Potentially caused a road rage incident

Potentially caused a road rage incident

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steveo3002

10,536 posts

175 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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dont think about it one minute longer , i get encounters like that nearly every day

some people are desperate to start a fight for no reason , but yeah best not to beep or provide hand gestures next time , that tends to escalate it

Mikebentley

6,125 posts

141 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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If this is the worst thing you have to worry about you really do have a charmed life. Idiots are everywhere….they walk and drive amongst us.

Hol

8,419 posts

201 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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92203 said:
Hello,

(Snip)

When we pulled off from the lights, he was driving quite aggressively, undertaking people and changing lanes without indicating etc. However, I have a lingering feeling of self-doubt and that is that generally speaking, most people don't tend to behave like that without provocation (I haven't ever enacted a so-called punishment manoeuvre).

(/snip)

I)?
From many years of observation, that bit in bold is incorrect.

People who drive like a , will drive like a no matter what. He probably never registered you or any other driver.

For your premise to be remotely true, he would have hung around an punished you for daring to point out he was a coward with a small dick hiding inside the safe environment of his car.



Edited by Hol on Monday 20th March 09:36

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887 posts

176 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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Percy Cushion said:
You have three options:

1. Hand yourself into the local police, explain what happened and beg for forgiveness
2. Report the Audi driver before he reports you.
3. Forget it and move on with you life and stop worrying so much.

I recommend number 3.
4. Hammer frozen lawns up their sausage.

Go in hard!

FNG

4,178 posts

225 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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All you did wrong there was hit your horn.

Hardly ever will it result in someone realising their error and raising an apologetic hand. Almost always it will escalate a situation, and very often that's a situation the other driver has created.

Some are just practiced aholes and drive with no consideration. Some are fking nutters and will go out of their way to provoke confrontation. Don't rise to the bait.

Don't hit your horn unless someone genuinely hasn't seen you and you genuinely can't take steps to avoid them (e.g. being parked and they're reversing into you).

One other thing - quite often someone looking to turn right, who's travelling more slowly than a decent portion of the surrounding traffic, will look to move to the right lane a lot earlier than those faster drivers might. That creates tension because they're now being held up by someone nonnying along.

Make sure you're not doing that either, as it's a simple trigger to road ragers and one you can easily avoid by reading the road behind you better, waiting longer to let faster traffic pass, and move to the right lane closer to the point you actually need to be in it.

It's a good idea to consider the cars around you even if they're not considering you, if you want to avoid escalation. Not saying that escalation is right or justified, but it's partly in your hands to minimise it.

bennno

11,661 posts

270 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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Sadly fairly standard Audi driver behaviour, worst driven cars on the road by a country mile these days.

InitialDave

11,930 posts

120 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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Sounds like you met a dhead. There's lots of them, not much you can do other than ignore them while they proceed to go be a dhead elsewhere.

"Aggressively driven tired VAG car" is one of the recognised stereotypes for a reason.

davek_964

8,832 posts

176 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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E-bmw said:
davek_964 said:
92203 said:
Based on what he'd just done and the fact that he was driving around in a battle worn 09 plate Audi A3, I was a bit concerned that he might do something to my car.
I drive around in a 10 plate Audi, and sometimes a 53 plate car. I was unaware that meant other road users thought I was likely to damage their car.

School holidays never end do they?
The key phrase the OP used was "battle worn", don't be a reactionist all your life will you?
My 53 plate car is utterly knackered. "Battle worn" would be an optimistic view.

I still don't see the relevance.

anonymous-user

55 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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davek_964 said:
E-bmw said:
davek_964 said:
92203 said:
Based on what he'd just done and the fact that he was driving around in a battle worn 09 plate Audi A3, I was a bit concerned that he might do something to my car.
I drive around in a 10 plate Audi, and sometimes a 53 plate car. I was unaware that meant other road users thought I was likely to damage their car.

School holidays never end do they?
The key phrase the OP used was "battle worn", don't be a reactionist all your life will you?
My 53 plate car is utterly knackered. "Battle worn" would be an optimistic view.

I still don't see the relevance.
Its crystal clear - a well-bashed normal car is a likely sign that the driver is careless or crap, so best to stay clear of them. Even more so when its an Audi A3 which are some of the most aggressively terribly driven cars around.

Rough101

1,747 posts

76 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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Beat up A3, wind deflectors, crap tints, vape cloud and fat driver with a beard?

If so the last thing they want involved with is the po po.

VTC

2,007 posts

185 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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Non Event.
let them go on their way as it could be Kenneth Noye driving the other car.

Life is to short to waste it over a driving error.

James6112

4,400 posts

29 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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It sounds like the throbber was speeding.
He was in the wrong, not you.

I wouldn’t give it a second thought TBH.

He’ll get his comeuppance sooner or later.

M22s

562 posts

150 months

Monday 20th March 2023
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You came across someone having a bad day and not feeling very courteous and gave each other a toot.

Not something I’d say needs mulling over, mucca.

RumbleOfThunder

3,560 posts

204 months

Tuesday 21st March 2023
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Jesus I have a couple of these a week. Don't worry OP. hehe

Four Litre

2,019 posts

193 months

Thursday 30th March 2023
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If you've really had 19 years driving experience and not been involved in a non-incident like this from either making a mistake (we all do) or being too cautious that's pretty impressive.

When you think Jeremy Vine manages at least one incident like this a week, your doing pretty well.

Damp Logs

734 posts

135 months

Thursday 30th March 2023
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bennno said:
Sadly fairly standard Audi driver behaviour, worst driven cars on the road by a country mile these days.
I’m hurt

I do my bit to prove this wrong


SteveKTMer

761 posts

32 months

Thursday 30th March 2023
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92203 said:
I intend to further reflect on and learn from the situation - I think that I could have pre-empted the situation better and certainly not escalated it by sounding my horn back at him.
You sound like a Catholic. Try 10 Hail Mary's wink

LunarOne

5,220 posts

138 months

Thursday 30th March 2023
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SteveKTMer said:
92203 said:
I intend to further reflect on and learn from the situation - I think that I could have pre-empted the situation better and certainly not escalated it by sounding my horn back at him.
You sound like a Catholic. Try 10 Hail Mary's wink
Hail Mary is what?