Advice on whether to report a theft from a Main Dealer site.

Advice on whether to report a theft from a Main Dealer site.

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ging84

8,919 posts

147 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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McGee_22 said:
ging84 said:
Mechanics really don't earn a lot i'm really not surprised some take a bit of loose change, i'm pretty sure I might
Ging84, this is what you said about thieving from another person; I've put it in bold for you.
What ever point you were trying to make why not come straight out and say it.
Are you trying to implying that is condoning because it isn't, it is simply putting yourself in someone else's shoes and thinking maybe I would, I would certainly be very tempted.
I think most people that think they would not even consider taking it are probably just being less empathetic rather than more honest.





Escort3500

11,919 posts

146 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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ging84 said:
Escort3500 said:
In case you didn’t recognise it, that’s your quote. Only you haven’t provided one example of the “plenty of surveys” you cite. The only one you refer to is Vaud’s
That was my quote of you, that I didn't understand.

This is the first thing that comes up when you search for theft at work survey
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/a...
As previously mentioned
At last, you’ve managed to find a survey (even though it relates to theft of office supplies rather than theft from business customers, which is what this thread is all about). And it doesn’t constitute the “plenty of surveys” that your sweeping statement relies on. Still, as you don’t appear to consider theft of the cash from the OP’s car to be a particular wrongdoing, it’s all a bit academic.

peterperkins

3,152 posts

243 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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elanfan said:
The Dealer Principal should be taking this very seriously indeed. Theft from customers could badly affect their reputation - imagine if you put this in a review or on their Facebook page. One thing that would be interesting is if the same technician worked on your car each time. The garage should have records or CCTV (some garages the valeters move the cars in and out so could be them they’re the lowest paid too!) make sure you ask if they’ve had any similar complaints. Someone should be getting sacked over this!
Completely correct, some thieving scrote needs sacking.

McGee_22

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6,727 posts

180 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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ging84 said:
McGee_22 said:
ging84 said:
Mechanics really don't earn a lot i'm really not surprised some take a bit of loose change, i'm pretty sure I might
Ging84, this is what you said about thieving from another person; I've put it in bold for you.
What ever point you were trying to make why not come straight out and say it.
Are you trying to implying that is condoning because it isn't, it is simply putting yourself in someone else's shoes and thinking maybe I would, I would certainly be very tempted.
I think most people that think they would not even consider taking it are probably just being less empathetic rather than more honest.
No, this is where you are completely wrong, as most people would not consider taking it.

Theft is theft, even three pounds as you agreed in another post, yet you said you're pretty sure you might take it. This is actually beyond condoning theft, this is saying you might thieve yourself.

You have tried to get out of this and your other statement regarding the percentage of thefts in the workplace but quite simply you are condoning theft from an individual and going still further saying you might well do it yourself.




singlecoil

33,706 posts

247 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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McGee_22 said:
ging84 said:
McGee_22 said:
ging84 said:
Mechanics really don't earn a lot i'm really not surprised some take a bit of loose change, i'm pretty sure I might
Ging84, this is what you said about thieving from another person; I've put it in bold for you.
What ever point you were trying to make why not come straight out and say it.
Are you trying to implying that is condoning because it isn't, it is simply putting yourself in someone else's shoes and thinking maybe I would, I would certainly be very tempted.
I think most people that think they would not even consider taking it are probably just being less empathetic rather than more honest.
No, this is where you are completely wrong, as most people would not consider taking it.

Theft is theft, even three pounds as you agreed in another post, yet you said you're pretty sure you might take it. This is actually beyond condoning theft, this is saying you might thieve yourself.

You have tried to get out of this and your other statement regarding the percentage of thefts in the workplace but quite simply you are condoning theft from an individual and going still further saying you might well do it yourself.
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Escy

3,940 posts

150 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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McGee_22 said:
You're still side steppng the question, that seems 'a bit pathetic'.

So you accidentally leave your wallet in the car when you leave your car for a service, and on returning an amount is missing; what amount is enough for you to report it?

