Everyone is so offended.

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KTF

9,809 posts

151 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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This is also apparently offensive now:



Source: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-trending-37107541


FredClogs

14,041 posts

162 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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KTF said:
This is also apparently offensive now:



Source: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-trending-37107541
Case in point, one person equates the Ellen picture to some historically racist imagery, not actually saying she thought Ellen was racist but just pointing out that whilst she thought it was funny the parallel imagery that her mind conjured up stopped her from thinking the picture was as funny as her initial assessment, and quite frankly who's comedy hard on deosn't droop slightly at the image of a middle aged black women giving a piggy back to a young white man?

Anyway...

The reaction to the reaction seems far more unnecessary and much more designed to control thought and shut down debate than the original reaction, if you ask me. Why shouldn't people be allowed to share their cognitive dissonance? Are we really all that certain of our opinions?

(I'd like to add I don't do twitter and have no idea what has actually happened I'm merely going of the text of the article)

MrBarry123

6,028 posts

122 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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Those criticising the picture really frustrates me as all it shows is a desire from some people not to accept that the world is a different place compared with 50 years' ago.

Ellen clearly did not post the picture as a racist slur however some people refuse to believe this and instead are contributing to the feeling of division they so decry.

TheGuru

744 posts

102 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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MrBarry123 said:
Ellen clearly did not post the picture as a racist slur however some people refuse to believe this and instead are contributing to the feeling of division they so decry.
The people that decry that the photo is racist are in fact racist themselves, no two ways about it. There is no way that Ellen is at all racist and he 'colour blindness' even shows in the fact she posted this photo and thought nothing of it other than making a joke about his speed. The racists saw this photo and it was their chance to have a pop at a white person.

BigLion

1,497 posts

100 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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MrBarry123 said:
Those criticising the picture really frustrates me as all it shows is a desire from some people not to accept that the world is a different place compared with 50 years' ago.

Ellen clearly did not post the picture as a racist slur however some people refuse to believe this and instead are contributing to the feeling of division they so decry.
Yes as people are more covert racists now...

BigLion

1,497 posts

100 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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TheGuru said:
MrBarry123 said:
Ellen clearly did not post the picture as a racist slur however some people refuse to believe this and instead are contributing to the feeling of division they so decry.
The people that decry that the photo is racist are in fact racist themselves, no two ways about it. There is no way that Ellen is at all racist and he 'colour blindness' even shows in the fact she posted this photo and thought nothing of it other than making a joke about his speed. The racists saw this photo and it was their chance to have a pop at a white person .
...and yet you assume those that complained must be non-white rolleyes

Likes Fast Cars

2,772 posts

166 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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Jockman said:
Likes Fast Cars said:
Hey I'm 1/4 Scottish!
Go on....which quarter....?
Now why did I know you would ask me something like that? smile

The quarter that counts!

The quarter that sorts out these Turks!! biglaugh

voyds9

8,489 posts

284 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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BigLion said:
...and yet you assume those that complained must be non-white rolleyes
How do you come to that conclusion.
A lot of the professionally offending are whites offended on the behalf of others.

PorkRind

3,053 posts

206 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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gruffalo said:
Been seeing a building trend on PH for a while now where a thread is started, someone comes on saying they find some post offensive, a few retorts and then it all starts getting personal with direct insults and the mods close the thread down.

So why is this trend building, should people who find something offensive voice there offence or accept that it take all sorts to make this world and just let it be?

On the other side should posters no shoot from the hip and triple check every posting they are going to make in case they may cause offense.

Of course this is not just a PH phenomena but seems to be something that is building in society in general with people now able to be prosecuted for causing offense where does it end, is the western world becoming overly sensitive or are we all pushing the boundaries of what is acceptable.

For me I am one of the live and let live type of people, someone may say something that offends but just let it go, life is too short and you know what I may be wrong to feel offended.

What do other think because I find some people really hard to work out these days.



I remember the Internet I'm the early days, full of nerds and poindexters like myself. Full of trolling,
Offensive memes, spurious links and other such tomfoolery.. I think ever since its become a commerce, things have to be tidied up for the sake of the rest of society who aren't used to such behaviour, so do understand why it's happening. Large corporations or forums representing business can't be seen to support such behaviour so shut offensive behavior down. I don't think it's getting worse I just think the userbase is changing and therefore stricter rules are out in place. Conversely I do miss the days of trolling Take that forums / mumsmet just to watch the fallout. There are pockets of Internet where you can still get away with it. Voat, reddit to a degree. Darknet etc.

