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Hugo Stiglitz

37,129 posts

211 months

Sunday 4th July 2021
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Plenty like that, my uncle once said bitterly to me 'no one gave me anything'. Full of spite for all.

He'd been set up in business years ago by a family member....

fridaypassion

8,563 posts

228 months

Sunday 4th July 2021
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Dynion Araf Uchaf said:
Quite like this one in a nouveau riche kind of way
Tattenhall, Cheshire
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/property/109001648

Positives it’s quite near Oulton park and has a double garage
That should be on the other thread it has no place here!

mike74

3,687 posts

132 months

Monday 5th July 2021
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fridaypassion said:
Dynion Araf Uchaf said:
Quite like this one in a nouveau riche kind of way
Tattenhall, Cheshire
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/property/109001648

Positives it’s quite near Oulton park and has a double garage
That should be on the other thread it has no place here!
I like that and wouldn't say it's nouveau riche or footballers wives, I think it's quite tasteful and understated.

CharlesdeGaulle

26,265 posts

180 months

Monday 5th July 2021
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mike74 said:
I've got a relative who owns 4 houses all now in very shabby condition and all filled floor to ceiling with stuff, some of it rubbish and other stuff brand new unused (but now decades old) that he just bought for buying sake and hoarded away over the years, has around 8 cars and 2 motorbikes that I know of, all unused and rusting away.

He's still easily worth over £1m despite all the money he's frittered away and wasted, I reckon if he'd been a bit more astute throughout his life he could have multiplied that several times over.

But there's no sympathy from me, he doesn't appear to suffer from any obvious mental illness or had any past trauma in his life to account for his behaviour.

As far as I can see he just suffers from extreme selfishness and self indulgence, wasting huge sums of money over the years indulging his buying/accumulating of st he doesn't need habit, whilst standing by and watching other younger relatives struggle financially.
What am I missing? You have a wealthy relative that spends his own money as he chooses, is not ill but doesn't get your sympathy...? And why should he be giving money away to relatives instead of 'buying st he doesn't need'?

Seems as though the attitude problem here might be yours, n'est pas?

mike74

3,687 posts

132 months

Monday 5th July 2021
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CharlesdeGaulle said:
What am I missing? You have a wealthy relative that spends his own money as he chooses, is not ill but doesn't get your sympathy...? And why should he be giving money away to relatives instead of 'buying st he doesn't need'?

Seems as though the attitude problem here might be yours, n'est pas?
I was replying to the poster who said he always felt a tinge of sadness at people living in shabby houses often crammed full of stuff, as though they all have some sad, tragic or traumatic story or mental illness which accounts for their living circumstances.

I was simply pointing out that it isn't always the case and sometimes people live like that through choice even though they could have a much better standard of living and could use their money far more wisely and productively to improve their own or other peoples lives.


CharlesdeGaulle

26,265 posts

180 months

Monday 5th July 2021
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mike74 said:
I was replying to the poster who said he always felt a tinge of sadness at people living in shabby houses often crammed full of stuff, as though they all have some sad, tragic or traumatic story or mental illness which accounts for their living circumstances.

I was simply pointing out that it isn't always the case and sometimes people live like that through choice even though they could have a much better standard of living and could use their money far more wisely and productively to improve their own or other peoples lives.
Ah, gotcha. Good point.

parakitaMol.

11,876 posts

251 months

Monday 5th July 2021
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CharlesdeGaulle said:
mike74 said:
I've got a relative who owns 4 houses all now in very shabby condition and all filled floor to ceiling with stuff, some of it rubbish and other stuff brand new unused (but now decades old) that he just bought for buying sake and hoarded away over the years, has around 8 cars and 2 motorbikes that I know of, all unused and rusting away.

He's still easily worth over £1m despite all the money he's frittered away and wasted, I reckon if he'd been a bit more astute throughout his life he could have multiplied that several times over.

But there's no sympathy from me, he doesn't appear to suffer from any obvious mental illness or had any past trauma in his life to account for his behaviour.

