Enjoying Retirement

Enjoying Retirement

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Armitage.Shanks

2,279 posts

86 months

Tuesday 24th May 2022
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I've just been having my old MG part painted and the painter can't quite get the bonnet shade right to match the rest. Normally I'd have lived with it but my wife's close friends husband (similar age to me) had a stroke this morning, currently in hospital undergoing treatment.

I thought WTF and told the painter to do the whole car! Yes it's more money than I intended paying but it's no good just being sat in the bank if fate comes along dealing you a bad hand.

plenty

4,693 posts

187 months

Tuesday 24th May 2022
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j4r4lly said:
I'm really keen to retire and have loads of things I want to do, most of which are not going to cost lots of money. She however, is genuinely in a quandary as to what she's going to do in retirement (she's 7 years younger than me so may work a little longer after I retire) and worries that she will be bored.

We've discussed part time work, charity work, taking up sports and hobbies (some of which we'd obviously do together) but she just can't see something at the moment that makes her want to retire and start a new part of our life, other than the desire not to work full time anymore.
If she enjoys her work, why retire?

If it's about mirroring your lifestyle and not being part of the 9-5 office grind, can she parlay her expertise and contacts into a self-employed/consultant type of role?

RDMcG

19,176 posts

208 months

Tuesday 24th May 2022
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Worth keeping your financial plans up to date for what is likely to be a sustained period of inflation. I do think we are heading straight into stagflation.

I still work a fair bit at 73 because I enjoy it, but younger spouse could be around a fair time after my popping my clogs so I take a fairly long view.

where I live in Canada for instance the insane increase in house prices cashed to a halt in line with interest rate increases and those with mortgages will see a great increase in future expenses.

TwigtheWonderkid

43,400 posts

151 months

Tuesday 24th May 2022
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Anyone living in the London area got plans to explore Crossrail, which opened today? Think I might do it on Thursday, go from Paddington to canary Wharf, check out all the new stations.

It's great, this retirement lark.

mikeiow

5,378 posts

131 months

Tuesday 24th May 2022
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TwigtheWonderkid said:
Anyone living in the London area got plans to explore Crossrail, which opened today? Think I might do it on Thursday, go from Paddington to canary Wharf, check out all the new stations.

It's great, this retirement lark.
Currently too busy cycling….day 4 of our 7 day adventure, & today was brutal! 1,700m climbing, 65miles and a snapped chain midday….but beats working for a living, & raising a few pennies for a local rescue charity for a warm fuzzy feeling!!

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

199 months

Tuesday 24th May 2022
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TwigtheWonderkid said:
Anyone living in the London area got plans to explore Crossrail, which opened today? Think I might do it on Thursday, go from Paddington to canary Wharf, check out all the new stations.

It's great, this retirement lark.
Do it quickly - RMT voted for a full on strike this evening. The joy of unionism.

alscar

4,144 posts

214 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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Fun drive out to the Cotswolds for lunch at hotel with old friend.
Traffic bad on way home - couldn’t have cared less !

OldSkoolRS

6,754 posts

180 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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Sat in the sunshine visiting friends at their villa in Spain. We’re just on a short break, but I suddenly had the thought: At least I don’t have to back to work next week. smile

Reading another thread, I’ve decided that I must have retired from ‘work’ because the jobs I plan to do are what I consider enjoyable, so occasionally I might go to ‘fun’ rather than ‘work’.

Louis Balfour

26,295 posts

223 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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alscar said:
Fun drive out to the Cotswolds for lunch at hotel with old friend.
Traffic bad on way home - couldn’t have cared less !
Ah, three bottles for lunch was it?

12TS

1,852 posts

211 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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TwigtheWonderkid said:
Anyone living in the London area got plans to explore Crossrail, which opened today? Think I might do it on Thursday, go from Paddington to canary Wharf, check out all the new stations.

It's great, this retirement lark.
Well worth it. I had a few rides yesterday and there was a bit of an Olympics happy vibe to the whole thing.

Interesting to hear about the Canadian property market, I'm hoping that ours will cool too. I want to move to a better house, but the more prices go up here the more I'll have to fund from my pension pot.

alscar

4,144 posts

214 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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Ah, three bottles for lunch was it?

Two actually - one of tomato juice and one of bottled water.

timberman

1,284 posts

216 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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TwigtheWonderkid said:
Anyone living in the London area got plans to explore Crossrail, which opened today? Think I might do it on Thursday, go from Paddington to canary Wharf, check out all the new stations.

It's great, this retirement lark.
If this is the new Elizebeth line you're referring to, my daughter's given it the thumbs up as it means she can reach certain parts of London a lot faster and easier now.

200Plus Club

10,772 posts

279 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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Sobering thoughts today as a chap who used to work for us died suddenly at 64 within the first year of his retirement. Sat in the sunshine outside his retirement caravan holiday home.

