Everyone is so offended.

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smn159

12,715 posts

218 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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R Mutt said:
It's common across all strata of the media.
You must read different media to me then, as the only place that I see it is in NP&E.

Of course the media is vast, and if anyone wants to find stuff to be continually angry about they can easily do so

Tuna

19,930 posts

285 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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R Mutt said:
...except every white male who has become something other than male (quite a few) has traded their 'privilege' for the sanctity of trans rights...
I think you have to be particularly fearful of people who are not like you to think that someone who has transitioned gets to be a superhero by putting on a cloak of trans rights.

The transsexuals I've worked with have been attacked (physically and verbally) and have had to work very hard to retain their jobs (luckily Cambridge is a fairly enlightened city, but transitioning is not a easy thing to do whilst maintaining a job). Their rights (to protection and support) are not something to bludgeon other people with, but an unfortunately necessary safety blanket. There's no 'privilege' to feeling vulnerable and uncertain about your future.

Bacon Is Proof

5,740 posts

232 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Tuna said:
(luckily Cambridge is a fairly enlightened city)
How come most of the trannies in Cambridge are six foot plus blokes? They tower over me in their heels.

R Mutt

5,893 posts

73 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Tuna said:
R Mutt said:
...except every white male who has become something other than male (quite a few) has traded their 'privilege' for the sanctity of trans rights...
I think you have to be particularly fearful of people who are not like you to think that someone who has transitioned gets to be a superhero by putting on a cloak of trans rights.

The transsexuals I've worked with have been attacked (physically and verbally) and have had to work very hard to retain their jobs (luckily Cambridge is a fairly enlightened city, but transitioning is not a easy thing to do whilst maintaining a job). Their rights (to protection and support) are not something to bludgeon other people with, but an unfortunately necessary safety blanket. There's no 'privilege' to feeling vulnerable and uncertain about your future.
I'm not fearful of such groups in the slightest, more those who put them on a pedestal. Those who would argue against the notion that someone might wish to transition to be placed in a female prison for example

Tuna

19,930 posts

285 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Bacon Is Proof said:
How come most of the trannies in Cambridge are six foot plus blokes? They tower over me in their heels.
There's a joke in there somewhere... best not make it wink

Bacon Is Proof

5,740 posts

232 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Tuna said:
Bacon Is Proof said:
How come most of the trannies in Cambridge are six foot plus blokes? They tower over me in their heels.
There's a joke in there somewhere... best not make it wink
I wouldn't be offended. smile

Johnnytheboy

24,498 posts

187 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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DaveTheRave87 said:
We're on Page 69.

How offensive.
I identify as on page 18.

How dare you mis-page me?

amusingduck

9,398 posts

137 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Johnnytheboy said:
DaveTheRave87 said:
We're on Page 69.

How offensive.
I identify as on page 18.

How dare you mis-page me?
There are only two types of people

People who are on standard page length

People who are aware you can increase the page length

We don't speak about the othersbiggrin

g3org3y

20,639 posts

192 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Mulan: Disney drop character following #MeToo movement

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-5170...

article said:
A Disney producer says the character Li Shang is missing from the live-action remake of Mulan, as his storyline is not "appropriate" in the #MeToo era.

The film tells of a woman who disguises herself as a man to fight in place of her father in China's imperial army.

In the 1998 animated original, based on the Chinese legend of Hua Mulan, General Li Shang developed a bond with Mulan's male warrior alter-ego Ping.

After her true identity was revealed, she and Li Shang have dinner together.

Given recent revelations in Hollywood, however, producer Jason Reed confirmed they were uncomfortable with the power dynamics in their relationship.

JagLover

42,453 posts

236 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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g3org3y said:
Mulan: Disney drop character following #MeToo movement

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-5170...

article said:
A Disney producer says the character Li Shang is missing from the live-action remake of Mulan, as his storyline is not "appropriate" in the #MeToo era.

The film tells of a woman who disguises herself as a man to fight in place of her father in China's imperial army.

In the 1998 animated original, based on the Chinese legend of Hua Mulan, General Li Shang developed a bond with Mulan's male warrior alter-ego Ping.

