Iceland to ban circumcision

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Oakey

27,606 posts

217 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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wc98 said:
it was a medical requirement at the time ,so there was no option. the saving grace was having it done at a young age. a mate that had it done in his twenties was in agony for a couple of weeks afterwards.
That's a bit of a selfish viewpoint though "I'd rather inflict that pain on a child than have to endure it as a man!" hehe

gooner1

10,223 posts

180 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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TwigtheWonderkid said:
Your last part is correct. The foreskin was really useful when we were 4 legged, to protect from damage from stuff on the ground, shrubs or whatever. But walking upright, it's largely redundant from it's purpose. But evolution would only get shot of if it was a hindrance. Those with the biggest ones would survive for less time and have less kids, the smaller the foreskin, the more kids, those genes would continue so ever many hundreds of generations, no foreskin. The foreskin doesn't hamper reproduction so evolution doesn't select it out.

Evolution in humans is skewed anyway due to medicine. People survive to reproduce when in the wild they wouldn't have done.
That theory is as bizarre as the practice you defend.
Does hair hamper reproduction?


jonby

5,357 posts

158 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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Moonhawk said:
poo at Paul's said:
there were reckoned to be 24000 cases of FGM in the UK alone each year,
Need to understand what that means though. I doubt in means 24,000 female babies are subjected to FGM every year. That would be a huge percentage of births.

In 2016 there were around 384,000 female births of all ethnicities - so the above figure each year would represent about 7% of all females born - and would be approaching 100% if you only consider children born of ethnicities where FGM is most prevalent.

Edited by Moonhawk on Monday 26th February 17:48
You have to love a good statistic

According to NHS official stats, there were 9,179 attendances reported at NHS trusts & GP practices where FGM was identified or a procedure for FGM was udnertaken, in the 12 months to March 2017

Of these, 5,391 were newly recorded cases

Of the newly recorded cases, just 112 involved women or girls born in the UK

Of those, 57 involved the FGM being undertaken in the UK

Of those, 50 were classified as genital piercings (type 4 FGM)

Source:
https://digital.nhs.uk/article/6941/Annual-statist...

amusingduck

9,398 posts

137 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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Oakey said:
wc98 said:
it was a medical requirement at the time ,so there was no option. the saving grace was having it done at a young age. a mate that had it done in his twenties was in agony for a couple of weeks afterwards.
That's a bit of a selfish viewpoint though "I'd rather inflict that pain on a child than have to endure it as a man!" hehe
The argument seems to be "if you don't remember it, whats the problem?". Not a very good argument though, is it. Do we apply that principle elsewhere? All that springs to mind is date rape, and if you applied the same logic there, you'd be (rightly) thought of as an utter tt

jonby

5,357 posts

158 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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bmwmike said:
Gary C said:
But you also say a foreskin has no use ?

Only someone who has had theirs chopped of could ever say that.

It does FFS
Of course it does. Someone without a foreskin cannot possibly know what they are missing.
Indeed

And equally, it is close to impossible for an uncircumcised male to be completely objective on the subject of male circumcision


wc98

10,433 posts

141 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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Oakey said:
That's a bit of a selfish viewpoint though "I'd rather inflict that pain on a child than have to endure it as a man!" hehe
lol, not quite ! as i said before i can't remember the actual pain even though i got an infection after the op that required a longer stay in hospital and a district nurse visiting the house regularly to clean it with tcp afterward. he had it happen once he was sexually active and had to forego sex for a number of weeks and he reckoned sex was painful for a while once he got the ok from the doc.

he also woke up in agony a few times with morning glory, really not desirable soon after an op on your dick . i strongly suspect once the laws change to only allow voluntary circumcision once people hit 18 the numbers of ops will plummet .

Moonhawk

10,730 posts

220 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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jonby said:
Indeed

And equally, it is close to impossible for an uncircumcised male to be completely objective on the subject of male circumcision
Perhaps - but I prefer to take the position that if i’m born with it, it’s likely that it’s supposed to be there. IMO that’s a pretty reasonable position to take.

bmwmike

6,989 posts

109 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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jonby said:
bmwmike said:
Gary C said:
But you also say a foreskin has no use ?

Only someone who has had theirs chopped of could ever say that.

It does FFS
Of course it does. Someone without a foreskin cannot possibly know what they are missing.
Indeed

And equally, it is close to impossible for an uncircumcised male to be completely objective on the subject of male circumcision
Rubbish. Of course an uncircumcised man can appreciate what it's like to not have a foreskin. Just pull the 'skin back and immediately you know. Rubs on every thing, feels uncomfortable frankly but as I understand circumcised bits get desensitised over time anyway so from that perspective I guess the experience is similar but more noticeable.

