Removing cheating spouse from home - URGENT advice needed
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theboss said:
Thought it was about time I provided an update.
(SoonToBeEx-)wife is now in a bit of a limbo, has had several failed relationships and admitted to me she has only recently cut contact with the original antagonist in this whole sorry affair i.e. she's been seeing him after he's moved in with a new woman! You couldn't make this up.
I get regular sob stories about how we should give it one more go... I calmly and kindly have to just tell her it would never work and that she should move on. I feel she just wants her old lifestyle back - not me personally.
My personal circumstances have become very difficult, I'm struggling with working away from home in a demanding and totally inflexible corporate environment with the various health issues I have.
Some luck has come my way despite this - I recently received a call from a former banking client in London and have had a very generous contract offer. This will be a long term role with people who already know me and understand my situation, allowances are being made for my limitations and I will get to
work from home more than I do now, and also stand to earn considerably more which helps when I'm still reeling from the financial impact of the last 18 months.
On the female front things have been a little complicated
but suffice to say I have had more fun in the last few months than in the last 6 years of my marriage. And yes, the Eastern European hotel staff house party did play a role in this.
Really Pleased for you Boss!! (SoonToBeEx-)wife is now in a bit of a limbo, has had several failed relationships and admitted to me she has only recently cut contact with the original antagonist in this whole sorry affair i.e. she's been seeing him after he's moved in with a new woman! You couldn't make this up.
I get regular sob stories about how we should give it one more go... I calmly and kindly have to just tell her it would never work and that she should move on. I feel she just wants her old lifestyle back - not me personally.
My personal circumstances have become very difficult, I'm struggling with working away from home in a demanding and totally inflexible corporate environment with the various health issues I have.
Some luck has come my way despite this - I recently received a call from a former banking client in London and have had a very generous contract offer. This will be a long term role with people who already know me and understand my situation, allowances are being made for my limitations and I will get to
work from home more than I do now, and also stand to earn considerably more which helps when I'm still reeling from the financial impact of the last 18 months.
On the female front things have been a little complicated
but suffice to say I have had more fun in the last few months than in the last 6 years of my marriage. And yes, the Eastern European hotel staff house party did play a role in this.Edited by theboss on Thursday 2nd November 18:01
Now write the script and flog it to the BEEB!
And Yes! Eastern European Ladies can be a LOT of fun!
Ultra Sound Guy said:
theboss said:
Thanks - you don’t need Polish tinder - just go to Southampton where there is a considerable community!
Southampton you say? Can you recommend any bars/clubs?
Also you don’t need bars - just chat to the staff in any hotel or go shopping for groceries in the Polish supermarket and get chatting to some of the young mums.
I’ll be keeping an eye out of the window now to see if a considerable number of “PH” cars with director types start turning up.
Anyway i’m leaving it all behind soon for the even more diverse London dating scene
Epic thread boss, just read it from start to finish, glad to see things are on the up, I wouldn’t trust your ex as far as I could throw her though as how many times has she supposedly split up with this bloke?
All the best with all your new ventures and please update if you feel the need or want to
All the best with all your new ventures and please update if you feel the need or want to
Burnzyb said:
Epic thread boss, just read it from start to finish, glad to see things are on the up, I wouldn’t trust your ex as far as I could throw her though as how many times has she supposedly split up with this bloke?
All the best with all your new ventures and please update if you feel the need or want to
The short answer is lots... and always in emotional turmoil either because she’s on her own or because the bloke she has thrown herself into a relationship with wants a serious commitment and her undivided attention. And all the while the original affair guy is still on the scene despite him having left his wife, kicked my wife out of his home and now living with someone else. It’s a total cluster fAll the best with all your new ventures and please update if you feel the need or want to
k.Thanks for the support. I don’t want to go back there, don’t you worry. It’s funny that I can get on just fine with her now for the kids sake, in spite of everything - that itself should be testament to my emotional detachment.
eltawater said:
theboss said:
I don’t know who jumped to the conclusions about Poland - I’m still enjoying Romania and am Hungary for more!
When you get the opportunity for your hands to Romania all over their body, remember to Czech their Netherlands carefully for any unexpected Bulgaria 
Glad things are working out for you OP. Wishing you all the best.
Or Chernobyl fall out
GCH said:
eltawater said:
theboss said:
I don’t know who jumped to the conclusions about Poland - I’m still enjoying Romania and am Hungary for more!
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