How the other half live - C4

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Oakey

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27,595 posts

217 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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here we go again.

the dad's a nice bloke but the mothers a scumbag.

family donate two grand and on their essential shopping list the poor family put 'dvd recorder / HD - £150'. the mother then proceeds to spend £500 on a laptop for herself rather than furniture and clothes for the kids, then she buys the son a PC game which doesn't work on their old desktop computer (no suggestion he can play it on the new laptop). what a cretin

eta:

poor dad: we can't even afford a table to eat at

poor kid: they'll probably find it a lot different here (he says sat in front of his ps3 and ps2)

Edited by Oakey on Thursday 6th August 21:52

robinhood21

30,785 posts

233 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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I hope one of the camera crew is looking after the car, 'twill be gone if they haven't.

okgo

38,153 posts

199 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Classic, daddy owns Pimlico Plumbers and has given matey boy some deskjob paying the world!

Oakey

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27,595 posts

217 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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I love how the ps3 keeps appearing and disappearing between cuts, I hope it was a gift from the rich family and not another silly purchase. notice they've got another desktop pc now too.

R60EST

2,364 posts

183 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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I'm just watching this now on C4+1 , what a hag the 'poor' wife is. She looks like the kid's Gran rather than his Mum. It says she's developing a new business venture in skin care cream , WTF did she try on her own skin , acid ? The 'rich' family don't come across as the sharpest tools in the box , he sounds and seems as intelligent as Beckham

SeeFive

8,280 posts

234 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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A few things puzzling me on this.

1) Guy works shifts at the bus garage for 208 quid a week. He seems to be relatively literate / intelligent. Why does he not simply get a better job - perhaps an apprenticeship with Pimlico Plumbers?

2) They live in a 2 bedroom house with 2 sons. Why are the two kids not in the same room, or why is the council/housing association not forced to re-house tehm to provide a room large enough / extra room for both kids to sleep in?

3) On 208 quid a week with 2 kids, they should be in for a landslide of benefits and similar income related government handouts. None of this "income" was mentioned when outlining their poverty.

4) As mentioned above, the woman is not the best advert for her skin care products. She is supposedly late forties!! Choose another career lady - it ain't gonna happen.

5) Is it my mistake, or are they simply on the take from the more fortunates, and making suggestions through their kids letters (haven't got a bed, haven't been on holiday, game doesn't work on the old computer etc.).

6) With 2k in his back pocket and another 2k, and free holidays and all the other stuff, why has this guy not thought to try to better himself and provide for his family medium to long term. He even said that the position of the others should inspire his son - why the hell hasn't it inspired the Dad!

My feeling - ponces, on the take with nice kids (especially the mum), and I thought that the more fortunate family's kids were very grounded and a credit to their parents in the way that they spoke about the situation.

Oakey

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27,595 posts

217 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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they also had the internet right from the start yet couldn't buy the son shoes?

I thought the mother wanting a webcam for the laptop pretty much proved it wasn't for her 'business' and even after when she said she felt 'guilty', not so guilty she didn't take it back!

Burnham

3,668 posts

260 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Regardless of what either set of parents gets out of the experience, it will certainly change the lives of both pairs of kids.
I guess that's what its all about.

Steve126

301 posts

184 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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SeeFive said:
A few things puzzling me on this.

1) Guy works shifts at the bus garage for 208 quid a week. He seems to be relatively literate / intelligent. Why does he not simply get a better job - perhaps an apprenticeship with Pimlico Plumbers?

2) They live in a 2 bedroom house with 2 sons. Why are the two kids not in the same room, or why is the council/housing association not forced to re-house tehm to provide a room large enough / extra room for both kids to sleep in?

3) On 208 quid a week with 2 kids, they should be in for a landslide of benefits and similar income related government handouts. None of this "income" was mentioned when outlining their poverty.

4) As mentioned above, the woman is not the best advert for her skin care products. She is supposedly late forties!! Choose another career lady - it ain't gonna happen.

5) Is it my mistake, or are they simply on the take from the more fortunates, and making suggestions through their kids letters (haven't got a bed, haven't been on holiday, game doesn't work on the old computer etc.).

6) With 2k in his back pocket and another 2k, and free holidays and all the other stuff, why has this guy not thought to try to better himself and provide for his family medium to long term. He even said that the position of the others should inspire his son - why the hell hasn't it inspired the Dad!

My feeling - ponces, on the take with nice kids (especially the mum), and I thought that the more fortunate family's kids were very grounded and a credit to their parents in the way that they spoke about the situation.
At the start of the programme they said that the Mum does receive benefits.

The Dad was actually the step Dad, so he was trying to support some other bloke's children which is more than their biological parents seem to do, as the Mum doesn't work and the real Dad is long gone.

