How much benefits?
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alcatrazarmando said:
from reading this its pretty clear that poor chap needs some help - is the onus on a landlord to do this? probably not but you dont need this extra trouble. If you have contact details of next of kin - try contact a brother or relative and let them know that he is ****** and needs some help?
I don't have contact details.The mother of his kids lives with them in a village about 4 miles away.
Pit Pony said:
Spoke too soon. Apparently it's difficult to find something to rent in Staffordshire. If that's true, why have I just done a reference? More lies?
Just like it's difficult to find a job he wants to do.I recommend buying yourself one of these, https://badobsessionmotorsport.co.uk/shop/nmfp-mug...
KAgantua said:
Mate, dont go down the route of searching for houses for him!!
Let him sort his accomodation out, if you need to throw him on the street do it!!
Youre his landlord not his social worker...
I'm not looking for him, but I did check out how many listing's there are on Spareroom. Co.uk in Staffs and Derbyshire. 400 plus.Let him sort his accomodation out, if you need to throw him on the street do it!!
Youre his landlord not his social worker...
I'm back there tonight, and will be pointing out that his has 2 weeks to contact all 400 and move out. Not my problem.
Pit Pony said:
KAgantua said:
Mate, dont go down the route of searching for houses for him!!
Let him sort his accomodation out, if you need to throw him on the street do it!!
Youre his landlord not his social worker...
I'm not looking for him, but I did check out how many listing's there are on Spareroom. Co.uk in Staffs and Derbyshire. 400 plus.Let him sort his accomodation out, if you need to throw him on the street do it!!
Youre his landlord not his social worker...
I'm back there tonight, and will be pointing out that his has 2 weeks to contact all 400 and move out. Not my problem.
Biggy Stardust said:
Pit Pony said:
I don't want to be the bloke that puts him out on the street,
Ultimately it's him that would be responsible for being out on the street, not you. If you've played fair then you need feel no guilt whatsoever.Which I am determined will happen.
Pit Pony said:
Just got back from. Weekend away at my parents.
He's paid a deposit on a house to rent, (which is the one I did a reference for on Openrent).
He seems much more coherent and energetic.
Is doing MOT training tomorrow for most of the week.
And the lies continue? Probably. He's paid a deposit on a house to rent, (which is the one I did a reference for on Openrent).
He seems much more coherent and energetic.
Is doing MOT training tomorrow for most of the week.
He told me on Monday, that he gets the keys today, so he will have a week to move his stuff in.
Last night he tells me, that the landlord has decided he gets the keys next Friday, because she needs to put some blinds up.
I just said, well that's fine, you've got til Sunday to move your stuff and I'll be here starting to decorate over the weekend.
What's the bet, there will be a 'problem' next week.?
Poor bloke, but you’ve got to row your own boat in this life and I agree that he’ll start to drag you down if you engage too much.
The depression but I feel a lot of sympathy towards…the blatant lies not so much.
Make sure once he’s gone that you pop a Crimestoppers report in, given what you’ve said he is almost certainly drink driving and that needs stopping!
The depression but I feel a lot of sympathy towards…the blatant lies not so much.
Make sure once he’s gone that you pop a Crimestoppers report in, given what you’ve said he is almost certainly drink driving and that needs stopping!
And now the bulls
t continues. I think.
He told me all week, that he is getting the keys to his new house tomorrow.
Or rather he told me last Friday, and I referred to that conversation every day in passing, in terms of well, you'll be packing ready to take all your stuff once you get the keys.
He's just told me, that he's struggling to get hold of the landlord, "the bloody bh doesn't return my emails". He also told me he's been in bed most of the day.
I suggested that as he has her phone number, he phones her to organise a time to pick up the keys.
I want to believe him, but a sober person would ensure they had that arranged from the point they signed the AST.
I want to scream "prove you've even signed a Tenancy Agreement, and you've not been stringing me on"
My stress levels are raised now, because catastrophising I can see that on Sunday he won't have gone and I will be changing the locks, and he'll be banging on the door. Probably
t continues. I think. He told me all week, that he is getting the keys to his new house tomorrow.
Or rather he told me last Friday, and I referred to that conversation every day in passing, in terms of well, you'll be packing ready to take all your stuff once you get the keys.
He's just told me, that he's struggling to get hold of the landlord, "the bloody b
h doesn't return my emails". He also told me he's been in bed most of the day. I suggested that as he has her phone number, he phones her to organise a time to pick up the keys.
I want to believe him, but a sober person would ensure they had that arranged from the point they signed the AST.
I want to scream "prove you've even signed a Tenancy Agreement, and you've not been stringing me on"
My stress levels are raised now, because catastrophising I can see that on Sunday he won't have gone and I will be changing the locks, and he'll be banging on the door. Probably
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