Is this homophobia dressed up as parents' rights?

Is this homophobia dressed up as parents' rights?

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markcoznottz

7,155 posts

225 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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Previous said:
My first thought was that there is a little irony here, in that a group which, at least in the narrative of the general media, seemingly dont always like to respect the views of others are gtting upset that other people aren't respecting their views (applies equally to most religious groups).

Thinking about this in a wider context though I do wonder if LGBT issues are being over represented presently, when compared with the proportion of the population that identifies with being LGBT;

2017 ONS data suggests that over 93% of the UK population identify as heterosexual, 4% didnt respond. Only under 2% identified as gay or lesbian, and less than 1% as bisexual.

Similar to the recent concerns of the Tavistock centre, in that some young people are being fast tracked, coached, and encouraged to transition when in fact they shouldnt be (other issues at play effectively being mis diagnosed, coupled with powerful LGTB lobby groups creating irreversible issues for those affected), I do wonder whether this sort of thing being promoted from age 4 onwards, couped with all of the other LGBT events and initiatives we see around us, will play a part in leading some young people to experiment and or question their sexuality when they otherwise wouldn't have done, and if this will lead to mental health ussues later in life.

With the obviois double entendre, sometimes it can feel like its being pushed down your throat...

Note: questioning sexuality isnt a bad thing in itself however its almost being taught that everyone should question themselves.

I'd far rather a system which teaches children to both question the world around them and to tolerate different views was installed, rather than focus on a specific group or topic (scrapping religious schools would likely be involved in that for a start, but thats a different topic entirely...)
Some people in identity politics make ££££ it's a business. Unfortunately the world isn't perfect, and some groups won't fit into thier imagined tick box world. If Muslims want to quietly opt out thier kids from it then that's thier right.

otolith

56,284 posts

205 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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markcoznottz said:
If Muslims want to quietly opt out thier kids from it then that's thier right.
Not from bits of the school curriculum, though they can homeschool if they want.

This is simple, old fashioned religiously inspired homophobia. Teaching kids that there are gay people and they should not be treated unfavourably because of it is not going to turn anyone gay.

Lucas CAV

3,025 posts

220 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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otolith said:
markcoznottz said:
If Muslims want to quietly opt out thier kids from it then that's thier right.
Not from bits of the school curriculum, though they can homeschool if they want.

This is simple, old fashioned religiously inspired homophobia. Teaching kids that there are gay people and they should not be treated unfavourably because of it is not going to turn anyone gay.
Not just that but PROMOTING gayness!
A lifestyle choice, presumably to these religious halfwits?

Countdown

39,997 posts

197 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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jeff m2 said:
So you are OK if your daughter comes home and freaks out because there is meat on the table, She has been told killing animals is wrong!
Which maybe it is, maybe it isn't.

But who should decide that for your family,
An alternative view -

The Church teaches that Homosexuality is evil. Your son./daughter comes home with a very negative view about homosexuals.
The School teaches that Homosexuality and heterosexuality are both acceptable. Your son/daughter comes home with an understanding that homosexuality and heterosexuality are both acceptable. one is not fundamentally better than the other. Both exist in the real world etc etc.

In relation to your example - schools aren't teaching that something is "WRONG". It's the church doing that.

kurt535

3,559 posts

118 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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jeff m2 said:
kurt535 said:
jeff m2 said:
Teachers with personal agendas shouldn't be teachers.
what's personal in wishing to reduce hatred towards another human being?
So you are OK if your daughter comes home and freaks out because there is meat on the table, She has been told killing animals is wrong!
Which maybe it is, maybe it isn't.

But who should decide that for your family,

Maybe get a handle on the spelling first, it's your tax money!
Going back to the 1980's we had a lad in our unit who had hidden he fact he was gay but got found out and thoroughly malleted by some blokes from another regt's company one night. We obviously saw the kicking results so paid them a return visit the following the weekend because we actually didn't care what sexuality he was as he was a very good soldier and didn't deserve the injuries they gave him. We got tagged 'queen lovers' for a while (as if we cared) but he never got beaten up again after that. So, if the children go home and ask their parents whats wrong with being gay/lesbian, etc, and, as they grow older, get to question religious beliefs place in a modern society and, as an outcome become more tolerant to a person who is different, then this head teacher deserves our thanks.

