Bracknell to the city commute -been offered double my salary
Discussion
Funk said:
Are you now taking the role then..?
Bikesalot said:
So you're taking the job?
I've read from page one and instantly thought 'yup, you've got to give it a try'
I was disappointed, that a complete stranger on the internet, turned down what seemed like a very good opportunity.
Hope it goes well, it sounds like you've really got room to put your mark on this role and within the company.
I've read from page one and instantly thought 'yup, you've got to give it a try'
I was disappointed, that a complete stranger on the internet, turned down what seemed like a very good opportunity.
Hope it goes well, it sounds like you've really got room to put your mark on this role and within the company.
MYOB said:
I can't cope with the twists in this saga!
Hi,Yes I am taking the role. I called the recruiter this morning and the company themselves. I think it's the right call.
My biggest reluctance here was:
1) Leaving the Police and a role that I am happy enough doing, albeit it's not challenging really
2) Leaving my team behind, 2-3 of them I am good friends with
3) Joining a business and a sector I know nothing about
4) Fear of leaving my comfort zone
I do think it's a mistake to stay just because it's familiar. I'm not sure if I will enjoy the private sector to be honest, but I won't know unless I give it a go.
But the good thing is, if I don't enjoy it, the Police do take you back within 5 years, so it's an organisation that I could always return to. So at least there's is a backup plan just in case things don't work out.
Sorry for all the twists and turns, it's been probably the hardest decision of my life and I'm leaving a place where I have been for about 11 years and everything I know.
Thanks for all your advice,
redrabbit
Like others, I am glad you've changed your mind. Why I care I'm not sure. Possibly because I started a new job in January near Liverpool Street after 9 years working for a small consultancy where I knew the ropes and had made good friends.
4 months on and I am genuinely happier than I've been for years. I actually look forward to going to work for the new challenges I am facing (which, coming from a consulting role where every project is a challenge, surprises me). I still keep in touch with my genuine friends from my last company (actually, I still go for beers with friends from my previous 3 companies... friendships dating back 20 years!).
Best of luck with the new role. And please come back and update this thread once you're settled in the new job, if only so we can all say we told you so!
4 months on and I am genuinely happier than I've been for years. I actually look forward to going to work for the new challenges I am facing (which, coming from a consulting role where every project is a challenge, surprises me). I still keep in touch with my genuine friends from my last company (actually, I still go for beers with friends from my previous 3 companies... friendships dating back 20 years!).
Best of luck with the new role. And please come back and update this thread once you're settled in the new job, if only so we can all say we told you so!
I made a similar jump. It turned out to be an absolute calamity from both a personal and professional point of view and one which resulted in my having a breakdown
However, much of the reason for that was very specific to the team that I joined. Furthermore, I maintained good relations with the mob that I left and was welcomed back when I asked to return. And perhaps most importantly I don't regret making the move. It enabled me to put my dissatisfaction with my original employers in perspective, and so consequently once back at work I was a lot happier there, and able to focus on the positives.
Good luck.
ETA the purpose of this post is to tell you to embrace the change because even if for some reason it doesn't work out, I'm sure good things will still come of it.
However, much of the reason for that was very specific to the team that I joined. Furthermore, I maintained good relations with the mob that I left and was welcomed back when I asked to return. And perhaps most importantly I don't regret making the move. It enabled me to put my dissatisfaction with my original employers in perspective, and so consequently once back at work I was a lot happier there, and able to focus on the positives.
Good luck.
ETA the purpose of this post is to tell you to embrace the change because even if for some reason it doesn't work out, I'm sure good things will still come of it.
redrabbit29 said:
Can't believe what I've done. I turned the job down. Slept about an hour last night as I just was not sure what to do. All day I was just unsure and I was avoiding contact with the recruiter and the employer themselves.
About 5pm even as I made the call I just didn't know what to do. Now I just feel a bit sick and like I've given up on a golden opportunity. Guess that's natural.
My reasons for not taking this were:
I didn't want to commit to the daily commute
It was fear of the unknown in terms of a new team, new business, moving to a new building soon
I was willing to put hours in but just didn't want to do that and then have 60-90 minute travel on each way
Anyway, I feel numb and sick to be honest. I kinda think that was my one big chance to move on and I've blown it
To be honest mate , chin up - Feel you made the right decision.About 5pm even as I made the call I just didn't know what to do. Now I just feel a bit sick and like I've given up on a golden opportunity. Guess that's natural.
My reasons for not taking this were:
I didn't want to commit to the daily commute
It was fear of the unknown in terms of a new team, new business, moving to a new building soon
I was willing to put hours in but just didn't want to do that and then have 60-90 minute travel on each way
Anyway, I feel numb and sick to be honest. I kinda think that was my one big chance to move on and I've blown it
Firstly £40k is not a bad salary at all. I would personally be happy with that for life.
Your current job sounds stress free, with nice people, and a good pension (these are very important things to have a nice, long healthy life).
I worked in London for a while and I commuted on motorbike. Once a week, but still it was enough.
For the £75k you would not be leaving at 5pm and starting work at 9am. There is often an unwritten (and unfair) expectation to answer E-mails / calls during your down time.
While you would be earning more yes, the extra stress and extra money on lunches , dinners out etc in London (very expensive) will add up. Combined with the fact you are planning on starting a family soon the security of a job you've been in for a while certainly covers the extra salary.
Do not regret it, the simple fact you weren't jumping around with joy when the initial offer came in, shows you made the right decision. .
redrabbit29 said:
Can't believe what I've done. I turned the job down. Slept about an hour last night as I just was not sure what to do. All day I was just unsure and I was avoiding contact with the recruiter and the employer themselves.
About 5pm even as I made the call I just didn't know what to do. Now I just feel a bit sick and like I've given up on a golden opportunity. Guess that's natural.
My reasons for not taking this were:
I didn't want to commit to the daily commute
It was fear of the unknown in terms of a new team, new business, moving to a new building soon
I was willing to put hours in but just didn't want to do that and then have 60-90 minute travel on each way
Anyway, I feel numb and sick to be honest. I kinda think that was my one big chance to move on and I've blown it
Glad you have taken it, read this from end to end, I think the immediate feeling you got when you turned it down speaks volumes! best of luck!About 5pm even as I made the call I just didn't know what to do. Now I just feel a bit sick and like I've given up on a golden opportunity. Guess that's natural.
My reasons for not taking this were:
I didn't want to commit to the daily commute
It was fear of the unknown in terms of a new team, new business, moving to a new building soon
I was willing to put hours in but just didn't want to do that and then have 60-90 minute travel on each way
Anyway, I feel numb and sick to be honest. I kinda think that was my one big chance to move on and I've blown it
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