After her true identity was revealed, she and Li Shang have dinner together.

Given recent revelations in Hollywood, however, producer Jason Reed confirmed they were uncomfortable with the power dynamics in their relationship.
Film makers are going to have a hard job making accurate historical dramas if the male romantic interests cannot be older or of higher social standing than the female ones.smile


amusingduck

9,398 posts

137 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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bbc said:
In the 1998 animated original, based on the Chinese legend of Hua Mulan, General Li Shang developed a bond with Mulan's male warrior alter-ego Ping.
You can't adopt or embrace a different culture, because that's cultural appropriation, but you can rewrite it? Hard to follow how these rules work biggrin

anonymous-user

55 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Today, Sefton Council flew a flag celebrating the forthcoming International Women's Day. This was alleged to be transphobia. Yep, you heard that right. The Council caved in and took the flag down.

Two points here: the so called moderate trans position appears a bit quiet. The extremist position is, however, well evident, and the extremist position insists on dominating discourse, de-platforming dissenters, and branding all who oppose it as hate criminals. Secondly, this incident demonstrates the extent to which government bodies have been cowed by the shouting. One complaint from a man is all it takes for the public servants to give in.

Other news: a rape crisis centre has declared its toilets gender neutral. Righty ho.

The war on women goes on, but everyone must "be kind", and must on no account upset the delicate feelings of the self ID campaigners.

Meanwhile, some reasoned voices, in an open letter about Scottish Poetry's decision to take a stand against no platforming. The last paragraph summarises the position very well.





Edited by anonymous-user on Monday 2nd March 19:46

Tuna

19,930 posts

285 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Breadvan72 said:
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Two points here: the so called moderate trans position appears a bit quiet.
Isn't that the whole point about this thread? Moderates, who can understand both sides of the argument and see an outcome that isn't just black or white don't contribute (or are drowned out).

There's no mileage on social media for 'meh', or 'yes, but..' - the algorithms that drive Twitter, Facebook and all the rest thrive on reaction. And how do you get a reaction? By being extreme. I can guarantee you are never going to see a Tweet from me - not because I don't use Twitter, but because I don't shout and scream and cultivate reaction. It's either got to be outrage, or super positivity.

If you see a post on Twitter, shrug your shoulders and think "that's a bit ridiculous" you are not heard. If you rant and shout and call the other side rude words, you get promoted, shared and liked.

So the overriding impression to anyone dipping into such discussions is that there are 'sides' who violently disagree with each other, who are offended by the others' viewpoint. And almost inevitably, you'll pick the side that most appeals to your sensibilities - not because the extreme is something you agree with, but because one extreme or the other has people you more identify with. Maybe it's on political grounds, or maybe you have an affinity for academia, or geek culture, or some other random association.

You get sucked into the extremist debate because that's all you get presented with. People trying to validate or invalidate extreme points of view with their own, noisy extreme points of view.

Or maybe you're just a sucker for a simplified narrative that paints things in terms of black and white, goodies and baddies.

And seriously, on the trans front, "Person gets sexual reassignment surgery and lives an unremarkable life as a normal human being" never gets reported, despite the fact that this is by a long, long way the majority case. It's not news, and it's certainly not news on social media.

Edited by Tuna on Monday 2nd March 20:24

8.4L 154

5,530 posts

254 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Breadvan72 said:
Today, Sefton Council flew a flag celebrating the forthcoming International Women's Day. This was alleged to be transphobia. Yep, you heard that right. The Council caved in and took the flag down.

Two points here: the so called moderate trans position appears a bit quiet. The extremist position is, however, well evident, and the extremist position insists on dominating discourse, de-platforming dissenters, and branding all who oppose it as hate criminals. Secondly, this incident demonstrates the extent to which government bodies have been cowed by the shouting. One complaint from a man is all it takes for the public servants to give in.

Other news: a rape crisis centre has declared its toilets gender neutral. Righty ho.

The war on women goes on, but everyone must "be kind", and must on no account upset the delicate feelings of the self ID campaigners.

Meanwhile, some reasoned voices, in an open letter about Scottish Poetry's decision to take a stand against no platforming. The last paragraph summarises the position very well.