DanL

6,229 posts

266 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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jeff m2 said:
So you are OK if your daughter comes home and freaks out because there is meat on the table, She has been told killing animals is wrong!
Which maybe it is, maybe it isn't.

But who should decide that for your family,

Maybe get a handle on the spelling first, it's your tax money!
So, you’d rather your child wasn’t taught that homosexuality is OK. Right-o.

Fulmentaljack3t

111 posts

107 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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PurpleMoonlight said:
It's like a game of discrimination trumps.

Homosexuality trumps religion.

What trumps homosexuality?
Nicely demonstrating that you haven't understood the issue at all.

WonkeyDonkey

2,343 posts

104 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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Surely if they want to live in a backwards country they could go move to Pakistan or any middle eastern country that sees homosexuals lower than vermin.

Absolutely ridiculous that we pander to the mostly barbaric and totally backwards beliefs of the Muslim faith.

Fulmentaljack3t

111 posts

107 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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Previous said:
My first thought was that there is a little irony here, in that a group which, at least in the narrative of the general media, seemingly dont always like to respect the views of others are gtting upset that other people aren't respecting their views (applies equally to most religious groups).

Thinking about this in a wider context though I do wonder if LGBT issues are being over represented presently, when compared with the proportion of the population that identifies with being LGBT;

2017 ONS data suggests that over 93% of the UK population identify as heterosexual, 4% didnt respond. Only under 2% identified as gay or lesbian, and less than 1% as bisexual.

Similar to the recent concerns of the Tavistock centre, in that some young people are being fast tracked, coached, and encouraged to transition when in fact they shouldnt be (other issues at play effectively being mis diagnosed, coupled with powerful LGTB lobby groups creating irreversible issues for those affected), I do wonder whether this sort of thing being promoted from age 4 onwards, couped with all of the other LGBT events and initiatives we see around us, will play a part in leading some young people to experiment and or question their sexuality when they otherwise wouldn't have done, and if this will lead to mental health ussues later in life.

With the obviois double entendre, sometimes it can feel like its being pushed down your throat...

Note: questioning sexuality isnt a bad thing in itself however its almost being taught that everyone should question themselves.

I'd far rather a system which teaches children to both question the world around them and to tolerate different views was installed, rather than focus on a specific group or topic (scrapping religious schools would likely be involved in that for a start, but thats a different topic entirely...)
What this sample survey tells me is that people are still scared of openly identifying as LGBTQ+. There is still a lot of stigma attached to being one of these and it is still a dangerous world if you are one.
There is still a lot that needs to change within our culture to achieve true equality.


It isn't "almost taught that everyone should question their sexuality . That's a ridiculous notion.

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39,997 posts

197 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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WonkeyDonkey said:
Surely if they want to live in a backwards country they could go move to Pakistan or any middle eastern country that sees homosexuals lower than vermin.

Absolutely ridiculous that we pander to the mostly barbaric and totally backwards beliefs of the Muslim faith.
Talking about backwards beliefs...

I think you'd find similar views in a lot of countries outside Western Europe.....

Alucidnation

16,810 posts

171 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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Birmingham again,

Not sure why anyone is surprised really.

j_4m

1,574 posts

65 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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LaurasOtherHalf

21,429 posts

197 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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PurpleMoonlight said:
It's like a game of discrimination trumps.

Homosexuality trumps religion.

What trumps homosexuality?
Gender identity, have we not figured this out yet (although perhaps not as I thought religion trumps homosexuality-as long as it's not Christianity)?

Anyway, I sure am upset I wasn't taught homo/bi/transexuality at school, the world may have turned out such a better place had we have been...

TwigtheWonderkid

43,459 posts

151 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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jeff m2 said:
kurt535 said:
jeff m2 said:
Teachers with personal agendas shouldn't be teachers.
what's personal in wishing to reduce hatred towards another human being?
So you are OK if your daughter comes home and freaks out because there is meat on the table, She has been told killing animals is wrong!
Which maybe it is, maybe it isn't.

But who should decide that for your family,
They are not teaching that heterosexuality is wrong. They are teaching that homosexuality exists and people who are homosexuals shouldn't be ill treated because of it.

