Noise Complaint - What to do

Noise Complaint - What to do

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southendpier

5,267 posts

230 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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Also your cigarette smoke will carry and get in neighbouring houses if they have window open .

Sporky

6,323 posts

65 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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I think the important thing is to remember that everyone has awful taste in music, and no-one else wants to have to hear it. 1am is definitely unreasonable - personally I'd like quiet from 10pm onwards.

8IKERDAVE

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2,311 posts

214 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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Thanks for the responses, much appreciated.

No we weren't smoking ganj in the garden laugh

The music in the house was a bit of a mixed bag but nothing bassy as such. We did have the windows ajar though which I will avoid next time. We were literally whispering outside!

As I mentioned the police confirmed we were doing nothing wrong and even said "carry on with your night". I was surprised to see them to be honest as upon looking into this they generally only come out if there's fear of a crime being committed. Whether the 'complainer' exaggurated the situation to get a reaction I don't know. We weren't breaking any Covid rules a there were only 4 of us. The next day I put the music on at the same volume, opened the windows and walked out the house. You couldn't hear anything past our drive which leads me to think it's someone quite bitter trying to make a point.

Clearly if the police thought there was any sort of issue they would have advised us though but this was far from the case. They looked a little surprised they were faced with us chatting and not some crazy house party.

Zetec-S

5,890 posts

94 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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MattyD803 said:
anonymous said:
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9am? Why such a late start? laugh
hehe Many years ago my parents had neighbours (3 or 4 doors over) who every year for their birthdays would host a large gathering and play loud music until probably 3/4am. My dad would take great delight in detouring via the payphone on his way to the newsagent the following morning and giving them a call around 7am, and if he was lucky they'd not cottoned on and taken the phone off the hook so would catch them again a few minutes later on his way back hehe

Teddy Lop

8,301 posts

68 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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Hugo Stiglitz said:
Police don't come for noise complaints. At best you'd get a PCSO.
Depends what strings you can pull - I've had one "instruct" me to silence a building site working well within prescribed hours

semisane

858 posts

83 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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What to do ?

I would drop a polite note into your neighbours apologising for the noise, and asking them to let you know directly next time.

It makes a world of difference to neighbours, and their view of you, if they know your are not indifferent to them.


ReverendCounter

6,087 posts

177 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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Actually I've just read this bit: "We were literally whispering outside!" which makes the below redundant.

8IKERDAVE said:
.. The next day I put the music on at the same volume, opened the windows and walked out the house. You couldn't hear anything past our drive....
Some people can't stand the sound of people enjoying themselves/being happy - ie, it was probably the laughter especially if someone was retelling a particularly hilarious anecdote or something. It's obviously not the music. Just a thought but maybe the neighbour feels you're coming outside fairly regularly to make more noise than you were, when you were inside.

Incidentally, you ask 'What To Do?' I would say nothing. Don't have more frequent get togethers, just have them as you have been. Don't spend more time outside just to exercise your rights. Don't turn the music up - etc, etc.

Just do what you've been doing, which is nothing wrong as far as the police are concerned. If it gets to the stage that these neighbours make a noise or ASB complaint to the council, you'll be informed, but then you can take the opportunity to tell the noise abatement officer/whoever, that the police have already attended on such-and-such a date and time, and told you to carry on.


As you were!

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Edited by ReverendCounter on Tuesday 20th July 17:42

matchmaker

8,497 posts

201 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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As others have remarked, it is surprising that police officers came out. This would normally be for the local authority to sort out. Ours (Stirling) has an "out of hours noise team" who have the authority to issue a fixed penalty of £100 if offenders do not comply with an initial warning. Sounds good, if it were not for the fact that they only operate Thursday to Saturdaynights between 20.00 and 22.00. Which is as much use as a chocolate fireguard. rolleyes

Canon_Fodder

1,770 posts

64 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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Music at 1.00 am IS taking the piss.

Learn your lesson and respect your neighbours

Torquey

1,896 posts

229 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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It is taking the piss in my opinion. Any music after 10pm would piss me off.

They probably feel the same about buying an expensive house and the last thing they want is to subjected to parties through the night.

Im about to move to a 'forever' house and this is my worst fear about it all.

Prizam

2,346 posts

142 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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It's a piss-take. Music till 1 am is stupid. You were not being quiet. How do you "whisper" over music anyway?

You might think you are being reasonable, but you are not. Learn your lesson and be respectful.

If only a common-sense rule was in place that kept people quiet from 11 pm till 7 am. You could even make it a part of the highway code. Oh, wait.

Hugo Stiglitz

37,185 posts

212 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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southendpier said:
Also your cigarette smoke will carry and get in neighbouring houses if they have window open .
That's a good point that i missed. As a non smoker even if a whiff annoys

Mr_Megalomaniac

858 posts

67 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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8IKERDAVE said:
A couple of weeks ago we had a couple over for tea and drinks. The music was on, albeit not at any ridiculous volume as both kids were in bed. We were popping outside throughout the night for cigarettes and about 1am when we were about to call it a night, 3 police officers walked onto the patio! They were extremely polite but advised there had been a noise complaint and of course couldn't say who it was. They did however, tell us not to worry and we were doing nothing wrong. They then swiftly left and bid us a good night.
Congratulations on the new house. Perhaps check the local rules. Most councils have a no noise expectation after 10pm on a work night and midnight on the weekends. In my development most neighbours abide by the same and everyone gets along just fine (presumably with less space between the houses than yours). As an aside, maybe drop smoking; terrible waste of money and health.

surveyor

17,850 posts

185 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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We have a neighbour about 50 yards away who every 20 minutes or so blasts noise out at 80 decibels. It's unpleasant and in my view unnecessary, but they have a statutory defence to nuisance. Annoying.

At 1AM, especially in warm weather when people will have windows open I think really the music should be whisper quiet in a residential setting.

Hazuki

419 posts

139 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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8IKERDAVE said:
The next day I put the music on at the same volume, opened the windows and walked out the house. You couldn't hear anything past our drive which leads me to think it's someone quite bitter trying to make a point.
Was this at 1am or during the day? Ambient noise during the night is far (far) lower, so any other sounds would be much louder.

Hugo Stiglitz

37,185 posts

212 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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Agree. Plus voices, you really pick up on voices. I lived in the northern quarter in Manchester for abit, music was background but voices at 2am..

Dromedary66

1,924 posts

139 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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You could have posted this in the Council thread.

8IKERDAVE

Original Poster:

2,311 posts

214 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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Prizam said:
It's a piss-take. Music till 1 am is stupid. You were not being quiet. How do you "whisper" over music anyway?

You might think you are being reasonable, but you are not. Learn your lesson and be respectful.

If only a common-sense rule was in place that kept people quiet from 11 pm till 7 am. You could even make it a part of the highway code. Oh, wait.
Maybe you are misunderstanding me here. Music was on INSIDE the detached house on a Saturday night. We were going outside occasionally for a smoke, but I didn’t take my stereo with me. No louder than watching a film!

I find it hard to believe that at 10pm on a Saturday night everyone switches all their electrical devices off and doesn’t go outside anymore. I must have been to some strange houses over the years because I’ve never witnessed this.

CoolHands

18,698 posts

196 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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Oh dear, the OP’s that family

bartelbe

92 posts

81 months

Tuesday 20th July 2021
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It is about consideration, you want to enjoy your house but your neighbours want to enjoy their sleep. Especially if any of them have early starts. A party once in a blue moon isn't a problem but if you're doing on a regular basis, your neighbours are right to be upset.