As far as I can see he just suffers from extreme selfishness and self indulgence, wasting huge sums of money over the years indulging his buying/accumulating of st he doesn't need habit, whilst standing by and watching other younger relatives struggle financially.
What am I missing? You have a wealthy relative that spends his own money as he chooses, is not ill but doesn't get your sympathy...? And why should he be giving money away to relatives instead of 'buying st he doesn't need'?

Seems as though the attitude problem here might be yours, n'est pas?
Totally agree. Absolutely bk all to do with you what he spends his money on.

This is exactly the kind of ‘it’s not fair’ bullst that dominates our lives.



superlightr

12,856 posts

263 months

Tuesday 6th July 2021
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parakitaMol. said:
CharlesdeGaulle said:
mike74 said:
I've got a relative who owns 4 houses all now in very shabby condition and all filled floor to ceiling with stuff, some of it rubbish and other stuff brand new unused (but now decades old) that he just bought for buying sake and hoarded away over the years, has around 8 cars and 2 motorbikes that I know of, all unused and rusting away.

He's still easily worth over £1m despite all the money he's frittered away and wasted, I reckon if he'd been a bit more astute throughout his life he could have multiplied that several times over.

But there's no sympathy from me, he doesn't appear to suffer from any obvious mental illness or had any past trauma in his life to account for his behaviour.

As far as I can see he just suffers from extreme selfishness and self indulgence, wasting huge sums of money over the years indulging his buying/accumulating of st he doesn't need habit, whilst standing by and watching other younger relatives struggle financially.
What am I missing? You have a wealthy relative that spends his own money as he chooses, is not ill but doesn't get your sympathy...? And why should he be giving money away to relatives instead of 'buying st he doesn't need'?

Seems as though the attitude problem here might be yours, n'est pas?
Totally agree. Absolutely bk all to do with you what he spends his money on.

This is exactly the kind of ‘it’s not fair’ bullst that dominates our lives.
yep if he wants to spend money on fast cars, plastic tat, holidays, pot plants or coke n hookers then up to him. Selfish and self indulgent? - so what! - if it makes him happy then its of no one else business.

I Dont understand the need to tell other people what to do with their money. must be a meddling/ politician trait

FourWheelDrift

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88,522 posts

284 months

Friday 9th July 2021
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Doofus

25,819 posts

173 months

Friday 9th July 2021
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FourWheelDrift said:
fk me...

mfmman

2,390 posts

183 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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FourWheelDrift said:
Wonder if the prefab garage owners (blue doors) still have a right of access over 'your' gravel drive?

HM-2

12,467 posts

169 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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...why? I just don't get it. Who is the market that spends six hundred grand on an 80sqm cross between a static caravan and a garden shed in someone else's field in Bedfordshire?

Escort3500

11,905 posts

145 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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HM-2 said:
...why? I just don't get it. Who is the market that spends six hundred grand on an 80sqm cross between a static caravan and a garden shed in someone else's field in Bedfordshire?
Park home chic rofl

mfmman

2,390 posts

183 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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I think it's probably cladding around the pre-existing structure, but otherwise fully agree

FourWheelDrift

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88,522 posts

284 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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mfmman said:
I think it's probably cladding around the pre-existing structure, but otherwise fully agree
Looking at the paddock, I think they've evicted the sheep.

bimsb6

8,041 posts

221 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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FourWheelDrift said:
Thats near me !

FourWheelDrift

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88,522 posts

284 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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bimsb6 said:
FourWheelDrift said:
Thats near me !
Take a photo of it with you pointing and laughing. smile

FourWheelDrift

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88,522 posts

284 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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mfmman said:
Wonder if the prefab garage owners (blue doors) still have a right of access over 'your' gravel drive?
I guess so, but looking at the undisturbed grass and weeds in front of them from before the conversion they probably don't get used much. - https://goo.gl/maps/AhgYRDwSSn7Efiif8

bimsb6

8,041 posts

221 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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mfmman said:
I think it's probably cladding around the pre-existing structure, but otherwise fully agree
Says new build in the blurb

bimsb6

8,041 posts

221 months

Saturday 10th July 2021
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A few miles up the road there is this ! https://www.rightmove.co.uk/commercial-property-fo... Makes the shed look good value .
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