How to stop someone from drink driving?

How to stop someone from drink driving?

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V8mate

45,899 posts

190 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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You're not his Dad. Let him do whatever he wants and make your own arrangements to get home.

jon-

16,511 posts

217 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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V8mate said:
You're not his Dad. Let him do whatever he wants and make your own arrangements to get home.
I hope he doesn't hit one of your children on the way home.

We have a responsibility to try and stop things like that.

V8mate

45,899 posts

190 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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jon- said:
V8mate said:
You're not his Dad. Let him do whatever he wants and make your own arrangements to get home.
I hope he doesn't hit one of your children on the way home.

We have a responsibility to try and stop things like that.
I hope he doesn't too. But you can't stop anyone from doing anything in life and I'm not going to take the responsibility of trying, on.

jon-

16,511 posts

217 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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V8mate said:
jon- said:
V8mate said:
You're not his Dad. Let him do whatever he wants and make your own arrangements to get home.
I hope he doesn't hit one of your children on the way home.

We have a responsibility to try and stop things like that.
I hope he doesn't too. But you can't stop anyone from doing anything in life and I'm not going to take the responsibility of trying, on.
Whatever world you live in i'd like you give it a try. I'm all for freedom, but when it's sensless stupidity I would try and stop it where possible.

Would you leave a group of youths kicking in a granny?

To answer the OP. Shop him. Or just punch him in the ovaries.

sparkythecat

7,903 posts

256 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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When next you are in company with this bunch of mates, raise the topic and discuss it BEFORE you start drinking.

You can't win a rational argument with a drunk.

uriel

3,244 posts

252 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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Show them this: http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=j5NHvCBoAdM

And if you happen to know anyone that beats their wife, show them this: http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=nTYLdU3QxwU

We need more ads like these.

Killer2005

19,652 posts

229 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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Shop him

maix27

1,070 posts

197 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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V8mate said:
jon- said:
V8mate said:
You're not his Dad. Let him do whatever he wants and make your own arrangements to get home.
I hope he doesn't hit one of your children on the way home.

We have a responsibility to try and stop things like that.
I hope he doesn't too. But you can't stop anyone from doing anything in life and I'm not going to take the responsibility of trying, on.
Yes you can, the power to be able to do this is a simple phone call away.

Bit of a selfish attitude there imho.

drivin_me_nuts

17,949 posts

212 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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shop him.

If someone is irresponsible enough to behave in this way, then by default they abdicate responsibility to others. I would not think twice about it.

Cara Van Man

29,977 posts

252 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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Famous Graham said:
Shop him.
absolutely.

you have a duty to do this

SimonV8ster

12,609 posts

229 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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Tell his mum.

Then post pictures of him around the neighbourhood saying hes a drunk who could kill YOUR children.

benoli

1,351 posts

190 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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drivin_me_nuts said:
If someone is irresponsible enough to behave in this way, then by default they abdicate responsibility to others
wise words. Listen to the force my young paduwan

think how you would feel if he caused the death of someone, and you had the opportunity to prevent it
you owe it to him and to the general public

King Herald

23,501 posts

217 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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Sheriff JWPepper said:
It appears you can't. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/tees/7796018.st...

8 years! What a joke.
That Beeb article said:
The family of the other victim, Ms Prest, a mother-of-five, said that their Christian faith had been tested by the tragedy.
Tested?? TESTED????? yikes
What fvckin' planet are these people on if they think there is someone up there watching them, and this sort of st STILL goes down????

I bet they'll be saying they are lucky that she died a quick death!!! Or that this has 'brought them closer to god' or some other such religious psychobabble.


gib6933

5,278 posts

232 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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King Herald said:
Sheriff JWPepper said:
It appears you can't. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/tees/7796018.st...

8 years! What a joke.
That Beeb article said:
The family of the other victim, Ms Prest, a mother-of-five, said that their Christian faith had been tested by the tragedy.
Tested?? TESTED????? yikes
What fvckin' planet are these people on if they think there is someone up there watching them, and this sort of st STILL goes down????

I bet they'll be saying they are lucky that she died a quick death!!! Or that this has 'brought them closer to god' or some other such religious psychobabble.

brought her closer to god paperbag

carmonk

7,910 posts

188 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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Shop him. Why not. It may not do any good but at least you tried. (I once shopped a woman work colleage who I saw veer into an oncoming vehicle, taking both mirrors off, then mount a verge at about 60mph. I don't think the police did anything though, I saw her driving the week after that and the following week, 9am, we watched her park her car at work and fall face-down in the flower bed. A month later she was dead. So there you go)

And if that doesn't work then, in the spirit of the thread... bash him in the heart.

flatsixmaniac

46 posts

214 months

Monday 22nd December 2008
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Shop him.

mikeveal

4,578 posts

251 months

Tuesday 23rd December 2008
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The guy goes out with you, gets drunk, and drives home.
You take no action to stop or dissuade him.
Morally I think that you are just as much to blame for the death of the family of four that he smashes into as he is.

Explain this to him and make sure that he is aware that if he drinks and drives in your company then he will find a cop car waiting to nick him as he reaches his home.

Make sure you let him know this well advance of a night out on the beer, so that he has ample opportunity to arrange other transport. There can be no excuses from him and there will be no mercy from you.

You can't stop him doing this all the time, but you can stop it happening when you're around.


If you're wondering, I have taken this approach with a friend. I have never needed to call the police for him, but I have had to look after his keys once or twice (at his request). When he askes for the keys back, I just hand him the keys and reach for a phone. It works.



carmonk

7,910 posts

188 months

Tuesday 23rd December 2008
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mikeveal said:
The guy goes out with you, gets drunk, and drives home.
You take no action to stop or dissuade him.
Morally I think that you are just as much to blame for the death of the family of four that he smashes into as he is.

Explain this to him and make sure that he is aware that if he drinks and drives in your company then he will find a cop car waiting to nick him as he reaches his home.

Make sure you let him know this well advance of a night out on the beer, so that he has ample opportunity to arrange other transport. There can be no excuses from him and there will be no mercy from you.

You can't stop him doing this all the time, but you can stop it happening when you're around.


If you're wondering, I have taken this approach with a friend. I have never needed to call the police for him, but I have had to look after his keys once or twice (at his request). When he askes for the keys back, I just hand him the keys and reach for a phone. It works.
I hope your saintly robes have a zip pocket or he could nick his keys back when you're not looking wink

Edited by carmonk on Tuesday 23 December 14:35

sleep envy

62,260 posts

250 months

Tuesday 23rd December 2008
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post a thread on PH

Strangely Brown

10,078 posts

232 months

Tuesday 23rd December 2008
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Find new friends.