then!
Pixel Pusher said:
Had mine done a few years ago and not had any issues with SWMBO.
Mind you, we have 4 of the little gits so you can see why.
You could suggest having some of your cock porridge frozen while it still works and then have the snip?
http://www.hfea.gov.uk/74.html
Best of both worlds then.
That's not a bad idea, turkey baster and a chest freezer it is then! Mind you, we have 4 of the little gits so you can see why.
You could suggest having some of your cock porridge frozen while it still works and then have the snip?
http://www.hfea.gov.uk/74.html
Best of both worlds then.
Thanks for all the reply's...
HarrySmith said:
I don't get these threads; why would a man volunteer to have his balls snipped off. That's what it is right? Seems like the ultimate surrender of one's man card to me.
It's not a surrender of the card, just not risking mrs NSFW's health again and as i'm happy not to have anymore children then it just makes sense.Gassing Station | Health Matters | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff