Locations to retire to and why?
Discussion
Do you think these days we almost "retire" twice?
Most people are pretty active at 60 and are for a good decade at least. I can see the desire to move to a rural/coastal spot when giving up work but with a view to moving back into a town a bit later.
As someone said you need better transport links and facilities as you stop being so mobile.
A rural idyl is not if you're stuck there.
Its almost like being kids - you resent the fields when your parents move you to the middle of nowhere because its "a better quality of life" but you can't get out. But when you're the adult with the transport then its "a better quality of life"!
I've been looking for a bolt hole for a year or so but where I want to be on the south coast and the price I want to pay don't seem compatible. Everyone got there first.
Also you can rent a cottage in some villages and find that noone actually lives there - they're all rentals!
Wales seems popular as the scenery is there but the prices aren't south of england. Yet maybe.
Most people are pretty active at 60 and are for a good decade at least. I can see the desire to move to a rural/coastal spot when giving up work but with a view to moving back into a town a bit later.
As someone said you need better transport links and facilities as you stop being so mobile.
A rural idyl is not if you're stuck there.
Its almost like being kids - you resent the fields when your parents move you to the middle of nowhere because its "a better quality of life" but you can't get out. But when you're the adult with the transport then its "a better quality of life"!
I've been looking for a bolt hole for a year or so but where I want to be on the south coast and the price I want to pay don't seem compatible. Everyone got there first.
Also you can rent a cottage in some villages and find that noone actually lives there - they're all rentals!
Wales seems popular as the scenery is there but the prices aren't south of england. Yet maybe.
Four strong recommendations :
found it difficult to settle and get to know the locals, then returned to their original 'home' location and old friends within two or three years.
- Do not leave it until the last minute before deciding to move to an unknown (to you) location. I am lucky enough to live in a glamorous/fashionable seaside village on the south coast, and have now been here for 36 years.
found it difficult to settle and get to know the locals, then returned to their original 'home' location and old friends within two or three years.
- If you are determined to move, 'try out' by renting for several vacations (including at least one session in the dark/wet/cold months) before making the big decision.
- In addition, get used to the fact that there may be few public transport services (very infrequent and inconvenient bus services), and no trains. Accordingly, you should factor in that you will certainly need at least one car, and wonder what you might have to do if that eventually becomes impossible.
- Oh yes, and make sure, absolutely sure, that there is at least one warm, welcoming, and thriving pub nearby, because that's a more reliable social centre than anything the local authorities will provide !
Edited by AAGR on Wednesday 11th October 22:42
Firstly sorry for dragging up an old thread but there are some interesting points here that will be a feature for me at some stage (hopefully) when i retire.
I'd like to retire at 55 and according to my FA i'm on track presently.
We own a small flat on the Essex Coast (Frinton on sea) and if it were just the two of us we'd have relocated by now and i'd most definitely have retired but few more years with the kids yet (one with school fees attached).
We spend as much of our time as possible there and absolutely love it but of course this is 'down time' not actual day to day living.
We figure a lock up and leave is ideal so we can travel and the view over the sea is amazing so we'd miss that if we sold it for a house just for when the kids decide they want to stay.
Anyhow going back to some of the posts here whats the downsides to coastal living on a full time basis?
We are active people and there is enough sports wise to do in the local area so especially during the summer i'm not concerned about fitness.
Plan is retirement in 3.5yrs all being well
I'd like to retire at 55 and according to my FA i'm on track presently.
We own a small flat on the Essex Coast (Frinton on sea) and if it were just the two of us we'd have relocated by now and i'd most definitely have retired but few more years with the kids yet (one with school fees attached).
We spend as much of our time as possible there and absolutely love it but of course this is 'down time' not actual day to day living.
We figure a lock up and leave is ideal so we can travel and the view over the sea is amazing so we'd miss that if we sold it for a house just for when the kids decide they want to stay.
Anyhow going back to some of the posts here whats the downsides to coastal living on a full time basis?
We are active people and there is enough sports wise to do in the local area so especially during the summer i'm not concerned about fitness.
Plan is retirement in 3.5yrs all being well
it would have be spain for me
somewhere theres a few brits, not too many, but enoiugh to turn to when you need help.
a ground floor apartment in a modern community i would think,
There are some lovely parts of england but trudging through wet leaves for five months of the year, whilst feeling like your in a tupperware box drives me mental
somewhere theres a few brits, not too many, but enoiugh to turn to when you need help.
a ground floor apartment in a modern community i would think,
There are some lovely parts of england but trudging through wet leaves for five months of the year, whilst feeling like your in a tupperware box drives me mental
dirky dirk said:
it would have be spain for me
somewhere theres a few brits, not too many, but enoiugh to turn to when you need help.
a ground floor apartment in a modern community i would think,
There are some lovely parts of england but trudging through wet leaves for five months of the year, whilst feeling like your in a tupperware box drives me mental
Good point.somewhere theres a few brits, not too many, but enoiugh to turn to when you need help.
a ground floor apartment in a modern community i would think,
There are some lovely parts of england but trudging through wet leaves for five months of the year, whilst feeling like your in a tupperware box drives me mental
We have an owner of one of the flats that does 6 months Frinton On Sea and 6 months Tenerrife. Seems like a good balance to me although the missus wouldn't have it.