SeeFive

8,280 posts

234 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Steve126 said:
SeeFive said:
A few things puzzling me on this.

1) Guy works shifts at the bus garage for 208 quid a week. He seems to be relatively literate / intelligent. Why does he not simply get a better job - perhaps an apprenticeship with Pimlico Plumbers?

2) They live in a 2 bedroom house with 2 sons. Why are the two kids not in the same room, or why is the council/housing association not forced to re-house tehm to provide a room large enough / extra room for both kids to sleep in?

3) On 208 quid a week with 2 kids, they should be in for a landslide of benefits and similar income related government handouts. None of this "income" was mentioned when outlining their poverty.

4) As mentioned above, the woman is not the best advert for her skin care products. She is supposedly late forties!! Choose another career lady - it ain't gonna happen.

5) Is it my mistake, or are they simply on the take from the more fortunates, and making suggestions through their kids letters (haven't got a bed, haven't been on holiday, game doesn't work on the old computer etc.).

6) With 2k in his back pocket and another 2k, and free holidays and all the other stuff, why has this guy not thought to try to better himself and provide for his family medium to long term. He even said that the position of the others should inspire his son - why the hell hasn't it inspired the Dad!

My feeling - ponces, on the take with nice kids (especially the mum), and I thought that the more fortunate family's kids were very grounded and a credit to their parents in the way that they spoke about the situation.
At the start of the programme they said that the Mum does receive benefits.

The Dad was actually the step Dad, so he was trying to support some other bloke's children which is more than their biological parents seem to do, as the Mum doesn't work and the real Dad is long gone.
Thanks for that additional information - that'll teach me to miss the very start of the program and comment smile

Did they mention how much the family gets in benefits? I bet it's a fair screw as I know a couple with one kid who work for similar money and get pretty much everything paid / subsidised. Amazing that they fell behind with the poll tax under those circumstances, must have been very careless or have other priorities.

Fair play to the Dad for taking the kids on, but you have to ask yourself a couple of questions:

A) Is it worth it (he must love those kids cos just have a look at her boat race - actually that's very unfair of me, maybe she is a selfless woman with a great giving personality... oh hang on a sec, I forgot the computer purchase with the first 2k), and
B) Could he do better off his own back? I really feel he could based on what I saw of him, but he needs to give it a bit of thought (e.g., "I am very grateful, but rather than take these handouts from you, how can I get into a business like yours - maybe working for you and do it myself - will you mentor me instead of just handing me cash").

Still, it probably wouldn't work on a one hour reality programme would it. Woo let's blow a few grand. Woo free holiday in Spain. Now then, how can we get the kids to big it up in their letters to get a few more quid.

Still liked all the kids contribution to the discussions though.... quite mature for their ages.

Dan_1981

17,414 posts

200 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Watched this last night - the gf said last weeks was very good. Have to say I didn't really enjoy it. Really not quite sure that I like the whole approach of the program.

Oakey

Original Poster:

27,595 posts

217 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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I'm also sure that during the trailer the mother says the Bailiffs have been knocking because they owe £200. Then when they received the first donation and were writing down their outgoings she said something like "Bailiffs, what's that? £300?"

shirt

22,641 posts

202 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Oakey said:
anyone watching this?

about a wealthy family financially helping a 'poor' family.

the 'poor' family are just what you expect. black family living on grotty estate. mother the size of a bus, three kids, one sleeping on the floor, etc.

they're living in 'poverty', the only income they get is the £240 a week in benefits!

ignore the benefits part a second, that's two hundred and forty quid a week! more than most people take home on minimum wage!

what a joke

Edited by Oakey on Thursday 30th July 21:35
didn't watch it, and i hate chavs etc., but £240 a week in benefits is hardly something to get angry over. i wouldn;t be able to survive on that and there's only me to look after.

as benefits go, thats pretty reasonable.

Dan_1981

17,414 posts

200 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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shirt said:
Oakey said:
anyone watching this?

about a wealthy family financially helping a 'poor' family.

the 'poor' family are just what you expect. black family living on grotty estate. mother the size of a bus, three kids, one sleeping on the floor, etc.

they're living in 'poverty', the only income they get is the £240 a week in benefits!

ignore the benefits part a second, that's two hundred and forty quid a week! more than most people take home on minimum wage!

what a joke

Edited by Oakey on Thursday 30th July 21:35
didn't watch it, and i hate chavs etc., but £240 a week in benefits is hardly something to get angry over. i wouldn;t be able to survive on that and there's only me to look after.

as benefits go, thats pretty reasonable.
You live in Yorkshire and couldn't live on £960 pounds per month on your own????


