Retirement - why bother?

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anonymous-user

55 months

Friday 28th September 2018
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Keep an open mind when making judgements of others and you won’t come across as a judgemental arse.

Robertj21a

16,478 posts

106 months

Friday 28th September 2018
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OldGermanHeaps said:
Because i'm not on the internet all day like some sad canopy of ste i'm out ducking and diving all day and having a blast.
Many of my customers are sheltered housing complexes, I spend a fair bit of time among retired people. It doesn't agree with a lot of them, they really miss their graft. Some are delighted to be away from it. I would definitely fall into the former category, so much so that I can't even imagine what it would be like to fall into the latter category. Which is what I said. Just because my experience is different than yours doesn't make it any less valid.
I quit my depressing but reasonably well paid job to start my business after I had a mortgage and a kid and another on the way, it took a lot of planning and a lot of bottle but its doable.
Lots of the succesful people I come across didn't make the jump until later in life too, but they are very glad they did. That being said I probably dont encounter the ones it didn't work out for because they aren't seeking my services.
I guess these retired ones who 'it doesn't agree with' are those who have never really had any interests away from work, no hobbies, no interest in travelling etc etc - that's certainly a sad situation if you let that happen to yourself. I don't understand people who are so focused on just one aspect of life every single day. What a waste.

anonymous-user

55 months

Friday 28th September 2018
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garyhun said:
Keep an open mind when making judgements of others and you won’t come across as a judgemental arse.
No, he'll still come across as a judgemental arse. Or an arse anyway, "ducking and diving" FFS, must think he's in a movie or something.

anonymous-user

55 months

Friday 28th September 2018
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keirik said:
garyhun said:
Keep an open mind when making judgements of others and you won’t come across as a judgemental arse.
No, he'll still come across as a judgemental arse. Or an arse anyway, "ducking and diving" FFS, must think he's in a movie or something.
He does sound very angry and unsatisfied with life.

Testaburger

3,684 posts

199 months

Friday 28th September 2018
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garyhun said:
He does sound very angry and unsatisfied with life.
Yeh, but he’s ‘ducking and diving’, so he’s got that going for him.

FFS

Sheepshanks

32,799 posts

120 months

Saturday 29th September 2018
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Kermit power said:
If she could afford to take early retirement from a public sector job at the age of 52, one can't help thinking that that firmly confirms the notion of the public sector being overpaid, which nobody outside Pistonheads seems to believe has happened.
The reality of the situation is that she earned so little it didn’t make much difference whether she worked or not. She got no redundancy pay or lump sum, instead her pension is paid - a massive £280/mth. And while going through the process, that amount was reduced twice, but with no option to change her decision.

Porridge GTI

Original Poster:

300 posts

103 months

Saturday 29th September 2018
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The idea of travelling all the time sounds exhausting and tedious.

anonymous-user

55 months

Saturday 29th September 2018
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Porridge GTI said:
The idea of travelling all the time sounds exhausting and tedious.
I agree and I’m retired.

The beauty of retirement is you can do what YOU like, when YOU like.

MC Bodge

21,638 posts

176 months

Saturday 29th September 2018
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garyhun said:
Porridge GTI said:
The idea of travelling all the time sounds exhausting and tedious.
I agree and I’m retired.

The beauty of retirement is you can do what YOU like, when YOU like.
Drinking from early doors at Wetherspoons followed by Cash in the Attic has a lot to be said fir it wink

Robertj21a

16,478 posts

106 months

Saturday 29th September 2018
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Porridge GTI said:
The idea of travelling all the time sounds exhausting and tedious.
Not sure who has suggested travelling all the time ?

In any event, most people without any real interests/hobbies probably won't benefit much from the obvious alternative of vegetating in front of a TV screen.

FocusRS3

3,411 posts

92 months

Wednesday 3rd October 2018
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keirik said:
I retired last year at 56 and I love it.

since then Ive joined a second band, taken up all grain home brewing, had a new kitchen, fettled my kit car, I dont have time for work, and if m,y brain does turn to mush in 10 years time I won't be the one having to worry about it.

If you like your job, great, but if you hated it, like I did pretty much the whole of the 35 years I did it, then in my view its better to have fun than die from the stress
I'm sure lots can relate to this. What did you do for a living ?

zubzob

721 posts

80 months

Thursday 4th October 2018
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Person who loves job, wants to keep doing job. Shocker!

It's a minority who do love their jobs however. Not every member of the orchestra gets to be lead viloin. Some of us are stuck playing the bongos.

Robertj21a

16,478 posts

106 months

Thursday 4th October 2018
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Even many of those who say that they love their job will actually fall into the camp of having little in the way of other interests. They may even be a little scared of 'the big outside world' and feel more relaxed in their traditional comfort zone.

Hoofy

76,384 posts

283 months

Thursday 4th October 2018
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I run my own business and as it's so easy, I'm not going to struggle to do it in my 80s. biggrin

Johnnytheboy

24,498 posts

187 months

Thursday 4th October 2018
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I'd retire tomorrow.

However I'm 45 and poorly paid so best not.

Hoofy

76,384 posts

283 months

Thursday 4th October 2018
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zubzob said:
Person who loves job, wants to keep doing job. Shocker!

It's a minority who do love their jobs however. Not every member of the orchestra gets to be lead viloin. Some of us are stuck playing the bongos.
Some people would prefer being in the back playing the bongos.