Lord Carey in epic homophobic Godwin outburst

Lord Carey in epic homophobic Godwin outburst

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TallbutBuxomly

12,254 posts

216 months

Wednesday 10th October 2012
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Blue Oval84 said:
elster said:
Why?

Gay marriage happened before the church existed.

You mean that growing up in a world full of oppressive religions has lead you to think that the only way is a man and a woman.
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Go back far enough and it wasn't really an issue as per recently.

Provided churches aren't forced to conduct same-sex marriages, then what's the problem? As has been said, if they dislike civil marriage then they should be protesting registry offices already surely? smile
Screw it bring on the thread ban...


Maybe you should all check your history a bit more thoroughly.

Same sex relationships have existed in history for brief periods here and there and in some were given same status as marriage but were not described as such. In certain very few societies it has been known for same sex relationships to happen but it is very much exception and was not marriage.

It is also worth noting that the church dont have overall say on marriage however they have had opposing sex union for longer than any other group has had same sex union.


Colonial

13,553 posts

205 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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TallbutBuxomly said:
Screw it bring on the thread ban...


Maybe you should all check your history a bit more thoroughly.

Same sex relationships have existed in history for brief periods here and there and in some were given same status as marriage but were not described as such. In certain very few societies it has been known for same sex relationships to happen but it is very much exception and was not marriage.

It is also worth noting that the church dont have overall say on marriage however they have had opposing sex union for longer than any other group has had same sex union.
How does it affect you in the slightest?

Oh no. Steve and Bill down the road are getting married. That must mean my marriage is devalued?

How the fk does that even being to make sense?

elster

17,517 posts

210 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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TallbutBuxomly said:
Blue Oval84 said:
elster said:
Why?

Gay marriage happened before the church existed.

You mean that growing up in a world full of oppressive religions has lead you to think that the only way is a man and a woman.
clap

Go back far enough and it wasn't really an issue as per recently.

Provided churches aren't forced to conduct same-sex marriages, then what's the problem? As has been said, if they dislike civil marriage then they should be protesting registry offices already surely? smile
Screw it bring on the thread ban...


Maybe you should all check your history a bit more thoroughly.

Same sex relationships have existed in history for brief periods here and there and in some were given same status as marriage but were not described as such. In certain very few societies it has been known for same sex relationships to happen but it is very much exception and was not marriage.

It is also worth noting that the church dont have overall say on marriage however they have had opposing sex union for longer than any other group has had same sex union.
Same Sex Unions happened since pretty much the beginning of civilisation.

Same sex marriage occurred during Roman times. Such as Nero. Maybe this is why the Christians aren't a fan...

hornet

6,333 posts

250 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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Ozzie Osmond said:
So far as I'm concerned if they "happen to be of the same gender" then they don't even make it to the starting line for marriage, the whole concept of which is for many of us one man and one woman.
Well you're entirely within your right not to marry someone of the same gender then. For those who want to, why on earth should that gender combination mean their relationship is governed by a different contract? We don't have gay driving licences, gay council tax or gay income tax, why should marriage be any different? It's a contract between two people and frankly who cares what the church thinks? Weird how they get all pissy and demand equality when a business disallows overt religious symbols in the workplace, yet invoke the self same "but that's our policy!" argument in this instance.

anonymous-user

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54 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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Some of the religious bigots do also object to gay marriages in registry offices. The Strasbourg Court is currently considering the case of a Registrar who was dismissed because she would not perform civil partnership ceremonies. There is also the case of a Relate counsellor who would not provide advice to gay couples.

Leaving aside those who are weak minded enough to take their opinions from Holy Books and the preachings of atavistic religious leaders, quite why anyone secular should give two hoots about the sexual preferences of any other consenting adult is beyond me.

TallbutBuxomly

12,254 posts

216 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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Disappointing comments from you breadvan. "bigots"

The sort of commentary from those who aren't prepared. To accept other peoples views and would rather try give them a negative view and simply put them down.

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

54 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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I stand by the remark. Bigotry involves irrational opinions. A person who objects to the sexuality of a consenting adult, or wishes gay people to have fewer rights than straight people, is adopting an irrational opinion.

Not all opinions need to be respected. We do not respect racist views. Why should we respect homophobic views?

TallbutBuxomly

12,254 posts

216 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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Sorry but calling someone a bigot is no different to calling someone a faggot in my opinion. Its a label used to put down those who hold different views or opinions.

Digga

40,324 posts

283 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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TallbutBuxomly said:
Disappointing comments from you breadvan. "bigots"

The sort of commentary from those who aren't prepared. To accept other peoples views and would rather try give them a negative view and simply put them down.
My experience of most religions is that they are unprepared to live and let live and are, to varying degrees, on a mission to convert non-beleivers or otherwise somehow negate them by derriding them. Clearly, factions of Islam currently take the biscuit but are by no means alone.

I'm afraid that of the many Christians I've met, there have been more than a few who seem to use their faith as a shield of smug entitlement and self-righteousness. True 'Christian' acts appear to be something to read, write and sing hynms about for most.

Most organised religion is designed around bigotry and division.

Bill

52,779 posts

255 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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TallbutBuxomly said:
Disappointing comments from you breadvan. "bigots"

The sort of commentary from those who aren't prepared. To accept other peoples views and would rather try give them a negative view and simply put them down.
Way to go, trying to claim a small hillock of moral high ground in the pit of your homophobia.

Carey's the same, claiming the third Reich started with name calling, when the end result was denying rights to groups of society because they were different.

