Problems with Friends Girlfriend
Discussion
DrTre said:
rich1231 said:
Don't do a mates girl.
Don't do an exe's mate.
Don't do an attached girl.
I have managed all three, and they are just not worth it. Everytime I am proved that its the wrong thing to do. It should only take once to learn the lesson.
Must have been one hell of a night though.Don't do an exe's mate.
Don't do an attached girl.
I have managed all three, and they are just not worth it. Everytime I am proved that its the wrong thing to do. It should only take once to learn the lesson.
rich1231 said:
Don't do a mates girl.
Don't do an exe's mate.
Don't do an attached girl.
I have managed all three, and they are just not worth it. Everytime I am proved that its the wrong thing to do. It should only take once to learn the lesson.
Don't do an exe's mate.
Don't do an attached girl.
I have managed all three, and they are just not worth it. Everytime I am proved that its the wrong thing to do. It should only take once to learn the lesson.
he's right (again).Oh and by the way, keep all of her texts, and your non-commital replies, because if she's the type who's prepared to go after her bloke's mate behind his back, she's also the type to turn on the taps and tell him it was you pursuing him.
And as for 'should I bone her because "she's pretty nice"..' Get a grip man. Nice is one thing she definitely isn't!
2-faced Eddh basically said:
I don't care about my mates, and have no morals or scruples.
Well said at least you were honest. Mates are for life not Christmas - you will go through many many women until you find the right one. Your mates however will be there alongside you till you die unless you treat them like you are 
Some points to consider:
- Why is your mate with her? Obvously because he likes her - clearly she doesn't feel the same way
- Now you have told two 'other mates' they will think you are a cheating dickless t
t too - If you had a hot gf and was 'with her' how would you like him to do this with her?
k off, call it as it is and tell her she is a slut and can fk off then tell your mate you told her to fk off as you were playing her to test her loyalty to you and she FAILED.Do it now before you cause any more damage and you may be able to salvage some of your reputation - whatever that was.
Rude Girl said:
Oh and by the way, keep all of her texts, and your non-commital replies, because if she's the type who's prepared to go after her bloke's mate behind his back, she's also the type to turn on the taps and tell him it was you pursuing him.
I think thats probably a good idea, keeps me out of the st so to speak!Mr POD said:
ThatPhilBrettGuy said:
People that post stuff like this on open internet forums are retarded. It's not going to be that hard to find out it's you now, or in years to come and you've posted all this stuff that's going to come back and haunt you.
I bet you are fun at a party. Eddh said:
Ok guys I have a little bit of a problem, it involves me and one of my friends girlfriends lets call him Bob and her Lisa. This is also a pretty long post so hang in there!
Just a little bit of background info I have know said friend for the past 7 or 8 years and he has been going out with his girlfriend for just under a year as far as I know, I only first met her about a month ago.
Now this is where the fun starts. The first evening I met her I was rather drunk and participating in what I thought as harmless flirting with her. Then as I got more drunk due to been me and having my crude sense of humour I was joking with my mate asking if I could have a go on his Mrs, this was in front of her and she found it rather amusing and did give me a few of ‘those’ looks (only when my mate wasn’t looking though which caught me as quite odd as I was openly doing it in front of him but she felt the need to hide it.
The week following this she managed to get hold of my email address and added me to MSN. She then proceeded to flirt with me of MSN, I knew my mate was there as well so was once again messing around and asking her if she wanted a three some with us both and general crap like that. She then said they were going to bed and signed off, I went back to what I was doing and then 5 minutes later she signs back in again and said something to the effect of ‘Bob has gone to bed now but I just wanted to come back on and tell you that although it looks to people like I’m messing around I’m actually not and would quite like to shag you just don’t let bob find out’.
Throughout the week then I had various text messages from her, just the usual crap ‘Hi! How are you? What you up to? xxx’ that sort of rubbish. ‘Hi sexi! I’m at work and really bored what you doing? xxx’. (yes sexy with an I :roll
Then this weekend I was out with my 2 best mates, a few others and Bob and Lisa, I had already told my 2 best mates about all what had been going on and we could work out if it was a wind up or if she was been serious so our plan of attack was to say to Bob ‘Haha Eddh showed us all that stuff that you were writing to him pretending to be your Mrs’ and see what his reaction was. It did backfire a bit as his reaction was ‘huh what stuff?’ My mate managed to shrug this off very well as nothing.
I was then deleting messages off my phone as it had got full and someone was texting me about car parts so I needed to remove some, as I was scrolling through I didn’t realise that my mate was looking over my shoulder and said ‘oh whos this Lisa bird then you seem to have a lot of messages off her!’ I made some lame excuse that it was some girl at work luckily there is a girl at work who has the same name and he went ‘ooooh Lisa yeah I think you told me about her wasn’t she after you ages ago?’.