On the flip side a man cut at birth cannot possibly know what a foreskin feels like.

jonby

5,357 posts

158 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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bmwmike said:
jonby said:
bmwmike said:
Gary C said:
But you also say a foreskin has no use ?

Only someone who has had theirs chopped of could ever say that.

It does FFS
Of course it does. Someone without a foreskin cannot possibly know what they are missing.
Indeed

And equally, it is close to impossible for an uncircumcised male to be completely objective on the subject of male circumcision
Rubbish. Did you read what you wrote? Of course an uncircumcised man can appreciate what it's like to be circumcised. Just pull the 'skin back and immediately you know. Rubs on every thing, feels uncomfortable frankly but as I understand circumcised bits get desensitised over time anyway so from that perspective I guess the experience is similar but more noticeable.

On the flip side a man cut at birth cannot possibly know what a foreskin feels like.
I said impossible to be objective, not to know what having no foreskin feels like. Not the same thing. At all.

RTB

8,273 posts

259 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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wc98 said:
i strongly suspect once the laws change to only allow voluntary circumcision once people hit 18 the numbers of ops will plummet .
Which is what those with a religious or cultural axe to grind are really worried about. They realise that no right thinking adult is going to let a stranger loose on his old fella with a scalpel for no good reason. Inflicting it on children is the only way the practice can be maintained and so they will argue until they are blue in the face that it does no harm, whilst they know in their heart that if they had been left intact until adulthood, there's no way they would volunteer for such a procedure, yet would happily subject their on sons to it.

It's a morally bankrupt practice, those in favour of it know that and are using every means of self-justification (and self deception) they can summon to keep the practice alive.



bmwmike

6,989 posts

109 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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jonby said:
I said impossible to be objective, not to know what having no foreskin feels like. Not the same thing. At all.
OK fair enough. Guess I should have read your post eh. Still disagree, I think it's quite possible to be objective. I see no valid argument for inflicting a medieval practice on an unconsenting human being in the 21st century.


jonby

5,357 posts

158 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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RTB said:
wc98 said:
i strongly suspect once the laws change to only allow voluntary circumcision once people hit 18 the numbers of ops will plummet .
Which is what those with a religious or cultural axe to grind are really worried about. They realise that no right thinking adult is going to let a stranger loose on his old fella with a scalpel for no good reason. Inflicting it on children is the only way the practice can be maintained and so they will argue until they are blue in the face that it does no harm, whilst they know in their heart that if they had been left intact until adulthood, there's no way they would volunteer for such a procedure, yet would happily subject their on sons to it.

It's a morally bankrupt practice, those in favour of it know that and are using every means of self-justification (and self deception) they can summon to keep the practice alive.
How big a problem is this issue ? What percentage of jews/muslims circumcised as a baby for religious reasons, have medical and/or other complications at the time or later in life ? What percentage wish their parents hadn't subjected them to circumcision. Presumably they are the two fears ?

I mean amongst all jews/muslims, including those who have 'left' the religion of their birth or who identify as jewish/muslim from a heritage/community viewpoint but don't practice, not just those who choose to practice the religion in an observant manner whom one might consider, to one degree or another, to be brainwashed.

Obviously not the exact figures, just approximate ones. Or perhaps some meaningful anecdotal evidence ?

RTB

8,273 posts

259 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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jonby said:
How big a problem is this issue ?
It depends on whether you can measure the ethical implications of a practice by the number of complaints. The central question is should it be acceptable to inflict an unneeded surgical procedure on someone without their consent. Whether it does harm or not is really a side issue.

I guess we will all take a position and at some point there may be a tipping point where such things are looked on as backward or unacceptable (I think we're heading that way with circumcision of children).

When I was a kid pretty much every parent (and quite a few teachers) would think nothing of hitting the kids in their charge, now we're talking about making smacking illegal (and a teacher who struck a child would never work again), not because of complaints or "harm done" but because the zeitgeist has moved on and the groundswell of opinion is that it is no longer an acceptable practice, in spite of the fact that many of us who suffered the odd thrashing would pragmatically maintain that "it did us no harm."



Dromedary66

1,924 posts

139 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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RTB said:
Which is what those with a religious or cultural axe to grind are really worried about. They realise that no right thinking adult is going to let a stranger loose on his old fella with a scalpel for no good reason. Inflicting it on children is the only way the practice can be maintained and so they will argue until they are blue in the face that it does no harm, whilst they know in their heart that if they had been left intact until adulthood, there's no way they would volunteer for such a procedure, yet would happily subject their on sons to it.

