Boots morning after pill outrage

Boots morning after pill outrage

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sugerbear

4,057 posts

159 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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xjay1337 said:
Lord Marylebone said:
So you are happy with high street stores declaring themselves the moral arbiters of society, and deciding what women should or shouldn't be doing?

In my opinion it's the same as putting the cost of a 'quit smoking kit' at £300 and telling people it's because they think you shouldn't be smoking in the first place.

That isn't, and shouldn't be, what Boots is there for. They are there to sell products to customers provided those customers meet the medical requirements of the product, and that should be the extent of Boots involvement.

People have sex. Many women aren't on permanent contraception for various reasons, some medical, and people understandably end up having unplanned sex. I would suggest those that then seek medical help to obtain contraception the next day ARE being responsible and should not be punished for it.
Why should it be free, though? Its not an emergency medical situation.

Tampax etc aren't free. There is NO EXCUSE for unprotected sex.
Devout catholic?

anonymous-user

55 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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xjay1337 said:
Lord Marylebone said:
So you are happy with high street stores declaring themselves the moral arbiters of society, and deciding what women should or shouldn't be doing?

In my opinion it's the same as putting the cost of a 'quit smoking kit' at £300 and telling people it's because they think you shouldn't be smoking in the first place.

That isn't, and shouldn't be, what Boots is there for. They are there to sell products to customers provided those customers meet the medical requirements of the product, and that should be the extent of Boots involvement.

People have sex. Many women aren't on permanent contraception for various reasons, some medical, and people understandably end up having unplanned sex. I would suggest those that then seek medical help to obtain contraception the next day ARE being responsible and should not be punished for it.
Why should it be free, though? Its not an emergency medical situation.

Tampax etc aren't free. There is NO EXCUSE for unprotected sex.
It shouldn't be free.

I did not suggest it should be free, or even cheap. The vendor can charge what they like for it, but the price shouldn't be motivated by their own morals.

They are a pharmacy, and they should be impartial to such things.

As for unprotected sex, I don't know about you, but I don't walk round with a packet of condoms in my pocket, and I don't know any ladies that do, yet on numerous occasions in my life I have found myself in a situation where the unexpected opportunity for sex has arisen and I have willingly taken it. I wouldn't have thought that was particularly unusual.

randlemarcus

13,528 posts

232 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Lord Marylebone said:
As for unprotected sex, I don't know about you, but I don't walk round with a packet of condoms in my pocket, and I don't know any ladies that do, yet on numerous occasions in my life I have found myself in a situation where the unexpected opportunity for sex has arisen and I have willingly taken it. I wouldn't have thought that was particularly unusual.
Might not be unusual, but it is foolhardy, verging on idiotic.

rscott

14,773 posts

192 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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xjay1337 said:
Lord Marylebone said:
So you are happy with high street stores declaring themselves the moral arbiters of society, and deciding what women should or shouldn't be doing?

In my opinion it's the same as putting the cost of a 'quit smoking kit' at £300 and telling people it's because they think you shouldn't be smoking in the first place.

That isn't, and shouldn't be, what Boots is there for. They are there to sell products to customers provided those customers meet the medical requirements of the product, and that should be the extent of Boots involvement.

People have sex. Many women aren't on permanent contraception for various reasons, some medical, and people understandably end up having unplanned sex. I would suggest those that then seek medical help to obtain contraception the next day ARE being responsible and should not be punished for it.
Why should it be free, though? Its not an emergency medical situation.

Tampax etc aren't free. There is NO EXCUSE for unprotected sex.
Condoms aren't perfect - they fail. Are you suggesting they shouldn't have access to the MAP in that situation?

babatunde

736 posts

191 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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xjay1337 said:
Lord Marylebone said:
So you are happy with high street stores declaring themselves the moral arbiters of society, and deciding what women should or shouldn't be doing?

In my opinion it's the same as putting the cost of a 'quit smoking kit' at £300 and telling people it's because they think you shouldn't be smoking in the first place.

That isn't, and shouldn't be, what Boots is there for. They are there to sell products to customers provided those customers meet the medical requirements of the product, and that should be the extent of Boots involvement.

People have sex. Many women aren't on permanent contraception for various reasons, some medical, and people understandably end up having unplanned sex. I would suggest those that then seek medical help to obtain contraception the next day ARE being responsible and should not be punished for it.
Why should it be free, though? Its not an emergency medical situation.

Tampax etc aren't free. There is NO EXCUSE for unprotected sex.
If you had actually ever had sex you would know that condoms sometimes tear or come off and believe it or not all sex is planned.

The thing with the Moral Arbitrators of course is that they are the same wkers who moan about single moms and the cost of supporting their children.


Edited by babatunde on Monday 24th July 23:37

voyds9

8,489 posts

284 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Lord Marylebone said:
I did not suggest it should be free, or even cheap. The vendor can charge what they like for it, but the price shouldn't be motivated by their own morals.

They are a pharmacy, and they should be impartial to such things.

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Why?

What about the Coop ethical banking

What about Chic-fil-A closing on Sunday for religious reasons

Marriott hotels don't have porn on TV as they were founded by a Mormon

And what about Muslim butchers not serving pork

Again someone elses ethical/religious views being imposed on the rest of us.



xjay1337

15,966 posts

119 months

Tuesday 25th July 2017
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babatunde said:
If you had actually ever had sex you would know that condoms sometimes tear or come off and believe it or not all sex is planned.

Edited by babatunde on Monday 24th July 23:37
Ahhh, you're grown up. It is the school holidays after all.