Kendrik

288 posts

161 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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This guy sums it up wellbiggrin

https://youtu.be/ceS_jkKjIgo


TheGuru

744 posts

102 months

Wednesday 17th August 2016
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BigLion said:
...and yet you assume those that complained must be non-white rolleyes
It's you who are making the assumptions, many white regressive liberals are more than happy to have a go at their own

TheGuru

744 posts

102 months

Thursday 18th August 2016
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PorkRind said:
I think ever since its become a commerce, things have to be tidied up for the sake of the rest of society who aren't used to such behaviour, so do understand why it's happening. Large corporations or forums representing business can't be seen to support such behaviour so shut offensive behavior down.
I disagree, I think the problem is not corporations, it's regressive liberals and social justice warriors. Retards have access to the internet now and through the power of social media the bandwagons they can jump on, or the soapboxes they have access to are now huge. People like the Kardashians, Chrissy Teigen etc, who whilst are entitled to an opinion like the rest of us, now wield huge influence amongst the masses. And they are not even the evil ones, you have the very vocal minority groups like feminists and activists that create a meme that can go global.

anonymous-user

55 months

Thursday 18th August 2016
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TheGuru said:
PorkRind said:
I think ever since its become a commerce, things have to be tidied up for the sake of the rest of society who aren't used to such behaviour, so do understand why it's happening. Large corporations or forums representing business can't be seen to support such behaviour so shut offensive behavior down.
I disagree, I think the problem is not corporations, it's regressive liberals and social justice warriors. Retards have access to the internet now and through the power of social media the bandwagons they can jump on, or the soapboxes they have access to are now huge. People like the Kardashians, Chrissy Teigen etc, who whilst are entitled to an opinion like the rest of us, now wield huge influence amongst the masses. And they are not even the evil ones, you have the very vocal minority groups like feminists and activists that create a meme that can go global.
On the other hand all that says to me is that an old guy is upset that people don't agree with him on the Internet.

Edit: It seems that say someone makes a horrible rape joke and people tell them it's horrible the immediate response is for them to scream SJW or similar. Rinse and repeat for pretty much anything.

Who's really shutting debate down? Those people who say their opinion (that's offensive) or the person who immediately tries to smear the other side?

Edited by anonymous-user on Thursday 18th August 07:58

glazbagun

14,282 posts

198 months

Thursday 18th August 2016
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Good 'ol PH, where feminists are "the evil ones". laugh

I think a further problem with communicating online is that we increasingly seem happy to view others according to labels- neocon, sjw, 1%ers, White Night, self loathing liberal, etc, which we just don't do in personal contact.


Likes Fast Cars

2,772 posts

166 months

Thursday 18th August 2016
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glazbagun said:
Good 'ol PH, where feminists are "the evil ones". laugh

I think a further problem with communicating online is that we increasingly seem happy to view others according to labels- neocon, sjw, 1%ers, White Night, self loathing liberal, etc, which we just don't do in personal contact.
Agree. It is hard to convey context, etc., over the internet / in forums, etc. Can't beat good old fashioned face-to-face communications, a few beers, some good discussions, a few disagreements, a few laughs, and it generally ends up with everyone parting as friends albeit with different perspectives on some subjects.

Randy Winkman

16,182 posts

190 months

Thursday 18th August 2016
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cookie118 said:
TheGuru said:
PorkRind said:

Who's really shutting debate down? Those people who say their opinion (that's offensive) or the person who immediately tries to smear the other side?

Edited by cookie118 on Thursday 18th August 07:58
I agree. This and a couple of other threads on PH (including gender unicorn) seem to have people on them that are very keen to tell other people that they are offended and are trying to shut them down.

Randy Winkman

16,182 posts

190 months

Thursday 18th August 2016
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cookie118 said:
TheGuru said:
PorkRind said:
I think ever since its become a commerce, things have to be tidied up for the sake of the rest of society who aren't used to such behaviour, so do understand why it's happening. Large corporations or forums representing business can't be seen to support such behaviour so shut offensive behavior down.
I disagree, I think the problem is not corporations, it's regressive liberals and social justice warriors. Retards have access to the internet now and through the power of social media the bandwagons they can jump on, or the soapboxes they have access to are now huge. People like the Kardashians, Chrissy Teigen etc, who whilst are entitled to an opinion like the rest of us, now wield huge influence amongst the masses. And they are not even the evil ones, you have the very vocal minority groups like feminists and activists that create a meme that can go global.
On the other hand all that says to me is that an old guy is upset that people don't agree with him on the Internet.

Edit: It seems that say someone makes a horrible rape joke and people tell them it's horrible the immediate response is for them to scream SJW or similar. Rinse and repeat for pretty much anything.

Who's really shutting debate down? Those people who say their opinion (that's offensive) or the person who immediately tries to smear the other side?

Edited by cookie118 on Thursday 18th August 07:58
I agree. This and a couple of other threads on PH (including gender unicorn) seem to have people on them that are very keen to tell other people that they are offended and are trying to shut them down.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

256 months

Friday 19th August 2016
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Likes Fast Cars said:
Jockman said:
Likes Fast Cars said:
His blue shirt looks really st.
Obviously Scottish? Too much ginger?
Hey I'm 1/4 Scottish!
Just the pubes ginger, then...?

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

256 months

Friday 19th August 2016
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Jimbeaux said:
irocfan said:
what made Britain great? The ability to be bigger bds than the other lot who wanted to be great
There is much true and profound in that simple phrase.yes
Except he doesn't understand the significance of Great in the context of Great Britain.

Randy Winkman

16,182 posts

190 months

Friday 19th August 2016
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Some good "freedom of speech" here. A bloke that wants to interrupt and interview with a Muslim woman but then doesn't actually want to talk to her. He just wants to moan about free speech and political correctness.

http://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/muslim-woman...