My parents retired to Torquay, both dead now unfortunately. My brother and I will soon inherit their Torquay apartment which at present is being rented out - but I have thought maybe one or other of us could retire there further down the line. It has a lovely harbour view, but is on a hill - Torquay is steep in places!
The parents used to use the lift in Hoopers or Debenhams department stores to get up and down from the harbour area, but how long are department stores likely to carry on trading? There's a very steep set of steps down to the harbour, which are not suitable for elderly folk. There is a walkway down, but coming back up is very tiring. You'd have to have an electric scooter to help you get around.
I'm looking to buy a bungalow in the village where I live in the next couple of years, as I've lived here a very long time. I'm thinking of not being able to climb stairs in my later years and my current house isn't suitable for an elderly person. I'm part of the community here and I could carry on with my dog walking and pet sitting duties well into old age.
The parents used to use the lift in Hoopers or Debenhams department stores to get up and down from the harbour area, but how long are department stores likely to carry on trading? There's a very steep set of steps down to the harbour, which are not suitable for elderly folk. There is a walkway down, but coming back up is very tiring. You'd have to have an electric scooter to help you get around.
I'm looking to buy a bungalow in the village where I live in the next couple of years, as I've lived here a very long time. I'm thinking of not being able to climb stairs in my later years and my current house isn't suitable for an elderly person. I'm part of the community here and I could carry on with my dog walking and pet sitting duties well into old age.
V8mate said:
Lots of nice places mentioned.
One (easily overlooked?) thing which means I'd never move above a line joining the Severn estuary with the Wash: rain.
I realise that not everyone would be put off by it, but I find it makes for a truly miserable existence.
You are absolutely correct! I live just north of Rochdale, Rossendale valley, and my sister lives in Snowdonia. Wet wet wet. I don't actually perceive much difference in the rainfall between the two. It gets depressing.One (easily overlooked?) thing which means I'd never move above a line joining the Severn estuary with the Wash: rain.
I realise that not everyone would be put off by it, but I find it makes for a truly miserable existence.
I'd like to stay here in this house, it's perfect (if a bit too big), however for us the factor is "white flight" and we need to get out in the next few years. I want something north Yorks, Northumbria, relatively close to a town/facilities (for when you're old) but not in a town and no immediate neighbours. The good thing is that wherever we go the weather will be better
condor said:
My parents retired to Torquay, both dead now unfortunately. My brother and I will soon inherit their Torquay apartment which at present is being rented out - but I have thought maybe one or other of us could retire there further down the line. It has a lovely harbour view, but is on a hill - Torquay is steep in places!
The parents used to use the lift in Hoopers or Debenhams department stores to get up and down from the harbour area, but how long are department stores likely to carry on trading? There's a very steep set of steps down to the harbour, which are not suitable for elderly folk. There is a walkway down, but coming back up is very tiring. You'd have to have an electric scooter to help you get around.
I'm looking to buy a bungalow in the village where I live in the next couple of years, as I've lived here a very long time. I'm thinking of not being able to climb stairs in my later years and my current house isn't suitable for an elderly person. I'm part of the community here and I could carry on with my dog walking and pet sitting duties well into old age.
Ah i forgot to mention our flat is on the 2nd floor but then we have a lovely view which i'd not want to be without but then the stairs may be a consideration at some stage. The parents used to use the lift in Hoopers or Debenhams department stores to get up and down from the harbour area, but how long are department stores likely to carry on trading? There's a very steep set of steps down to the harbour, which are not suitable for elderly folk. There is a walkway down, but coming back up is very tiring. You'd have to have an electric scooter to help you get around.
I'm looking to buy a bungalow in the village where I live in the next couple of years, as I've lived here a very long time. I'm thinking of not being able to climb stairs in my later years and my current house isn't suitable for an elderly person. I'm part of the community here and I could carry on with my dog walking and pet sitting duties well into old age.
We have great communal gardens that are maintained brilliantly and a garage for a classic car at some stage. I figure apartment living is hassle free and given where we are located very safe
Julia121 said:
We're going to live in hotels for a few years and rent out our house and see if we like the life. I've met quite a few like minded people and they've got few complaints.
I suppose if you are full time in a suite then no so bad. I'm assuming you chuck all your kit into a laundry service ?
FocusRS3 said:
Julia121 said:
We're going to live in hotels for a few years and rent out our house and see if we like the life. I've met quite a few like minded people and they've got few complaints.
I suppose if you are full time in a suite then no so bad. I'm assuming you chuck all your kit into a laundry service ?
FocusRS3 said:
So my question to those that have moved to the coast is does it get you down in the winter?
I moved here with plans to retire in the distant future so i got in early and am sorting out the house as i would like it while i can.
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