Losing Felix

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tim2100

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6,280 posts

258 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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My boy cat, Felix, has been wheezing for a few days now, and looked like he was struggling to breath Sunday night, so have taken him to vets yesterday morning, The vet took him in for a X=ray so I left him with the vets.

Called vet yesterday afternoon to find out the progress. He has a swelling by his larynx which is restricting the flow through his windpipe.
The vet only realised when putting the pipe down his throat whilst sedated.
So as he is over 12 years old, there is slim chance of successful surgery so its now the beginning of the end. The vet gave him a steroid injection to see if that will make the swelling go down. Unfortunately he has declined over the last 24 hours.
I can see the pain in every breath that he takes. Each breath is more and more difficult.
So I am now stuck. I don't want to lose him but I don't want him to be in pain. I now need to make the decision of when to put him to sleep at the vets.

Crappy phone picture from last night.

2012-12-10 23.06.56 by Tim2100, on Flickr

tr7v8

7,192 posts

229 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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Sad to hear, they all get to this point sooner or later then it is a painful decision. You'll know when the time is right. The fact is that although it is the right decision it makes it no easier. All the best Felix...

tim2100

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6,280 posts

258 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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I'm going to take him for a 2nd opinion. Hopefully they can do something for him.

ali_kat

31,992 posts

222 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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frown Fingers crossed for you both!

mrmaggit

10,146 posts

249 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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Here too.

DKL

4,498 posts

223 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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tim2100 said:
I'm going to take him for a 2nd opinion. Hopefully they can do something for him.
Definitely. I'd be surprised if they won't operate just because of his age and hopefully the area is fairly accessible. Best of luck

tim2100

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6,280 posts

258 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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DKL said:
tim2100 said:
I'm going to take him for a 2nd opinion. Hopefully they can do something for him.
Definitely. I'd be surprised if they won't operate just because of his age and hopefully the area is fairly accessible. Best of luck
Been to another vet. He thinks it is the Laryngeal paralysis, the laryngeal muscles have given up. So they have taken him in overnight, put him in an oxygen chamber and sedated him. He looked a bit more settled when we left.

They will have a look down his throat tomorrow to work out if it is cancerous or operable. So more news tomorrow. If it is the Laryngeal muscles that have collapsed he will try and suture it which should be a permanent fix.

It was heart retching seeing him on the table today. Normally he is very alert and will try to escape in the vets and hide in a corner. He just lay there frown.

Slink

2,947 posts

173 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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12 isnt really too old to operate on a cat, an 12 isnt that old really.

my cat had a few teeth out at about 14, and she was fine.

but that might be different with your cat, but I dont think that they will die just being 12 y/o.

21, now thats too old to operate on a cat.

but at the end of the day, personally, I would operate, as then you are giving a chance of life, rather than just certain death.

DKL

4,498 posts

223 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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tim2100 said:
Been to another vet. He thinks it is the Laryngeal paralysis, the laryngeal muscles have given up. So they have taken him in overnight, put him in an oxygen chamber and sedated him. He looked a bit more settled when we left.

They will have a look down his throat tomorrow to work out if it is cancerous or operable. So more news tomorrow. If it is the Laryngeal muscles that have collapsed he will try and suture it which should be a permanent fix.

It was heart retching seeing him on the table today. Normally he is very alert and will try to escape in the vets and hide in a corner. He just lay there frown.
A bit more encouraging. We'll keep our fingers crossed for you both.

Superficial

753 posts

175 months

Tuesday 11th December 2012
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Sorry to hear you are in this situation. Really hope the 2nd vet can offer a solution, disappointing that vet number 1 didn't investigate further. Felix isn't really old for a cat, I regularly see cats who are well into their late teens and even 20/21, so here's to hoping they can do something for your boy.

tim2100

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6,280 posts

258 months

Wednesday 12th December 2012
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Bad news.

The Vet had a close look and the growth is behind is larynx. When he put the pipe down his throat his breathing drastically improved. They can just see the growth with an endoscopic camera.
The only way to resolve is to remove his larynx which makes him at risk of water and food going into his lungs, of fit a Tracheotomy. Unfortunately as Felix is an active cat who loves being outdoors this could hold a massive risk. This is not a risk free operation and then will stop him being himself.

Before he went under GA, he was struggling in the oxygen chamber.

The vet called me whilst Felix was under anesthetic. went through all the options. I don't want him to suffer any more than he needs to, so we made the decision to not let Felix wake up. weepingweepingweeping

His sister knows something is amiss and hasn't left my side since we got back yesterday. Over 12 years and they have never been apart.
Her and the other two may be getting a large bowl of Tuna tonight.

tr7v8

7,192 posts

229 months

Wednesday 12th December 2012
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So sad for you. RIP Felix.

SPR2

3,182 posts

197 months

Wednesday 12th December 2012
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Very sad. I remember many years ago a vet calling us when our elderly cat was under GA asking what we wanted to do and like yourself we decided not to let him wake up. It is an awful feeling but struggling under the oxygen chamber was not a good sign and I am sure you made the right decision. RIP Felix

mrmaggit

10,146 posts

249 months

Wednesday 12th December 2012
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Very sad, shame it had to end this way, but at least he won't be struggling for breath and possibly choking to death.

Hugs to the others.

ali_kat

31,992 posts

222 months

Wednesday 12th December 2012
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So sad, but we have to do what is best for them!

RIP Felix frown

DKL

4,498 posts

223 months

Wednesday 12th December 2012
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Not good news, sorry to hear it.

bexVN

14,682 posts

212 months

Wednesday 12th December 2012
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I'm so sorry to read your sad news, even more heartbreaking after thinking there was a chance to help him. You did all you could to help him but sadly he had a horrible problem and you the kindest (and right thing) RIP Felix

HOGEPH

5,249 posts

187 months

Wednesday 12th December 2012
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Always a difficult decision to make. I had to have one of my younger cats put to sleep a month or so ago, and it was a decision I didn't want to have to make. You did the right thing, can't have a loved pet in pain.

PinkRinse

365 posts

170 months

Thursday 13th December 2012
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Oh I am so sorry to hear the sad news. He was a very handsome little tux! Our cat Peg could have gone on, could have had more treatment and she was "only" 13 but the loss of condition, the loss of that spark in her eyes just brought it back to us what we had to do frown Its a hard decision but ultimately the right one.

Jasandjules

69,924 posts

230 months

Thursday 13th December 2012
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I am so sorry.