All throughout the night his girlfriend was flirting outrageously with me whenever his back was turned or he went to the toilet or anything like that when he wasn’t looking she was touching my leg, grabbing at my arse stuff like that. But only kept it to when he wasn’t looking, I would see her check and then go for it when she was sure she wasn’t going to be caught. Was the night went on and we both for drunk (Bob was driving so he wasn’t drinking) it got more and more.
Towards the end of the night me and a few friends were sat round a table with her and Bob, my phone then goes off and I get the following text message ‘Fuk me ur hot! Want u so badly! X’. I chose to ignore this and then a minute later get a text message saying ‘The msn messenger messages are from me! Promise! Bob doesn’t know x’. I then replied with ‘Yeah sure I reckon your trying to wind me up x’ and get this back ‘No honestly! I promise! The msn convos haven’t been bullst! Your fking hot! X’. Bob then turns to her and goes oh who are you texting? To which she made up some crap excuse saying someone from work didn’t know the code for the alarms so had text her asking for it which seemed to satisfy him. This prompted some knowing looks from my 2 best mates who had guessed correctly what was going on.
I then had another conversation with her over Msn Messenger (Yes yes I know!) which pretty much involved her saying things like ‘you’re the best looking out of your mates’, ‘I want to fk you’ etc etc etc and asked if I wanted to meet up with her some time during this week, which I managed to fob off by saying I was busy all week. This time I know for a fact that my mate wasn’t there because he was working (rung him up to ask what he was doing to see if he was and could hear that he was on a tractor and lugging bales).
Now I need the advise of the PH masses, Do i:
a) Shag my mates Mrs and hope he doesn’t find out (she is pretty damn nice!)
b) Tell my mate in a joking way like haha that was funny what you were both saying last night and if he goes ‘huh?’ tell him.
c) Print off the conversations and armed with them and the text messages go to my mate and show him that his girlfriend is a cheating bh.
d) Ignore it all and hope it goes away.
e) Knock her back doors in.
f) Buy a MX5.
Option E. She'll hate you for it, you'll have your fun, and she'll leave you alone after that. ;-)Just a little bit of background info I have know said friend for the past 7 or 8 years and he has been going out with his girlfriend for just under a year as far as I know, I only first met her about a month ago.
Now this is where the fun starts. The first evening I met her I was rather drunk and participating in what I thought as harmless flirting with her. Then as I got more drunk due to been me and having my crude sense of humour I was joking with my mate asking if I could have a go on his Mrs, this was in front of her and she found it rather amusing and did give me a few of ‘those’ looks (only when my mate wasn’t looking though which caught me as quite odd as I was openly doing it in front of him but she felt the need to hide it.
The week following this she managed to get hold of my email address and added me to MSN. She then proceeded to flirt with me of MSN, I knew my mate was there as well so was once again messing around and asking her if she wanted a three some with us both and general crap like that. She then said they were going to bed and signed off, I went back to what I was doing and then 5 minutes later she signs back in again and said something to the effect of ‘Bob has gone to bed now but I just wanted to come back on and tell you that although it looks to people like I’m messing around I’m actually not and would quite like to shag you just don’t let bob find out’.
Throughout the week then I had various text messages from her, just the usual crap ‘Hi! How are you? What you up to? xxx’ that sort of rubbish. ‘Hi sexi! I’m at work and really bored what you doing? xxx’. (yes sexy with an I :roll
Then this weekend I was out with my 2 best mates, a few others and Bob and Lisa, I had already told my 2 best mates about all what had been going on and we could work out if it was a wind up or if she was been serious so our plan of attack was to say to Bob ‘Haha Eddh showed us all that stuff that you were writing to him pretending to be your Mrs’ and see what his reaction was. It did backfire a bit as his reaction was ‘huh what stuff?’ My mate managed to shrug this off very well as nothing.
I was then deleting messages off my phone as it had got full and someone was texting me about car parts so I needed to remove some, as I was scrolling through I didn’t realise that my mate was looking over my shoulder and said ‘oh whos this Lisa bird then you seem to have a lot of messages off her!’ I made some lame excuse that it was some girl at work luckily there is a girl at work who has the same name and he went ‘ooooh Lisa yeah I think you told me about her wasn’t she after you ages ago?’.
All throughout the night his girlfriend was flirting outrageously with me whenever his back was turned or he went to the toilet or anything like that when he wasn’t looking she was touching my leg, grabbing at my arse stuff like that. But only kept it to when he wasn’t looking, I would see her check and then go for it when she was sure she wasn’t going to be caught. Was the night went on and we both for drunk (Bob was driving so he wasn’t drinking) it got more and more.