For 6 months before my partner went on the pill and never once did a condom tear or come off.
It happened once (before with an ex), but that was user error (smashed her with a floppy).

I'm not saying it can't happen, I'm just saying if you're not an idiot then you won't have a problem MOST of the time.

While sex is not often "planned" as in "We'll go shopping at 7:30, have dinner at 8:30, have sex at 10:15...." I can't remember the last time I shagged someone in a bush whilst walking to the shops. Most of the time you go back to someone's house and take their pants off. Stop imagining stupid scenarios to fit your own argument.

Lord Marylebone said:
It shouldn't be free.

I did not suggest it should be free, or even cheap. The vendor can charge what they like for it, but the price shouldn't be motivated by their own morals.

They are a pharmacy, and they should be impartial to such things.

As for unprotected sex, I don't know about you, but I don't walk round with a packet of condoms in my pocket, and I don't know any ladies that do, yet on numerous occasions in my life I have found myself in a situation where the unexpected opportunity for sex has arisen and I have willingly taken it. I wouldn't have thought that was particularly unusual.
I am not a player, but unless I'm in a serious relationship I always kept a condom in my wallet "just in case" (happy to admit I never got a chance to use it). As per my point above it's not often you randomly bump into a stranger and fall into a bush to bang.

What I'm saying is don't have unprotected sex and then complain you have to pay £20 to access a morning after pill. If a company wants to make money out of someone's stupid decisions then I'm all for it. It's cheaper than a baby, anyway!

If you can't afford £20 for a morning after pill, then a normal contraceptive pill is £8.50 or so for 3/6 months, Condoms are £10 for a packet of 30, plus come in funny colours and textures, contraceptive implants often have minimal side effects and are free on the NHS. Another thing that is free is keeping your bloody legs closed.

I haven't looked but I imagine the MAP would be available in NHS Pharmacy on prescription for the same £8.50 ... so what is the problem?

edited - tidied up some typos.

Edited by xjay1337 on Tuesday 25th July 12:04

KAgantua

3,886 posts

132 months

Tuesday 25th July 2017
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voyds9 said:
Lord Marylebone said:
I did not suggest it should be free, or even cheap. The vendor can charge what they like for it, but the price shouldn't be motivated by their own morals.

They are a pharmacy, and they should be impartial to such things.

.
Why?

What about the Coop ethical banking

What about Chic-fil-A closing on Sunday for religious reasons

Marriott hotels don't have porn on TV as they were founded by a Mormon

And what about Muslim butchers not serving pork

Again someone elses ethical/religious views being imposed on the rest of us.
So thats why I cant watch porn in a Marriott!! im writing a strongly worded letter to my MP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mr2Mike

20,143 posts

256 months

Tuesday 25th July 2017
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cookie118 said:
Go on then what is acting appropriately?
Having the responsibility to use contraception, I thought that was pretty obvious?

esxste

3,688 posts

107 months

Tuesday 25th July 2017
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Nothing like a bunch of blokes all putting their 2p worth in about an issue that they will never face in life.


anonymous-user

55 months

Tuesday 25th July 2017
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Mr2Mike said:
cookie118 said:
Go on then what is acting appropriately?
Having the responsibility to use contraception, I thought that was pretty obvious?
Not really

You say that the number of abortions means that women aren't acting appropriately.

They could all be because:
Men don't know how to use condoms and they break/come off
They were raped or 'ghosted'
The condom didn't work
Their hormonal contraception didn't work.

How is that related to acting 'appropriately'.

ATG

20,616 posts

273 months

Tuesday 25th July 2017
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esxste said:
Nothing like a bunch of blokes all putting their 2p worth in about an issue that they will never face in life.
Are you saying we're all virgins? It's a good insult. Exceedingly juvenile. Perhaps its finest example is in The Young Ones when Viv is taunting Rick.

If you were seriously suggesting the availability of the MAP is only a problem for women, then you surely recognise that men aren't exactly a disinterested party in a pregnancy?

esxste

3,688 posts

107 months

Tuesday 25th July 2017
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ATG said:
Are you saying we're all virgins? It's a good insult. Exceedingly juvenile. Perhaps its finest example is in The Young Ones when Viv is taunting Rick.

If you were seriously suggesting the availability of the MAP is only a problem for women, then you surely recognise that men aren't exactly a disinterested party in a pregnancy?
No. I'm saying that men will never need to take the Morning After Pill.

The closest any man will come to experiencing anything like it is if they ever need to take PEP after some risky sex.

ATG

20,616 posts

273 months

Tuesday 25th July 2017
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esxste said:
ATG said:
Are you saying we're all virgins? It's a good insult. Exceedingly juvenile. Perhaps its finest example is in The Young Ones when Viv is taunting Rick.

If you were seriously suggesting the availability of the MAP is only a problem for women, then you surely recognise that men aren't exactly a disinterested party in a pregnancy?
No. I'm saying that men will never need to take the Morning After Pill.

The closest any man will come to experiencing anything like it is if they ever need to take PEP after some risky sex.
Taking it isn't the issue. It's being able to buy it.

Mr2Mike

20,143 posts

256 months

Tuesday 25th July 2017
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cookie118 said:
Not really

You say that the number of abortions means that women aren't acting appropriately.

They could all be because:
Men don't know how to use condoms and they break/come off
They were raped or 'ghosted'
The condom didn't work
Their hormonal contraception didn't work.

How is that related to acting 'appropriately'.
Yes it could be. Are you suggesting the majority of those 180,000 were either raped or did take precautions but they failed? Somewhat unlikely, no?