Neighbourly Issues

[romeogolf]

bennno said:

Op hasn't managed his relationship especially well with the neighbour.

I'm curious about this statement. What makes you think I've not managed it well with him?

[romeogolf]

bennno said:

I'd suggest the situation you now find yourself in is evidence you've not managed it well with him.

A conversation over a fence in May followed by a text the night before asking if he'd like to liase with your trades over access would result in 99% of people telling you to do one.

I think I mentioned it further up, but if not, for clarity this conversation happened initially in last summer, again in around March, once again in May, and then finally by text the day before as a confirmation of what was previously discussed. And, for absolute clarity, it had been agreed previously what would be brought over and the guys doing it just went round to confirm dates/times as they knew their schedule best and were going to work around him if needed.

There's a fine line between keeping someone updated and becoming a nag, and I didn't want to be the latter seeing as it was him doing a favour.