Women uncomfortable with transgender employee in toilet

Women uncomfortable with transgender employee in toilet

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Leylandeye

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550 posts

56 months

Saturday 29th February 2020
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p2c said:
A birth certificate really doesn't come into it in theses circumstances, I hope she wasn't the only new employee who was asked to provide one as that could be problematic.
No it doesn't come into it and again, this was a question I asked - is everyone asked to produce a birth certificate and have been told yes. I've never been asked!

Leylandeye

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Sunday 1st March 2020
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Chainsaw Rebuild said:
Can you find another legit reason to get rid of them? If they are a new hire I understand it’s easier. Arguably a bit harsh but if it keep multiple other employees happy....
This is the reason trans people have employment and other rights protected in law, and why we have to know the law. But then get accused of being litigious and awkward.
Just to clarify, this isn't at my place of work. I mentioned at the outset that it's a situation at my brothers.

From what I'm told nobody wants to "get rid" of the person, not even the women who are being stressed by the situation.

Leylandeye

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Sunday 1st March 2020
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Teddy Lop said:
I want for there to be an everyone's happy solution to the problem where all women feel safe and comfortable and trans feel the same and that they're not being a problem, but "some" people deciding one sides rights and issues can and should be simply sacrificed makes them as bad as the kind of people they like to think they oppose.
This sums up the situation, the problem and the goal.

Really well put!



Leylandeye

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Sunday 1st March 2020
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Taita said:
I wonder if there is an element of if they feel so 'unsafe and threatened' or stressed by a trans female using the loo, they are welcome to seek employment elsewhere.
That's one of the issues here. The employer really doesn't want to lose them.


Leylandeye

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Friday 6th March 2020
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Kateg28 said:
I am a women and whilst not a grandma..........

........Please note I am not against Transexuals (or any other spectrum of sexuality) but to give rights to a tiny proportion of the population at the expense of half the population cannot be right?.

I may not have made myself very clear and don't want to offend but there are other points of view in this debate.
This is very well explained and makes it so much clearer to understand.

Whilst there may be nothing to fear, the fear is still there and reasonable.