Edited by Breadvan72 on Monday 2nd March 19:46
Some context for Sefton Council flag flying.

This is the note they put up about why they were flying the flag.




Great they are celebrating international women's day, excepth they never bothered to look to see what the IWD flag looks like. Here it is.



However it seems likely anti trans voices on the council misled them into flying this flag instead.



Seems ok, nothing wrong with that its just the dictionary definition of Woman. EXCEPT its a dog whistle, an innocent sounding phrase with a hidden meaning designed to only be seen/heard by those it targets. Its also a context is everything problem. A banana isn't racist and is just a banana 99.99% of the time, except when its thrown onto the football pitch in front of a black player.

The context behind the flag. The black and white Adult Human Female campaign is the brain child and mini business of Kellie-Jay Keen-Minshull AKA Posie Parker and if there is one demographic she hates more than Muslims its trans people. I could now attach a selection of her tweets but fear they are all too extreme and will result in a ban for me. Suffice to say they include wishing death of trans women, Stating trans men should be sterilised, that gay people suffered head trauma as children. She travelled to the USA on behest of the Heritage Foundation (there is that far right money) to harass a trans women in her place of business, a thoroughly nice person all round, so no, its not just an innocent flag carrying the dictionary definition of women in that context and neither was it a flag celebrating IWD, it was something far more sinister to trans people. Trans people would love to have seen the actual IWD flag flying for a week.

Edited by 8.4L 154 on Monday 2nd March 21:56

8.4L 154

5,530 posts

254 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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Breadvan72 said:
Meanwhile, some reasoned voices, in an open letter about Scottish Poetry's decision to take a stand against no platforming. The last paragraph summarises the position very well.





Edited by Breadvan72 on Monday 2nd March 19:46
Oh and here is the letter from the other side.

letter said:
We are writing to you as trans and non-binary authors, working in or with connections to Scotland, and supported by people from diverse backgrounds and identities, to express our deep concerns regarding the Scottish Poetry Library’s recent public statement on so-called ‘no-platforming’,

We are worried that current communications may reflect serious institutional transphobia, and a failure to understand the library’s obligations regarding trans people’s legal protections from discrimination.

We have all heard extensive distress from our trans friends, both readers and writers, as a result of your recent communications.

Despite the library’s previous work supporting LGBT+ writers and events, many trans people do not now think the Scottish Poetry Library is a welcoming and supportive space.

We also write in solidarity with writers combatting racism, misogyny, ableism and other structural oppressions, so that oppressive action can be freely spoken about.

We are asking for clarification on your code of conduct, your grievance processes, and the work you do to support and respect trans writers. We hope you will take seriously the need to rebuild trust.
Extreme stuff!

popeyewhite

19,962 posts

121 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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8.4L 154 said:
EXCEPT its a dog whistle,
What is?

Boydie88

3,283 posts

150 months

Monday 2nd March 2020
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popeyewhite said:
8.4L 154 said:
EXCEPT its a dog whistle,
What is?
The dictionary, supposedly. rolleyes

8.4L 154

5,530 posts

254 months

Tuesday 3rd March 2020
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Breadvan72 said:
Other news: a rape crisis centre has declared its toilets gender neutral. Righty ho.


In other news. The rape crisis center with the gender neutral loos. Presumably had one accessable, one ladies and one gents. Now has one accessable and two open to anyone who needs it. All individual self contained loos.

chrispmartha

15,501 posts

130 months

Tuesday 3rd March 2020
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8.4L 154 said:
Breadvan72 said:
Other news: a rape crisis centre has declared its toilets gender neutral. Righty ho.


In other news. The rape crisis center with the gender neutral loos. Presumably had one accessable, one ladies and one gents. Now has one accessable and two open to anyone who needs it. All individual self contained loos.
What’s the issue here? If they are individual toilets then surely there's no problem.



Tuna

19,930 posts

285 months

Tuesday 3rd March 2020
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chrispmartha said:
What’s the issue here? If they are individual toilets then surely there's no problem.
Breadban has been getting his headlines from some rather reactionary people - and the wrong end of the stick in the process.