Just answer the question that several people have directly asked you about your original point that £3 was not enough to worry about; no more excuses about laying bait, a trap, I wouldn't leave my wallet, I think it's pathetic, I wouldn't write about it, I wouldn't keep replying to threads about it, I wouldn't take my car for a service ever, the sun was in my eyes, etc; you have accidentally left your wallet in the car when you leave your car for a service, and on returning an amount is missing; what amount is enough for you to report it?
My cut off is £3.50, at that point I want the thief before the courts and I'm expecting prison.

McGee_22

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6,727 posts

180 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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Escy said:
My cut off is £3.50, at that point I want the thief before the courts and I'm expecting prison.
Great - a straight answer. Thieves everywhere will line up and nab their £3.49 with no fear of prosecution laugh

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...unless you're advocating 'off with their hands!' ???

Escy

3,940 posts

150 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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If it happened to me, I'd lobby my MP to bring back being hung drawn and quartered for any small change thief that steals more than £3.50.

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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peterperkins said:
elanfan said:
The Dealer Principal should be taking this very seriously indeed. Theft from customers could badly affect their reputation - imagine if you put this in a review or on their Facebook page. One thing that would be interesting is if the same technician worked on your car each time. The garage should have records or CCTV (some garages the valeters move the cars in and out so could be them they’re the lowest paid too!) make sure you ask if they’ve had any similar complaints. Someone should be getting sacked over this!
Completely correct, some thieving scrote needs sacking.
I agree - reporting it to the dealer was the correct thing to do, as in this case it was a small amount of cash, next time it may be a mobile phone , mp3 player etc.., and their business could be damaged given how influential social media is now.

I would not have reported this actual incident to the police (given the small amount involved) unless the dealer showed zero interest, in which case reporting it via 101 at least gets in on-record and may possibly help others that are worse affected in future. I would not expect the police to investigate or anything of the sort, merely record it in case a future more serious event occurs.

As a society, if we let people get away with small stuff like this and do nothing at all we only really harm ourselves in the long run, as this time its £3, next time £10, then a charging cable, then an mp3 player, then a mobile phone, and then it's *your* phone and suddenly it seems a lot more serious to you personally.

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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Escy said:
If it happened to me, I'd lobby my MP to bring back being hung drawn and quartered for any small change thief that steals more than £3.50.
Sarcastic posts aside, it would appear that you have an inability to let us know what your acceptable level of thieving is. Why post such crap if you’ve no idea what you’re talking about?

Red Devil

13,069 posts

209 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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Escy said:
If it happened to me, I'd lobby my MP to bring back being hung drawn and quartered for any small change thief that steals more than £3.50.
Alternatively - https://convictrecords.com.au/crimes/petty-larceny
Unfortunately I don't think Australia would be too keen on its resumption. wink

Escy

3,940 posts

150 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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garyhun said:
Sarcastic posts aside, it would appear that you have an inability to let us know what your acceptable level of thieving is. Why post such crap if you’ve no idea what you’re talking about?
There is no acceptable level of thieving but we've all got a level where you can't be bothered to go anything about it.

If my wheels get stolen, I'd call the Police, if my dust caps got stolen I wouldn't (sounds like a few of you would).

I feel the same for a couple of quid out of the ash tray, not worth chasing it up. And it's not about how much money you've got either, the less money you've got, the less time you're likely to spend on frivolous bullst like chasing around over £3 you wouldn't get back anyway.

McGee_22

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6,727 posts

180 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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Escy said:
There is no acceptable level of thieving but we've all got a level where you can't be bothered to go anything about it.

If my wheels get stolen, I'd call the Police, if my dust caps got stolen I wouldn't (sounds like a few of you would).

I feel the same for a couple of quid out of the ash tray, not worth chasing it up. And it's not about how much money you've got either, the less money you've got, the less time you're likely to spend on frivolous bullst like chasing around over £3 you wouldn't get back anyway.
More pathetic side stepping of the question of how much.

Rewe

1,016 posts

93 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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McGee_22 said:
More pathetic side stepping of the question of how much.
Rather than obsessing about Escy’s moral compass, why don't you just decide what feels like the right thing for you and just do that?

You don't have to justify your stance and neither does he.

FWIW my view is:

Yes, any form of theft or dishonesty is wrong
Yes, you seem to be a bit petty minded

The two aren't mutually exclusive.

