Removing cheating spouse from home - URGENT advice needed
Discussion
PH XKR said:
A few years ago I found PH through a story about some guy finding a Nazi bunker at the bottom of his garden. This thread has had the same anti-climatic ending!
Wasn't that thread just pure fantasy though?Not sure what I can do to spice it up really, bar embarking on a double axe murdering spree at the ex's new house.
theboss said:
I heard from a parent at school that various people had 'known' what was going on i.e. it had been talk of the playground, which made me feel like a fool for being the last person around here to find out what was happening in his home and marriage.
I know the feeling, albeit not playground talk, but circle of friends.theboss said:
Went out for a morning walk today in the sun, taking in the sunshine, birdsong and stunning countryside views right on my doorstep, and felt very glad to be where I am right now. First time I've walked ~800 meters without a stick, in 10 weeks!
Brilliant. You're making great progress and on the up and up, meanwhile her honeymoon period will be coming to an end.
theboss said:
Wants to talk?
His wife has just got in touch as well. It all gets interesting now!
And she's found you how? I'd be careful if you talk to her, it's still her dad and once the red mist settles, everything to say to her will make it back to her dad.His wife has just got in touch as well. It all gets interesting now!
His wife on the other hand is a different kettle of fish.
theboss said:
According to them both, my wife has just moved my kids in with an aggressive pisshead with a nasty temper. Great. Claims he has been arrested previously too.
TBH, it was highly unlikely they were ever going to say anything positive about him!Probably wise to take it with a pinch of salt......for the time being at least.
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remember texts/online conversations are permanent. Why not invite them round for dinner? You never know, you might end up with a new family. Strangely this happened with my partners parents, they just upped and swapped families over, I still to this day struggle to know who is related to who.
Good luck with it all, and if all else fails, just think he bought her the most unreliable car ever built.
remember texts/online conversations are permanent. Why not invite them round for dinner? You never know, you might end up with a new family. Strangely this happened with my partners parents, they just upped and swapped families over, I still to this day struggle to know who is related to who.
Good luck with it all, and if all else fails, just think he bought her the most unreliable car ever built.
theboss said:
According to them both, my wife has just moved my kids in with an aggressive pisshead with a nasty temper. Great. Claims he has been arrested previously too.
OP, ignore the troll. As others have said, just be a little wary about what you say to them. Remember, they will only have one goal in mind - to hurt him. They won't have any loyalty to you.
A disclosure under Clare's law may give you some information - takes weeks though and there's no guarantee you'll get one.
It's a difficult one. If you tell your ex, she'll accuse you of being bitter. On the other hand, if you do nothing, you may be putting your kids at risk of domestic violence.
How much detail have they given you? Is it likely to be true? A woman scorned etc.......
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