Towards the end of the night me and a few friends were sat round a table with her and Bob, my phone then goes off and I get the following text message ‘Fuk me ur hot! Want u so badly! X’. I chose to ignore this and then a minute later get a text message saying ‘The msn messenger messages are from me! Promise! Bob doesn’t know x’. I then replied with ‘Yeah sure I reckon your trying to wind me up x’ and get this back ‘No honestly! I promise! The msn convos haven’t been bulls
t! Your fking hot! X’. Bob then turns to her and goes oh who are you texting? To which she made up some crap excuse saying someone from work didn’t know the code for the alarms so had text her asking for it which seemed to satisfy him. This prompted some knowing looks from my 2 best mates who had guessed correctly what was going on.I then had another conversation with her over Msn Messenger (Yes yes I know!) which pretty much involved her saying things like ‘you’re the best looking out of your mates’, ‘I want to f
k you’ etc etc etc and asked if I wanted to meet up with her some time during this week, which I managed to fob off by saying I was busy all week. This time I know for a fact that my mate wasn’t there because he was working (rung him up to ask what he was doing to see if he was and could hear that he was on a tractor and lugging bales).Now I need the advise of the PH masses, Do i:
a) Shag my mates Mrs and hope he doesn’t find out (she is pretty damn nice!)
b) Tell my mate in a joking way like haha that was funny what you were both saying last night and if he goes ‘huh?’ tell him.
c) Print off the conversations and armed with them and the text messages go to my mate and show him that his girlfriend is a cheating b
h.d) Ignore it all and hope it goes away.
e) Knock her back doors in.
f) Buy a MX5.
Edited by Speed12fanatic on Tuesday 2nd September 12:42
Eddh said:
Rude Girl said:
Oh and by the way, keep all of her texts, and your non-commital replies, because if she's the type who's prepared to go after her bloke's mate behind his back, she's also the type to turn on the taps and tell him it was you pursuing him.
I think thats probably a good idea, keeps me out of the st so to speak!GuildfordPaul said:
Eddh said:
Rude Girl said:
Oh and by the way, keep all of her texts, and your non-commital replies, because if she's the type who's prepared to go after her bloke's mate behind his back, she's also the type to turn on the taps and tell him it was you pursuing him.
I think thats probably a good idea, keeps me out of the st so to speak!
Eddh said:
GuildfordPaul said:
Eddh said:
Rude Girl said:
Oh and by the way, keep all of her texts, and your non-commital replies, because if she's the type who's prepared to go after her bloke's mate behind his back, she's also the type to turn on the taps and tell him it was you pursuing him.
I think thats probably a good idea, keeps me out of the st so to speak!FWDRacer said:
mel said:
Actually you're fooked already whatever you do so you may as well go out in a blaze of glory 
Bnag On 
Bang her.FWDRcaer said:
mel said:
Actually you're fooked already whatever you do so you may as well go out in a blaze of glory
Bnng On Bang her.
I guess I'm a bit "old school", but seeing as you've been "best mates" with this guy for 7-8 years, and he clearly likes this girl, and you're considering it, you're a bit of a cock.
I wouldn't dream of doing this to my best mate, you're only interested because she's shown a bit of interest - get a grip, she's a dirty, lying slapper.
Not only would I wallop you one if I was your best mate, but you'd loose a mate, get a reputation and have gained nothing - except maybe a few diseases.
Go out and get with some good looking girls, no strings attached, no baggage, no bullst.
I wouldn't dream of doing this to my best mate, you're only interested because she's shown a bit of interest - get a grip, she's a dirty, lying slapper.
Not only would I wallop you one if I was your best mate, but you'd loose a mate, get a reputation and have gained nothing - except maybe a few diseases.
Go out and get with some good looking girls, no strings attached, no baggage, no bulls
t.Eddh said:
f) Buy a MX5.
I'd be careful. Women can be... well, snakes with tits.
A couple of weeks back I went to a party with a lot of old friends including a rather stunning girl I used to go to school with. When she arrived, she came straight through the door and draped herself over me. I'm happily attached (although the OH wasn't there) and had no intention of doing anything, plus I've know her for about ten years and knew she was only playing so I wasn't too worried.
There was a bloke who'd appeared as part of the group this girl had arrived with who I assumed was just a hanger-on they'd met in the pub or something. It turned out that was her boyfriend of over a year.
Her behaviour got progressively more and more outrageous and I was starting to feel a little uncomfortable with it.
I'd never have done anything, but I might have humoured her a little if I hadn't felt sorry for the boyfriend. She was obviously doing it purely to get at him and I would have been furious in his position. Well, when I say furious, the word I'm looking for is 'single'.
Women do seem to have this power thing going on, so I'd be very careful indeed.
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