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Graveworm

8,496 posts

71 months

Wednesday 6th November 2019
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markjmd said:
They have, and quantities of them have been getting murdered in far-flung corners of the world for just as long. I've never understood it myself, particularly the ones who go off completely alone on these sorts of trips.
This is New Zealand! Our homicide rate is about 1.5 times theirs and in most countries tourists are less likely to be murdered than the indigenous. She was far less likely to be murdered there than if she stayed here. A few obvious exceptions aside, the risk of being murdered is trivial compared to many other risks we routinely accept.
For example in 2017 132 Americans were murdered abroad when 56 million travelled. Much safer than staying at home.

Edited by Graveworm on Wednesday 6th November 20:09

Jimmy Recard

17,540 posts

179 months

Wednesday 6th November 2019
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markjmd said:
They have, and quantities of them have been getting murdered in far-flung corners of the world for just as long. I've never understood it myself, particularly the ones who go off completely alone on these sorts of trips.
You’re right, there’s no chance of getting murdered in Britain


People die at home or abroad. It shouldn’t stop anyone from wanting to travel somewhere which is typically safe (for instance New Zealand)

markjmd

553 posts

68 months

Wednesday 6th November 2019
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Graveworm said:
markjmd said:
They have, and quantities of them have been getting murdered in far-flung corners of the world for just as long. I've never understood it myself, particularly the ones who go off completely alone on these sorts of trips.
This is New Zealand! Our homicide rate is about 1.5 times theirs and in most countries tourists are less likely to be murdered than the indigenous. She was far less likely to be murdered there than if she stayed here. A few obvious exceptions aside, the risk of being murdered is trivial compared to many other risks we routinely accept.
For example in 2017 132 Americans were murdered abroad when 56 million travelled. Much safer than staying at home.

Edited by Graveworm on Wednesday 6th November 20:09
In very crude statistical terms she may have been safer in NZ than staying at home, but in practice I'm not convinced that this will be true for someone traveling alone for extended periods of time in completely unfamiliar surroundings - especially a young woman. Like it or not, both these things would have marked her out as a relatively easier victim than a local, to any potential predator.

4rephill

5,040 posts

178 months

Wednesday 6th November 2019
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dukeboy749r said:
Totally bizarre - no idea what the reference to the blue pill was meant to infer......
These days it tends to be a reference to the film "The Matrix": https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_pill_and_blue_pi...

Basically, take the red pill and you will be awakened to the harsh reality of the "real" World, in all its ugliness.

Take the blue pill, and be completely oblivious as to how harsh and ugly the real World can be.







lyonspride

2,978 posts

155 months

Wednesday 6th November 2019
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Graveworm said:
markjmd said:
They have, and quantities of them have been getting murdered in far-flung corners of the world for just as long. I've never understood it myself, particularly the ones who go off completely alone on these sorts of trips.
This is New Zealand! Our homicide rate is about 1.5 times theirs and in most countries tourists are less likely to be murdered than the indigenous. She was far less likely to be murdered there than if she stayed here. A few obvious exceptions aside, the risk of being murdered is trivial compared to many other risks we routinely accept.
For example in 2017 132 Americans were murdered abroad when 56 million travelled. Much safer than staying at home.
Yeah, but she wouldn't go backpacking around the UK into towns an cities with high crime rates. When you go abroad, you don't have that local knowledge.

BlackTails

620 posts

55 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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lyonspride said:
Graveworm said:
markjmd said:
They have, and quantities of them have been getting murdered in far-flung corners of the world for just as long. I've never understood it myself, particularly the ones who go off completely alone on these sorts of trips.
This is New Zealand! Our homicide rate is about 1.5 times theirs and in most countries tourists are less likely to be murdered than the indigenous. She was far less likely to be murdered there than if she stayed here. A few obvious exceptions aside, the risk of being murdered is trivial compared to many other risks we routinely accept.
For example in 2017 132 Americans were murdered abroad when 56 million travelled. Much safer than staying at home.
Yeah, but she wouldn't go backpacking around the UK into towns an cities with high crime rates. When you go abroad, you don't have that local knowledge.
She didn't go to a country with a high crime rate though.