Graveworm

8,498 posts

72 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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I'd have mentioned it to the dealer just as the OP did. I wouldn't tell the Police, but if the dealer did for some reason I would confirm it. If someone, who worked for me stole £5 I would want to know about it.

RB Will

9,666 posts

241 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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Forgotten theOP so sorry if this has been covered but was this at a main dealer sort of place where your car gets washed on every visit?
If so I’d say it was likely one of the car cleaners than a mechanic. Easy to say oops accidentally hoovered it up. They will be earning half or less than the mechanics and have much less worry about being sacked. Mechanics in an area tend to know each other so if you were known to be sacked for stealing good luck getting a job in the same area.
At the last dealership I was working at there could be up to about 6 people who had been in or worked on the car so unless you have them on cam hard to know who did it.
The DP should probably offer you a free oil change or valet and then do a briefing with everyone at the dealership saying that it is known people are stealing from cars, next person caught will be made an example of

McGee_22

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6,727 posts

180 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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Rewe said:
Rather than obsessing about Escy’s moral compass, why don't you just decide what feels like the right thing for you and just do that?

You don't have to justify your stance and neither does he.

FWIW my view is:

Yes, any form of theft or dishonesty is wrong
Yes, you seem to be a bit petty minded

The two aren't mutually exclusive.
Rather than reading just the last post perhaps you should you read the thread.

Ecsy made the point that £3 was too little for him to do anything about and started berating me for doing so; multiple posters have continued to ask of him how much is the amount he would report and he has continued to obfuscate about the answer; he then started to address my initial report of the theft as pathetic which I have quite rightly also labelled his continued attempts to avoid answering a point he raised.

Like ging84 who first of all condoned theft and then also admitted he was pretty sure he might steal as well, Ecsy has made what he thought was a clever statement but ultimately when asked to explain himself has found he has cornered himself.

I hope this explains mine, and other posters responses, to Ecsy as you seem to be a person who as well as resorting to 'petty' name calling, doesn't seem to be able to concentrate long enough to read the entire thread.

Escy

3,940 posts

150 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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McGee_22 said:
Ecsy made the point that £3 was too little for him to do anything about and started berating me for doing so; multiple posters have continued to ask of him how much is the amount he would report and he has continued to obfuscate about the answer; he then started to address my initial report of the theft as pathetic which I have quite rightly also labelled his continued attempts to avoid answering a point he raised.
Sorry if it comes across as berating you, I don't really care about this situation and I genuinely thought it was a wind up when I initially read it.

I've got a theory, by the fact you left money in your car half expecting it to be stolen only to get yourself upset about it when it happened and want to invest time and effort into reporting it to the garage and then the Police, i'm going to assume you are retired and just looking for things to do to pass the time.

singlecoil

33,706 posts

247 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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Escy said:
McGee_22 said:
Ecsy made the point that £3 was too little for him to do anything about and started berating me for doing so; multiple posters have continued to ask of him how much is the amount he would report and he has continued to obfuscate about the answer; he then started to address my initial report of the theft as pathetic which I have quite rightly also labelled his continued attempts to avoid answering a point he raised.
Sorry if it comes across as berating you, I don't really care about this situation and I genuinely thought it was a wind up when I initially read it.

I've got a theory, by the fact you left money in your car half expecting it to be stolen only to get yourself upset about it when it happened and want to invest time and effort into reporting it to the garage and then the Police, i'm going to assume you are retired and just looking for things to do to pass the time.
I suppose it's ok to assume things about other posters as long as you don't mind them making assumptions about you. Especially as you have provided plenty of material, much of it negative, on which to base those assumptions.

McGee_22

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6,727 posts

180 months

Sunday 23rd February 2020
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Escy said:
Sorry if it comes across as berating you, I don't really care about this situation and I genuinely thought it was a wind up when I initially read it.

I've got a theory, by the fact you left money in your car half expecting it to be stolen only to get yourself upset about it when it happened and want to invest time and effort into reporting it to the garage and then the Police, i'm going to assume you are retired and just looking for things to do to pass the time.
To address your points in reverse order; your theory is way off the mark, I'm hard working and every penny counts, and the money is/was always in the car and curiosity over whether money was taken the first time led us count and recount it the second time.

As to whether you care or not about this situation, how come you have posted on this thread more times than I have? laugh