It's a morally bankrupt practice, those in favour of it know that and are using every means of self-justification (and self deception) they can summon to keep the practice alive.
100% spot on.

Moonhawk

10,730 posts

220 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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jonby said:
How big a problem is this issue ?
How big a problem would not doing it be?

Are religions going to come crashing down just because they can no longer chop a piece of skin off a baby?

Edited by Moonhawk on Tuesday 27th February 11:56

dai1983

2,922 posts

150 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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Dromedary66 said:
Sorry it was done to you, and yes that was one reason it was popularised in America was to stop the "sinful" act of masturbation. At least you got an upside!
My friend had his done when he was young due to medical reasons. He drunkenly confessed to never ever being able to come from masturbation alone. fk that! Even when I’m getting as much sex as your average PH stud muffin I still enjoy ripping the head off it.

Personally I’ve always had a large foreskin (my mates all take the piss saying I have a 12 inch foreskin trapped on a 7 inch cock). It was quite tight and made using condoms difficult as it kept pulling back over the glands when I was erect. I went through a spell where I kept snapping my banjo so looked into my options. The negatives of circumcision were too great to even consider so I had a frenuplasty instead and was back in work the following day.

amusingduck

9,398 posts

137 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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dai1983 said:
My friend had his done when he was young due to medical reasons. He drunkenly confessed to never ever being able to come from masturbation alone. fk that! Even when I’m getting as much sex as your average PH stud muffin I still enjoy ripping the head off it.

Personally I’ve always had a large foreskin (my mates all take the piss saying I have a 12 inch foreskin trapped on a 7 inch cock). It was quite tight and made using condoms difficult as it kept pulling back over the glands when I was erect. I went through a spell where I kept snapping my banjo so looked into my options. The negatives of circumcision were too great to even consider so I had a frenuplasty instead and was back in work the following day.
laugh

How do your mates know you're sporting a windsock?

dai1983

2,922 posts

150 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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amusingduck said:
laugh

How do your mates know you're sporting a windsock?
I’ve known them 20+ years and played sports, been on holidays so shared rooms etc.

Plus they demanded to see when I asked “how’d you stop your foreskin going back over when using condoms?”.

TwigtheWonderkid

43,577 posts

151 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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Dromedary66 said:
TwigtheWonderkid said:
Your last part is correct. The foreskin was really useful when we were 4 legged, to protect from damage from stuff on the ground, shrubs or whatever. But walking upright, it's largely redundant from it's purpose. But evolution would only get shot of if it was a hindrance. Those with the biggest ones would survive for less time and have less kids, the smaller the foreskin, the more kids, those genes would continue so ever many hundreds of generations, no foreskin. The foreskin doesn't hamper reproduction so evolution doesn't select it out.

Evolution in humans is skewed anyway due to medicine. People survive to reproduce when in the wild they wouldn't have done.
It is still useful for protecting a sensitive part of the male genitalia and makes sex better.

You're just jealous you don't have one.
Firstly, you don't know if I have one or not. I don't think I've commented either way.

Secondly, isn't it a bit odd, that those that are the most vehemently anti circumcision haven't been circumcised, and indeed insult people who think there are bigger issues to worry about (like failure to address FGM) with the taunt "you've been circumcised so no wonder you're defending it".

Isn't it the wrong way around. Surely those who have been circumcised as children, should be vehemently anti, whereas people who haven't been cut should be the ones saying "what's all the fuss about?".

The main drivers of the anti FGM movement are women who have been victims. Why does that not follow thru for circumcision?



gooner1

10,223 posts

180 months

Tuesday 27th February 2018
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TwigtheWonderkid said:
Firstly, you don't know if I have one or not. I don't think I've commented either way.

Secondly, isn't it a bit odd, that those that are the most vehemently anti circumcision haven't been circumcised, and indeed insult people who think there are bigger issues to worry about (like failure to address FGM) with the taunt "you've been circumcised so no wonder you're defending it".


Isn't it the wrong way around. Surely those who have been circumcised as children, should be vehemently anti, whereas people who haven't been cut should be the ones saying "what's all the fuss about?".

The main drivers of the anti FGM movement are women who have been victims. Why does that not follow thru for circumcision?
Does one have to drunk to be anti drink driving?
You are vehemently anti FGM, rightly so, from, I'd hazard a guess that yoy are free
that particular horror.