You're not making sense. Nor are you showing any perspective.

anonymous-user

54 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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Some people just live in a world of narrow horizons and are timid and risk averse, even when the measurable risk is small. Thousands of students go backpacking. Only a very few get murdered.

What is this thread about anyway? Is it just a bit of prurient true crime glomming? More suited for NPE, perhaps?

berlintaxi

8,535 posts

173 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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BlackTails said:
You're not making sense.
Fairly normal situation as it is Lyonspride posting.

lyonspride

2,978 posts

155 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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BlackTails said:
lyonspride said:
Graveworm said:
markjmd said:
They have, and quantities of them have been getting murdered in far-flung corners of the world for just as long. I've never understood it myself, particularly the ones who go off completely alone on these sorts of trips.
This is New Zealand! Our homicide rate is about 1.5 times theirs and in most countries tourists are less likely to be murdered than the indigenous. She was far less likely to be murdered there than if she stayed here. A few obvious exceptions aside, the risk of being murdered is trivial compared to many other risks we routinely accept.
For example in 2017 132 Americans were murdered abroad when 56 million travelled. Much safer than staying at home.
Yeah, but she wouldn't go backpacking around the UK into towns an cities with high crime rates. When you go abroad, you don't have that local knowledge.
She didn't go to a country with a high crime rate though.

You're not making sense. Nor are you showing any perspective.
I didn't say she went to a country with a high crime rate, i'm saying she got into a situation she would not have done in the UK, and trusted people she would not have done in the UK.
This is the problem, in the UK we know what's good, what's bad, what seems dodgy, but when these kids go off to another country they seem to unquestioningly trust everyone they meet.

selym

9,544 posts

171 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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Mercky said:
dukeboy749r said:
BlackWidow13 said:
lyonspride said:
The whole thing is very sad, yet another backpacker from a middle class background, who has swallowed the blue pill and naively gone off around the world without a care.

When is this going to stop? How many more need to die?
Bizarre post.
Totally bizarre - no idea what the reference to the blue pill was meant to infer?

As far as I can recall students have been taking either gap year or end of study trips for generations.
It IMPLYS rather than infers this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_pill_and_blue_pi...
Good to see the PH Imply/Infer Early Warning System is still in use.

Barry Homo

2,552 posts

162 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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I know the thread has taken a tangent (as always) but I think the case is quite interesting.

This guy is a budding serial killer imo. Absolutely bizarre levels of calm and arousal post death from him.

He was also thick as mince looking at the search history. I hope he burns.

dukeboy749r

2,627 posts

210 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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4rephill said:
These days it tends to be a reference to the film "The Matrix": https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_pill_and_blue_pi...

Basically, take the red pill and you will be awakened to the harsh reality of the "real" World, in all its ugliness.

Take the blue pill, and be completely oblivious as to how harsh and ugly the real World can be.
beer

BlackTails

620 posts

55 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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lyonspride said:
I didn't say she went to a country with a high crime rate, i'm saying she got into a situation she would not have done in the UK, and trusted people she would not have done in the UK.
This is the problem, in the UK we know what's good, what's bad, what seems dodgy, but when these kids go off to another country they seem to unquestioningly trust everyone they meet.
You implied she went to a place with a high crime rate.

You are making a lot of presumptuous claims about her state of mind, based on you thinking you know what she was thinking, and how her thinking changed once she went abroad, all of which are nonsense.

She hooked up with a guy on tinder and ended up dead. That can happen in any country, including here.



Edited by BlackTails on Thursday 7th November 12:14

hutchst

3,702 posts

96 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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lyonspride said:
I didn't say she went to a country with a high crime rate, i'm saying she got into a situation she would not have done in the UK, and trusted people she would not have done in the UK.
This is the problem, in the UK we know what's good, what's bad, what seems dodgy, but when these kids go off to another country they seem to unquestioningly trust everyone they meet.
Absolutely right. We would never allow dating Apps like Tinder in the UK.

Green1man

549 posts

88 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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To be honest I think all suspects names should be protected until any trial is complete, this then prevents the sometimes ridiculous speculation and character assassination in newspapers and social media that inevitably arises.