Oakey

Original Poster:

27,595 posts

217 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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shirt said:
Oakey said:
anyone watching this?

about a wealthy family financially helping a 'poor' family.

the 'poor' family are just what you expect. black family living on grotty estate. mother the size of a bus, three kids, one sleeping on the floor, etc.

they're living in 'poverty', the only income they get is the £240 a week in benefits!

ignore the benefits part a second, that's two hundred and forty quid a week! more than most people take home on minimum wage!

what a joke

Edited by Oakey on Thursday 30th July 21:35
didn't watch it, and i hate chavs etc., but £240 a week in benefits is hardly something to get angry over. i wouldn;t be able to survive on that and there's only me to look after.

as benefits go, thats pretty reasonable.
£12.5k a year in benefits is 'reasonable'? That's £20 a week more than most people will earn on minimum wage working 9am - 5pm five days a week and they'd have to pay tax and NI, you think it's perfectly acceptable this woman should receive this for doing precisely fk all?

shirt

22,641 posts

202 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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i didn't say it was 'perfectly acceptable' did i? i said it was reasonable for a single mum [the step dad's earning wont count for benefit calcs. i presume?] with 2 kids to support. hardly makes her lizzie bardsley.

i meant it as a compliment to the benefits people, not her.


Steve126

301 posts

184 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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Just think how many people there are like that, then think how much more you pay in tax to cover the cost of their benefits. Nothing reasonable about that as far as I'm concerned.

shirt

22,641 posts

202 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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i support the idea of being a welfare state and don't mind paying taxes to contribute to that. i'm quite glad we've moved on from putting kids in the poorhouse.

him_over_there

970 posts

207 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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SeeFive said:
Steve126 said:
SeeFive said:
A few things puzzling me on this.

1) Guy works shifts at the bus garage for 208 quid a week. He seems to be relatively literate / intelligent. Why does he not simply get a better job - perhaps an apprenticeship with Pimlico Plumbers?

2) They live in a 2 bedroom house with 2 sons. Why are the two kids not in the same room, or why is the council/housing association not forced to re-house tehm to provide a room large enough / extra room for both kids to sleep in?

3) On 208 quid a week with 2 kids, they should be in for a landslide of benefits and similar income related government handouts. None of this "income" was mentioned when outlining their poverty.

4) As mentioned above, the woman is not the best advert for her skin care products. She is supposedly late forties!! Choose another career lady - it ain't gonna happen.

5) Is it my mistake, or are they simply on the take from the more fortunates, and making suggestions through their kids letters (haven't got a bed, haven't been on holiday, game doesn't work on the old computer etc.).

6) With 2k in his back pocket and another 2k, and free holidays and all the other stuff, why has this guy not thought to try to better himself and provide for his family medium to long term. He even said that the position of the others should inspire his son - why the hell hasn't it inspired the Dad!

My feeling - ponces, on the take with nice kids (especially the mum), and I thought that the more fortunate family's kids were very grounded and a credit to their parents in the way that they spoke about the situation.
At the start of the programme they said that the Mum does receive benefits.

The Dad was actually the step Dad, so he was trying to support some other bloke's children which is more than their biological parents seem to do, as the Mum doesn't work and the real Dad is long gone.
Thanks for that additional information - that'll teach me to miss the very start of the program and comment smile

Did they mention how much the family gets in benefits? I bet it's a fair screw as I know a couple with one kid who work for similar money and get pretty much everything paid / subsidised. Amazing that they fell behind with the poll tax under those circumstances, must have been very careless or have other priorities.

Fair play to the Dad for taking the kids on, but you have to ask yourself a couple of questions:

A) Is it worth it (he must love those kids cos just have a look at her boat race - actually that's very unfair of me, maybe she is a selfless woman with a great giving personality... oh hang on a sec, I forgot the computer purchase with the first 2k), and
B) Could he do better off his own back? I really feel he could based on what I saw of him, but he needs to give it a bit of thought (e.g., "I am very grateful, but rather than take these handouts from you, how can I get into a business like yours - maybe working for you and do it myself - will you mentor me instead of just handing me cash").

Still, it probably wouldn't work on a one hour reality programme would it. Woo let's blow a few grand. Woo free holiday in Spain. Now then, how can we get the kids to big it up in their letters to get a few more quid.

Still liked all the kids contribution to the discussions though.... quite mature for their ages.
I saw this. I'm sure the program mentioned them clearing over £400 a week between his wage and her benefits.

Oakey

Original Poster:

27,595 posts

217 months

Friday 7th August 2009
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shirt said:
i support the idea of being a welfare state and don't mind paying taxes to contribute to that. i'm quite glad we've moved on from putting kids in the poorhouse.
Except it seems the mother is far more concerned with what she can buy herself with that money rather than providing simple things, like shoes, for her son and whilst she remains long term unemployed all she's doing is showing her kids that they don't need to bother in life as someone else will pickup the bill for all those shiny electronics they'll want in life and so the circle continues