Chasing money from ex partner.

[surveyor_101]

Seems a nice girl, did she smoke you before tucking you up like a kipper?

[SonicShadow]

MIght want to remove those screenshots.

[Durzel]

Aww missed it.

[xjay1337]

Durzel said:

Aww missed it.

I saw them

[surveyor_101]

xjay1337 said:

I saw them

Whatsapp msg with her saying borrow the money I will pay you back whatever, heres my bank details. Her name the lot.

Pretty girl.

Then once the OP has blow his load into her bank acc £5091, she starts talking about holidays only £597 pp on a hot beach LOL

Seems she is expensive if not unattractive hobby.

[ChocolateFrog]

I'll update over the next few days, hopefully I've jumped the gun, we'll see.

[BlueHave]

This is why you should always have a secret bank account.

I know someone who keeps telling his wife he has no money for a rainy day but has about £100k saved for in a secret account

[llewop]

MorganP104 said:

llewop said:

ISO51200 said:

If you are going to post the WhatsApp screenshots (For what reason baffles me) then perhaps blur her name at the top of the window too?

and the bank account details!

There were names and bank details?!?!?!?

there was definitely sort code and account number + name at top of the screenshots! But from context I suspect her account rather than OPs so probably not worth raiding! Even if you happened to see it, note it down and know how to do that!

[markcoznottz]

How old are you op, how old is she?

[hotchy]

Balls, I missed the good part.

[surveyor_101]

markcoznottz said:

How old are you op, how old is she?

I am guessing he is 50 odd and she is in her 20s

[Jonno02]

To be fair, the guy has just been dumped and people are being s trying to earn internet lad points.

Bit st of you.

[surveyor_101]

Jonno02 said:

To be fair, the guy has just been dumped and people are being s trying to earn internet lad points.

Bit st of you.

There is that but not sure the OPs age but college uni GFs don't tend to be long fulfilling relationships, so I wouldnt lend 5k. If you do have a written agreement of loan.

Just all a bit naive.

[Zoobeef]

surveyor_101 said:

I am guessing he is 50 odd and she is in her 20s

I would guess (and I'm very good at it) early 30's for him and mid 20s for her.

[ChocolateFrog]

Well she's paid back most of it today having deducted some very spurious expenses.

But it's not enough to lose any sleep over.

[AndrewEH1]

ChocolateFrog said:

Well she's paid back most of it today having deducted some very spurious expenses.

But it's not enough to lose any sleep over.

Got your furniture back yet? Glad you've got most of the money back

[ChocolateFrog]

AndrewEH1 said:

ChocolateFrog said:

Well she's paid back most of it today having deducted some very spurious expenses.

But it's not enough to lose any sleep over.

Got your furniture back yet? Glad you've got most of the money back

No. Her lease is up in August and at the moment I don't actually need it so hoping we can sort something out closer to the time, fingers crossed.

[Burwood]

xjay1337 said:

ChocolateFrog said:

Due to my naivety last year I agreed to pay my ex partner's tuition fees for this year, which amounted to £5500. The reason being if you paid it in one lump sum there was a small discount. The intention was that she would pay me back in 3 installments as her loan came in.

Fast forward to 2 weeks ago and out of the blue, to me anyway, I got the "I don't know what I want anymore" talk. She's paid me back 2 installments but still owes me circa £1800. She will have received her student loan today and I'm 95% sure no money will be forthcoming although I'll give it a week to see.

Is this something I could go to the small claims court with? Nothing was written down as despite warning signs I'm too trusting so not holding out much hope.

Despite trying to keep it on speaking terms that has now conveniently gone south too.

TIA.

If you have nothing written down it's very hard to prove unless you have lots of texts / emails.

Depends how badly you need the 1800 quid back as to whether or not you proceed with the courts.

Not so, The OP has received 1,833 X 2. The payment history is very strong evidence the payments were loan repayments! Can she pay it back in kind?

[Durzel]

Jonno02 said:

To be fair, the guy has just been dumped and people are being s trying to earn internet lad points.

Bit st of you.

Are we? It's all good natured banter. Most of us have been in the same boat at some point in the past. We're here for you OP.

ps. Pics plz

[ChocolateFrog]

Well yesterday I finally got the contents of my house back.

I could only go on a Tues/Wed/Thurs this week as those days would be the most inconvient for some one working 9-5 in Catterick and my stuff being in Portsmouth.

Luckily my brother and sister stepped in to go down and pick it all up. She had the police there waiting, for what reason I have no idea. My sister's in the police so they got on well.

All I can say is thank fk for that, I'll be single for the foreseeable.