Organ donation.

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Blackpuddin

16,545 posts

206 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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chow pan toon said:
Exige77 said:
chow pan toon said:
Stay in Bed Instead said:
Who is to say it will stop at organs.

If the government can harvest your organs for someone else's benefit why not your assets too?
WhAt If ThEy TaKe AlL mY tHiNgS
If you only had to opt out to stop them taking your stuff, I bet everybody wouldn’t have a problem smile
I did laugh at SIBI saying we should have a referendum when he couldn't be arsed to vote in the Brexit one.
The guy is a buffoon.

chow pan toon

12,387 posts

238 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Blackpuddin said:
Bill said:
Agammemnon said:
How about I just presume the best use of your intestacy & do with your estate as I see fit?
You're being silly now.
I couldn't be bothered pointing out the ridiculousness of this house analogy.
If my family were planning on having my house burned after I died then I'd rather they gave it to the local tramp tbh.

Bill

52,809 posts

256 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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chow pan toon said:
If my family were planning on having my house burned after I died then I'd rather they gave it to the local tramp tbh.
But not the government! They can prise my liver out of my cold, dead... Ah.

Agammemnon

1,628 posts

59 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Bill said:
Agammemnon said:
How about I just presume the best use of your intestacy & do with your estate as I see fit?
You're being silly now.
The principle is identical- you won't need it, I presume consent to use it as I see fit.

amusingduck

9,398 posts

137 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Bill said:
chow pan toon said:
If my family were planning on having my house burned after I died then I'd rather they gave it to the local tramp tbh.
But not the government! They can prise my liver out of my cold, dead... Ah.
Are there rewards for guessing how you died? biggrin

Derek Smith

45,682 posts

249 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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TorqueVR said:
My dad died some years ago after a brain haemorrhage on a Saturday evening and spent the last three days unconscious on a ventilator. My mum and brother were quite shocked when I suggested organ donation on the Sunday, but having slept on it they both agreed on the Monday that it was good idea. Dad passed away on the Tuesday and the hospital took is corneas, kidneys, liver and one or other bits (can't remember which). Within a few days we were informed that all the parts had been used and a couple of months later the hospital forwarded a letter from the recipient of a kidney (with the name and address redacted). He was a 35 year old married man with a three year old and another on the way, and was facing certain death without a transplant and it still chokes me up. Mum had suffered from kidney issues for years and later that same year her name came up and she ha a transplant, which to her 100% justified giving consent to donate dad's organs. So, a young man was given a new lease of life and his his wife had a husband and his two kids had a father, and then my mum later another 16 years before she died.

Donation is an absolute no-brainer, but if you don't want to give then don't expect to receive and let someone else benefit.
When my father died after a six-week battle in hospital, my brother and I were approached by a doctor with regards organ donation. Despite it being my father's wish, the NOK had to agree in those days. We said yes of course, and the doctor mentioned eyes, presumably corneas. My brother pointed out that my father wore variofocals, and the doctor said that to the recipient, the option of blindness or glasses was a no-brainer. We got a letter from the hospital saying that two people were now now longer blind, and one other organ (I've forgotten which) was used but, unfortunately, the others they intended harvesting were unsuitable (not explained). We got no details of the recipients.

I would have doubted the good news, which was read out at his funeral, if the negative side hadn't been included. I got scarce comfort at the time from the donation, but later it was strangely reassuring, and apt, that a very generous and helpful man was generous and helpful after death.

My wife and I want to be on the harvester list. What can we lose? The pall-bears will also benefit.

Even if some nerd refuses on the grounds that they want to be stroppy, they'll be dead, so it won't be of any weird satisfaction to them.

Derek Smith

45,682 posts

249 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Agammemnon said:
The principle is identical- you won't need it, I presume consent to use it as I see fit.
You are really rather odd. Not only in your total selfishness, but in your parade of it. I have nothing but contempt for your attitude, as well as your nonsensical reasoning.

Agammemnon

1,628 posts

59 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Derek Smith said:
You are really rather odd. Not only in your total selfishness, but in your parade of it. I have nothing but contempt for your attitude, as well as your nonsensical reasoning.
How fortunate your views don't matter.

I'm uncertain as to how thinking everyone should be left in peace can be considered selfish but I'm not really interested in your opinion.

Stay in Bed Instead

22,362 posts

158 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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It never takes long on a PH thread for some to start throwing insults at those they disagree with.

Agammemnon

1,628 posts

59 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.
C. S. Lewis

Exige77

6,518 posts

192 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Agammemnon said:
Bill said:
Agammemnon said:
How about I just presume the best use of your intestacy & do with your estate as I see fit?
You're being silly now.
The principle is identical- you won't need it, I presume consent to use it as I see fit.
It’s not the same at all.

Your assets have a value that will be left to your next of Kin or your chosen inheritors but your organs only have value to a sick person who is a match.


amusingduck

9,398 posts

137 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Agammemnon said:
It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.
C. S. Lewis

Exige77

6,518 posts

192 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Agammemnon said:
It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.
C. S. Lewis
You’re confirming your strangeness now smile

Are you a Free Man Of The Land ?

Blackpuddin

16,545 posts

206 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Agammemnon said:
How fortunate your views don't matter.

I'm uncertain as to how thinking everyone should be left in peace can be considered selfish but I'm not really interested in your opinion.
You won't be left 'in peace'. You will be dead. You will no longer exist. It's really not that hard to grasp.

Blackpuddin

16,545 posts

206 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Exige77 said:
Agammemnon said:
Bill said:
Agammemnon said:
How about I just presume the best use of your intestacy & do with your estate as I see fit?
You're being silly now.
The principle is identical- you won't need it, I presume consent to use it as I see fit.
It’s not the same at all.

Your assets have a value that will be left to your next of Kin or your chosen inheritors but your organs only have value to a sick person who is a match.
I was going to say that you're flogging a dead horse there but thought there might be an objection based on cruelty to a dead thing.

Agammemnon

1,628 posts

59 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Blackpuddin said:
You won't be left 'in peace'. You will be dead. You will no longer exist. It's really not that hard to grasp.
I'm currently alive- please take my word for that. The decision has been made behind my back whilst I'm alive & I resent the presumption.

As said previously: it's not about the merits of donation, it's about taking without asking.

Oakey

27,592 posts

217 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Blackpuddin said:
You won't be left 'in peace'. You will be dead. You will no longer exist. It's really not that hard to grasp.
Depends on your definition of 'dead'?

anonymous-user

55 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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opt out then, FFS it's not difficult.

Agammemnon

1,628 posts

59 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Exige77 said:
You’re confirming your strangeness now smile

Are you a Free Man Of The Land ?
No, just someone who wants to left in peace to mind his own business (provided I harm no-one else) & who believes everyone else should be entitled to the same.

Agammemnon

1,628 posts

59 months

Tuesday 25th February 2020
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Thesprucegoose said:
opt out then, FFS it's not difficult.
The whole point is that I shouldn't have to.