GT3Manthey

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4,524 posts

50 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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200Plus Club said:
Sobering thoughts today as a chap who used to work for us died suddenly at 64 within the first year of his retirement. Sat in the sunshine outside his retirement caravan holiday home.
Sorry to hear this but you’re so right , very sobering.

I’m sat in the Gran Meliá hotel in Tenerife right now on holiday with the family .

Lovely hotel .
Just gotta work out how I afford it once retired !

lrdisco

1,452 posts

88 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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It is very sobering to see friends and colleagues pass away. This has happened to me a lot recently.

Im in Spain currently and after a lot of man maths and with a bit of hard work over the next 3 years we can buy a nice 3 bedroom villa here , keep our uk properties and retire with an income of £50,000.

Not totally without risk as we would holiday let our UK properties but surely a lot nicer way to spend my time from 53 years old.
I would keep an eye on another investment in the uk as well.

Not total retirement but based on a total financial worth of £1.2 million it’s a lot less than people seem to think is the minimum.
One of the UK holiday let’s would have an attached apartment for us to use.

GT3Manthey

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4,524 posts

50 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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lrdisco said:
It is very sobering to see friends and colleagues pass away. This has happened to me a lot recently.

Im in Spain currently and after a lot of man maths and with a bit of hard work over the next 3 years we can buy a nice 3 bedroom villa here , keep our uk properties and retire with an income of 50,000.

Not totally without risk as we would holiday let our UK properties but surely a lot nicer way to spend my time from 53 years old.
I would keep an eye on another investment in the uk as well.

Not total retirement but based on a total financial worth of 1.2 million it’s a lot less than people seem to think is the minimum.
One of the UK holiday let’s would have an attached apartment for us to use.
4k a month with no debts is a good number as a start and maybe you can add on with some part time work ?

Of the ‘net worth of 1.2mln’ how much of that is liquid IE not tied up in assets ?

Edited by GT3Manthey on Wednesday 25th May 20:11

vulture1

12,227 posts

180 months

Wednesday 25th May 2022
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GT3Manthey said:
lrdisco said:
It is very sobering to see friends and colleagues pass away. This has happened to me a lot recently.

Im in Spain currently and after a lot of man maths and with a bit of hard work over the next 3 years we can buy a nice 3 bedroom villa here , keep our uk properties and retire with an income of 50,000.

Not totally without risk as we would holiday let our UK properties but surely a lot nicer way to spend my time from 53 years old.
I would keep an eye on another investment in the uk as well.

Not total retirement but based on a total financial worth of 1.2 million it’s a lot less than people seem to think is the minimum.
One of the UK holiday let’s would have an attached apartment for us to use.
4k a month with no debts is a good number as a start and maybe you can add on with some part time work ?

Of the ‘net worth of 1.2mln’ how much of that is liquid IE not tied up in assets ?

Edited by GT3Manthey on Wednesday 25th May 20:11
God if you cant make 4k a month with no debts and property all paid off im not sure what hope there is for most of us.

dmahon

2,717 posts

65 months

Thursday 26th May 2022
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lrdisco said:
It is very sobering to see friends and colleagues pass away. This has happened to me a lot recently.

Im in Spain currently and after a lot of man maths and with a bit of hard work over the next 3 years we can buy a nice 3 bedroom villa here , keep our uk properties and retire with an income of 50,000.

Not totally without risk as we would holiday let our UK properties but surely a lot nicer way to spend my time from 53 years old.
I would keep an eye on another investment in the uk as well.

Not total retirement but based on a total financial worth of 1.2 million it’s a lot less than people seem to think is the minimum.
One of the UK holiday let’s would have an attached apartment for us to use.
I don’t think many people think a net worth of 1.2 million isn’t adequate to retire on!

Even if it’s not totally liquid today, with later downsizing pretty much anyone could make that work.


GT03ROB

13,268 posts

222 months

Thursday 26th May 2022
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dmahon said:
lrdisco said:
It is very sobering to see friends and colleagues pass away. This has happened to me a lot recently.

Im in Spain currently and after a lot of man maths and with a bit of hard work over the next 3 years we can buy a nice 3 bedroom villa here , keep our uk properties and retire with an income of 50,000.

Not totally without risk as we would holiday let our UK properties but surely a lot nicer way to spend my time from 53 years old.
I would keep an eye on another investment in the uk as well.

Not total retirement but based on a total financial worth of 1.2 million it’s a lot less than people seem to think is the minimum.
One of the UK holiday let’s would have an attached apartment for us to use.
I don’t think many people think a net worth of 1.2 million isn’t adequate to retire on!

Even if it’s not totally liquid today, with later downsizing pretty much anyone could make that work.
Can I introduce you to someone........ my wife.... biggrin

GT3Manthey

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4,524 posts

50 months

Thursday 26th May 2022
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GT03ROB said:
Can I introduce you to someone........ my wife.... biggrin
This is the bit that slightly concerns me .

She is ‘live for today’ and I’m not so it’s going to take a while to drum in where we need to be