PS you were banned from the other thread for repeatedly stating that aids was a good thing as it controlled the population of Africa. HTH.

AnotherClarkey

3,596 posts

189 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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TallbutBuxomly said:
Disappointing comments from you breadvan. "bigots"

The sort of commentary from those who aren't prepared. To accept other peoples views and would rather try give them a negative view and simply put them down.
I can accept your views but not any desire to impose them on people who do not believe as you do. It is this attitude of the church, seeking to impart its will on others, even when it is not being forced to change its opinion or carry out ceremonies against its will which makes, IMHO, the church more bigoted than those campaigning for gay marriage rights.

Colonial

13,553 posts

205 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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TallbutBuxomly said:
Disappointing comments from you breadvan. "bigots"

The sort of commentary from those who aren't prepared. To accept other peoples views and would rather try give them a negative view and simply put them down.
No. You are free to say that. I am free to call you stupid for saying that.

Free speech isn't one way.

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

54 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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That's how it works. There should be no right not to be offended. Some Magistrates need to learn this.

DJRC

23,563 posts

236 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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Digga said:
My experience of most religions is that they are unprepared to live and let live and are, to varying degrees, on a mission to convert non-beleivers or otherwise somehow negate them by derriding them.
Knock it, most of your religious exposure will have been to the CoE which is the least religious, least *hardcore* organisation known to mankind!! The WI is hardline compared to the CofE!

One presumes by convert non-believers you mean by the process of jam buying, scouts and girls meeting in the church hall, tombolo raffles once a month and the young mums coffee mornings.

The CofE is about as religious as me.

anonymous-user

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54 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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Mostly that is true, thanks be to FSM, but the Cof E does have a few hardline nutters.

Carey and Williams (the latter is at lest not a homophobe) have set a worrying trend of being Archbishop of Canterbury whilst also being a believing Christian, a thing unheard of since about the time of Cranmer. It is bad enough that the Popes started being Christians about 100 years ago, and now the Cantuars are following suit. The job of the Archbish is to be a posh bloke in a frock and not to make fuss, but this has been forgotten.

IainT

10,040 posts

238 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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TallbutBuxomly said:
Sorry but calling someone a bigot is no different to calling someone a faggot in my opinion. Its a label used to put down those who hold different views or opinions.
No, there's a vast difference between the two that most intelligent people would not conflate unless they're trying desperately to justify their own wrong-headed views.

Calling someone a bigot is to point out the bigoted views and discriminatory actions.

Calling someone a faggot is to use a term to denigrate their sexuality; it is a term designed to cause hurt and attach stigma.

IainT

10,040 posts

238 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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Breadvan72 said:
The job of the Archbish is to be a posh bloke in a frock and not to make fuss, but this has been forgotten.
As long as they keep making fools of themselves and flying in the face of general decency I'm in favour - the sooner they lose special privilege the better.

TallbutBuxomly

12,254 posts

216 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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Bill said:
TallbutBuxomly said:
Disappointing comments from you breadvan. "bigots"

The sort of commentary from those who aren't prepared. To accept other peoples views and would rather try give them a negative view and simply put them down.
Way to go, trying to claim a small hillock of moral high ground in the pit of your homophobia.

Carey's the same, claiming the third Reich started with name calling, when the end result was denying rights to groups of society because they were different.

PS you were banned from the other thread for repeatedly stating that aids was a good thing as it controlled the population of Africa. HTH.
Firstly calling me homophobic shows just how little minded you are and how you know nothing about me butters it acceptable to label me.

Secondly on the other thread I did not "Repeatedly" state that aids was a good thing. I in fact stated that in certain respects it was as the global population is out of control and only once and refused to change my comments just because others were unwilling to accept or consider my statement with any form of reason.

Much like when I tried to discuss Anders Breivik. Just because I didn't join everyone else in claiming him a raving loony monster and instead tried to have an adult discussion about his actions what led to them etc so that we could hopefully learn from them I was accused of being exactly the same as and a supporter of his actions.

Yet again its a case of people being unable to engage in reasonable mature discussion and simply name calling and reading more into comments than they should so they can "react" rather than discuss.

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

54 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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OK, give us some reasoned basis for your apparent disapproval of same sex relationships. Saying, "the Bible says so", or "it makes me feel icky" don't count.

Digga

40,324 posts

283 months

Thursday 11th October 2012
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DJRC said:
Digga said:
My experience of most religions is that they are unprepared to live and let live and are, to varying degrees, on a mission to convert non-beleivers or otherwise somehow negate them by derriding them.
Knock it, most of your religious exposure will have been to the CoE which is the least religious, least *hardcore* organisation known to mankind!! The WI is hardline compared to the CofE!

One presumes by convert non-believers you mean by the process of jam buying, scouts and girls meeting in the church hall, tombolo raffles once a month and the young mums coffee mornings.

The CofE is about as religious as me.
Incorrect. I'm thinking of factions of Christianity as being some of the worst examples of pious, holier-than-thou, religions. Others, are at it too though.

I have also found certain of these religious nutters to be extremely nasty and distasteful individuals to do business with. They also make vile neighbours - refusing to have anything to do with other neighbours to the point of being rude. As an example, my parent's neighbours had some of these nutters move in and so, to break the ice and try to be neighbourly they took a tray of tea & biscuits around whilst they were moving in. The offer was flatly, rudely, totally rejected; "we don't eat with your sort". Nice. rolleyes

I find it odd that there is a one-sided presumption that I would (should?) spend my Sundays doing what they do, rather than vice versa.