In this case it’s clear that the suspect did kill her, the only question seems to be if it’s murder or accidental.

What I find a bit strange seems to be the emphasis today on their movements on that night and various cctv sightings. I can’t see as any of this is relevant as it doesn’t seem to be under any dispute. Maybe if they had anything of him ‘disposing’ of the body it might be relevant but I can’t see what going over their every movement prior to getting to his flat proves.

Burwood

18,709 posts

246 months

Thursday 14th November 2019
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Green1man said:
To be honest I think all suspects names should be protected until any trial is complete, this then prevents the sometimes ridiculous speculation and character assassination in newspapers and social media that inevitably arises.

In this case it’s clear that the suspect did kill her, the only question seems to be if it’s murder or accidental.

What I find a bit strange seems to be the emphasis today on their movements on that night and various cctv sightings. I can’t see as any of this is relevant as it doesn’t seem to be under any dispute. Maybe if they had anything of him ‘disposing’ of the body it might be relevant but I can’t see what going over their every movement prior to getting to his flat proves.
The relevance is that the video footage shows them about to leave the casino. Police ask the accused where he/she went. He said I went this way, she went that way. It was a lie. It’s part of building a case. They knew many aspects and want to determine if the accused is a liar. He is and there is no chance he is doing anything less than life in prison. Regardless as to what happened on that night. You have to be sick in the head to Keep a body in your room and manage to sleep the following night.

It’s a very sad case and the poor family must be going through hell.

TVRnutcase

149 posts

230 months

Thursday 14th November 2019
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To answer the OPs first post - this will help.

https://www.stuff.co.nz/national/crime/117058919/n...


The Mad Monk

Original Poster:

10,474 posts

117 months

Thursday 14th November 2019
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TVRnutcase said:
To answer the OPs first post - this will help.

https://www.stuff.co.nz/national/crime/117058919/n...
T'ank yer kindly, sor.

dukeboy749r

2,627 posts

210 months

Thursday 14th November 2019
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poolsman said:
Mercky said:
dukeboy749r said:
BlackWidow13 said:
lyonspride said:
The whole thing is very sad, yet another backpacker from a middle class background, who has swallowed the blue pill and naively gone off around the world without a care.

When is this going to stop? How many more need to die?
Bizarre post.
Totally bizarre - no idea what the reference to the blue pill was meant to infer?

As far as I can recall students have been taking either gap year or end of study trips for generations.
It IMPLYS rather than infers this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_pill_and_blue_pi...
IMPLIES.
Ah, the grammar police - thank you Poolsman beer - if you are going to correct someone, at least correct them correctly...

BlackTails

620 posts

55 months

Thursday 14th November 2019
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Burwood said:
Green1man said:
To be honest I think all suspects names should be protected until any trial is complete, this then prevents the sometimes ridiculous speculation and character assassination in newspapers and social media that inevitably arises.

In this case it’s clear that the suspect did kill her, the only question seems to be if it’s murder or accidental.

What I find a bit strange seems to be the emphasis today on their movements on that night and various cctv sightings. I can’t see as any of this is relevant as it doesn’t seem to be under any dispute. Maybe if they had anything of him ‘disposing’ of the body it might be relevant but I can’t see what going over their every movement prior to getting to his flat proves.
The relevance is that the video footage shows them about to leave the casino. Police ask the accused where he/she went. He said I went this way, she went that way. It was a lie. It’s part of building a case. They knew many aspects and want to determine if the accused is a liar. He is and there is no chance he is doing anything less than life in prison. Regardless as to what happened on that night. You have to be sick in the head to Keep a body in your room and manage to sleep the following night.

It’s a very sad case and the poor family must be going through hell.
It works on a more subtle level too. It shows her as a nice, ordinary girl having a nice, fun night out, blissfully unaware that it will be her last. It engenders sympathy. And it shows him as a nice ordinary guy, also having a fun night out, concealing from her all the while what the prosecution say he was going to do. In other words, it paints him as a stone cold psychopathic killer.

It's a very effective tactic.