I'm a meat eater, but if my kids had come home from school telling me that being vegetarian was also fine, I'd think that was a good message. If I disagreed, and thought vegetarians were inferior beings to be shunned and abused, then that would make we a bit of a tt. And all the more reason for the school to reinforce a message that my kid's thick, backward dad was too stupid to realise.



Previous

1,453 posts

155 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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Fulmentaljack3t said:
There is still a lot that needs to change within our culture to achieve true equality.


It isn't "almost taught that everyone should question their sexuality . That's a ridiculous notion.
The first part, I agree with you.

The second is opinion:

Internal reports from the Tavistock and Portman NHS foundation, the NHS unit which runs the Gender Identity Development Service which helps young people with transitioning suggest that the department is failing to examine patients and is not properly investigating social and / or psychological factors before fast tracking transitions. It also suggests that some patients are coached on what to say to ensure they are "correctly" assessed to get on the fast track, with some patients having identical stories on how they discovered they need to transition.

In short the allegation is that vulnerable people are being helped to transition when in fact they should not be.

I'm not saying the two are linked but it does suggest some individuals are being pushed into courses of action which is not in their interest.

The point broadly was, in the same way that advertisers use multiple channels displying linked but slightly different brand messages to create immersive marketing campaigns, does this education course contribute to the spectrum of LGBTQ+ activities (awareness events etc) in a way that is designed to change behaviour (yes is probably the answer as thats its intent) and then, from that, what is the overall message that is being created: is it one of equality or promotion?

These parents are claiming to be concerned about the latter (although i dont deny that religious inspired bigotry likely plays a part).

Im sure that all of the different messages arent actually coordinated and therefore I doubt theres a planned message as such, however I dont think its rediculous to ask the question given the rate of societal change on this topic and especially so given that some of the people who work in this sector are expressing concerns on similar issues.







liam1986

2,121 posts

168 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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Countdown said:
WonkeyDonkey said:
Surely if they want to live in a backwards country they could go move to Pakistan or any middle eastern country that sees homosexuals lower than vermin.

Absolutely ridiculous that we pander to the mostly barbaric and totally backwards beliefs of the Muslim faith.
Talking about backwards beliefs...

I think you'd find similar views in a lot of countries outside Western Europe.....
Is what you're trying to do called, diversion.

Shock horror. The holy book that islam is plagerised from is homophobic too.

Countdown

39,997 posts

197 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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liam1986 said:
Countdown said:
WonkeyDonkey said:
Surely if they want to live in a backwards country they could go move to Pakistan or any middle eastern country that sees homosexuals lower than vermin.

Absolutely ridiculous that we pander to the mostly barbaric and totally backwards beliefs of the Muslim faith.
Talking about backwards beliefs...

I think you'd find similar views in a lot of countries outside Western Europe.....
Is what you're trying to do called, diversion.

Shock horror. The holy book that islam is plagerised from is homophobic too.
I don’t think exposing hypocrisy is “diversion”. It’s a bit like animal welfare or women’s equality - certain posters such as yourself don’t appear to give a toss unless it’s “Ooooh...Muslims!”

Going back on topic - the UK is (IMO) well ahead of most of the rest of the world in terms of promoting “Equality” so we shouldn’t attempt to back down or try to placate people like this who are stuck in the last century.

Johnnytheboy

24,498 posts

187 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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Buggles said:
"Children are being told it's OK to be gay yet 98 per cent of children at this school are Muslim. It's a Muslim community...
So if I drew a Venn Diagram there's no intersection between being born into a Muslim household and turning out to be gay?


Riiiiiight.....

Ridgemont

6,608 posts

132 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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Johnnytheboy said:
Buggles said:
"Children are being told it's OK to be gay yet 98 per cent of children at this school are Muslim. It's a Muslim community...
So if I drew a Venn Diagram there's no intersection between being born into a Muslim household and turning out to be gay?


Riiiiiight.....
To be fair that intersection may well be entitled ‘to be thrown off a tall building and if survives to be stoned to death’ depending on which Hadith you read.

https://archive.islamonline.net/?p=659

Which may well be the reason for requiring the lessons in the first place.



Edited by Ridgemont on Sunday 3rd March 19:26

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 3rd March 2019
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Do faith schools in general have an exemption on this?

(not that they should)